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@Ghostofrengoku So she has to be SEXY and DEHUMANIZED???? The problem is looking you dead in your face
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@Zeclares @ashleynamz but then why are you using it to reply to lumbogg can’t you use your main
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@lumbogg @ashleynamz I made an alt cuz that one dumb bitch who edits her pics blocked me
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@Zeclares @ashleynamz You made an alt account to reply to lumbogg from twitter
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i feel like ur intention is maybe good but there are things i feel like ur misunderstanding. first of all, my initial photo that i edited was seen by maybe a few thousand people. it barely cracked 200 likes before my deleting it. by the simple fact that my analytics show my audience is mostly men, there is a very low likelihood that any vulnerable women were affected by it. however, if there was a woman who was negatively affected or by any of my other posts, i am sorry for that. i just made an essay tweet giving my serious thoughts on the very real issue of toxic social media expectations/beauty standards and my part in it. if u gaf enough to read that i’d be happy to discuss the issue further.
secondly, i never “deflected” and tried to RT my own posts to distract the conversation. i had RT’d my own posts before ever posting the edited pic to begin with. i do that during breaks between posting to maintain engagement. u can see the same thing if u scroll my page. it’s completely unrelated.
the OP reposted my tweet TWICE to shame me, after i told her privately that my hip dips are a insecurity of mine. because of this, the “effect” of people being offended by me was 100000x fold. and yes, there were a 1000 people upset by it and flooding my comments. do u genuinely believe those people actually felt hurt or harmed by my posts? or are they dog piling on this situation because they jump at any opportunity to put a woman down? like genuinely i am happy to dm u all the vile shit i had to hide because of how hateful and misogynistic it was.
i love to discuss feminist issues and would’ve been happy to do so if that were the actual purpose of her tweet, but it just wasn’t. i just got into beef with incels like last week over the sykkuno bs. if u scroll through my tl u will see that all i do is defend and support other women, even if i don’t know them 😭. however, i wasn’t going to say “my bad for my poor edits” or apologize to boomie personally because she was trying to publicly shame me. she literally said her intention was to share it and laugh with her friends.
considering this, i really don’t understand where i went wrong in terms of “constantly deflecting”. u can tell me what i could’ve done differently but if u truly think the people flooding my comments are upset with good intentions, it’s just delusional.
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"this u?" comments as a response to doing something wrong instead of apologizing or taking accountability will never fail to make me laugh
GROWN ASS MFS doing this bro like go back to high school this is embarrassing 😭 yes the person calling u out might also be a bad person but that doesn't excuse the shit u did??
ashley@ashleynamz
this u?
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@ashleynamz @bonevoid How are u gonna play feminism and call someone pick me when u earn ur money by selling ur body online to men
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@Zeclares @ashleynamz @SN1PER2007 Yeah because everyone wants to see horrible comments about them under the posts? are you fucking retarded? we get it, your middle school gf cheated on you and now you hate women. go be gay and leave women out of it
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on a serious note, i’d like to address a couple things. first of all, if there is anyone that i personally made feel insecure or hurt by posting my photos, i apologize. my intent is never to harm any young women, and i can say that the audience of my posts (from my analytics) is mostly men and other women (that are my oomfies).
the toxic and unrealistic beauty standards of social media that give many women body image issues, eating disorders, and body dysmorphia (which i have struggled with since i was 12) have been in existence long before i ever posted and will continue to exist after this. these are also the exact same standards that make women feel the need to edit photos. i don’t think it is productive to platform this serious conversation off of this specific beef, especially because OP had 0 interest in making this a feminist issue, but rather tweeted to “expose” and shame me.
additionally, shaming women for having body image issues and the actions they take in response to them (editing, disordered eating, or plastic surgery) is also further ENFORCING the same standards. i can acknowledge my part in upholding these toxic standards, and again, if there is anyone i have actually personally harmed by my posts, i would like to apologize to u and u only.
most of the biggest cosplay accs on here edit their photos in some way. we’re not selling workout or dieting plans, we’re selling cosplays. our main audience is not young, impressionable women. i have also been 100% transparent with any person that has dm’d me asking for my workout routine.
secondly, boomie had 0 intention of ever starting a conversation about the unrealistic beauty standards of social media. she said 0 about this, and admitted she wanted to post it because it was funny. the only motivation behind her posts were to shame and expose me. it is an obvious outcome that blasting other women online will open the door to incels taking the opportunity to be hateful. she also ADMITTED HERSELF that she was being misogynistic in her own tweet. (tweet in photo followed the initial deleting of the og tweet, before she decided to repost).
i did a shitty photoshop job and that’s embarrassing! boomie’s initial tweet triggered me because it just felt like someone laughing at me and wanting others to point and laugh as well. i personally would never shame someone for their insecurities, especially after they already communicated to me that they have them. her desire TO shame/expose me is what i called out as pick-me behavior. some of u will disagree with this and that’s fine.
finally, to the women commenting on this issue: incels will take any opportunity they can to shit on women, and they certainly have with this entire beef. if u are trying to champion the issue of women’s insecurity due to edited photos, please realize that these men are equally using it to spew the most hateful shit ever as well. i’ve had people call me and my friends asian slurs, whore, man, ugly, fat, catfish, worthless, etc and told me to kms. if u think i deserve this then that’s fine, but i just want to let you know that this is who ur standing with.

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@boomsizzlex @ashleynamz Ngl yall both chopped n lame im crying keep fighting battle of mids 😂
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@ashleynamz @boomsizzlex No way she said nigga and fag oh wow I’m shaking rn
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yeah this is genuinely disgusting. idk why i still have mutuals with this girl @boomsizzlex




ashley@ashleynamz
this u?
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@ashleynamz @SN1PER2007 Keep hiding the replies don’t let anybody see what a desperate bitch u are

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@SN1PER2007 sorry i really do not give a fuck what SN1PEE2007 egg profile pic has to say about women’s body image issues on social media. this tweet was not for u.
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