Silco

Here is my expansion on the nervous system introduction — again we are still laying the groundwork for understanding how trauma forms and presents in the body and mind.

I would like you all to know I haven't forgotten about this account or any of you. I have been experiencing a rather severe drought of executive function as of late that has prevented me from being able to post much. That being said, I still have several things brewing. Take care

@commandrkenzie I suppose I was merely saying it's worth celebrating having stopped/broken the cycle already, in addition to these feelings. I'm excited for you as well.

@commandrkenzie The cycle stops with you healing your own trauma, but I am excited for the life you want to provide your future children with as well.

I'm very glad.

If you want to see the depth of someone's emotional intelligence, confront them on something they did. Gently, with love. Not from a place of blame, but from a desire to be understood and met. Then watch what they do. How they respond will tell you everything.

Strange isn't it?

cultural appreciation is irrelevant in a context where there is a non-reciprocal vertical power dynamic where non-black people own the means of production to continue to exploit Black people for their cultural heritage — & sell it to a world of consumers with no capacity

@commandrkenzie I think so.

There have been many instances where people around me have extended grace and understanding that I failed to notice until much later. Today, I take time to appreciate those people. Even if I couldn't appreciate them at the time, those moments still stay with me today.

How to go No Contact (without spiralling) using Law of Detachment; Most ppl don’t know that detachment isn’t just about releasing a person, it’s about releasing the story you’ve attached to them.

And the unwhole don’t just break hearts, they make others feel like they’re unlovable when, in truth, they were simply not enough of a mirror.

And when the answer becomes clear, walk. Bc staying will only train your nervous system to confuse inconsistency with chemistry… and that is the seed of every trauma bond. No, it’s not that they’re evil. It’s that they’re unwhole.

You’ll think you’re building something real. But you’re just scaffolding around their emptiness. So if you ever meet someone like this… don’t just listen to their words. Study them. Their history, how many ex’s check, how they check in. How many doors left opened.

They don’t want love. They want access & you are not a revolving door. The most terrifying ppl to encounter are validation seekers. Dopamine Nomads. They reflect who you want them to be… but there’s nothing behind the mirror. What they want is the high of being idealised.

Unfortunately, it has to be you that changes. It has to be you that decides to live a different life. It cannot be your ancestors, spirit, or even god. You are your own breakthrough. And you will absolutely break through.

@SilcoZaun @lokisladdie1232 @BubiTheSmore Good. 𝕊𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 about your Silco should remain a mystery.

@lokisladdie1232 @ZauniteTherapy @BubiTheSmore //You will never find me.

This is a clip from a post from Silco Zaun. “If you knew all I’ve done? The things I cannot change, Would you still love me all the same?” A thread 🧵:

@lokisladdie1232 Your observations in this thread are sound as well — I'm interested to see what else you come up with.

Thank you! End thread. 🧵

These are clips from a post by Silco Zaun. -Pronouns are interchangeable, depending on person or preference. Another thread!! 🧵

@lokisladdie1232 @BubiTheSmore @SilcoZaun It's interesting regardless, even if it tells me more about you than him. I will say, I believe there are some fans of his out there who have compiled a playlist of all the songs he's posted. I believe Phy has access to it if this would help you in your analysis.

@ZauniteTherapy @BubiTheSmore @SilcoZaun Oh, so it would be interesting if I uncovered who’s behind it?

@BubiTheSmore @lokisladdie1232 @SilcoZaun Never said it didn't.

@lokisladdie1232 @BubiTheSmore @SilcoZaun While I will read this other post, as far as I'm concerned, there is nothing worth analyzing about that man. He's an open children's book trying to convince everyone he's locked shut and is instead a dictionary in Latin. It 𝕨𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 be interesting if this led you to the admins.

@ZauniteTherapy @BubiTheSmore @SilcoZaun Thank you. I did another, and it’s on my page. Maybe I’ll do it on some other Silco posts! Not only Silco Zaun.