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Ibadan, Nigeria Katılım Eylül 2019
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ARE WE REALLY DATING OR PLAYING IN THIS COUNTRY??
A date is a planned social meeting, often romantic, meant to get people to KNOW EACHOTHER through SHARED ACTIVITIES.
What is the goal- To explore comparability and build relationship.
There are 2 words to focus on here - "Get to know eachother" and "shared activities".
That means the shared activities that should occur in a date are activities that will help the both of you get to know eachother other better.
I will give 6 example of such activities and explain-
1. Going to the cinema. let's go see a movie and then discuss about it, I want to know how you think. Let me check if our reasoning align. Let's say we watch Acrimony, then we come out and you're angry, justifying the mad woman actions, making excuses for her and then blaming the innocent man. Red Flag!. No time to waste anymore, I don' know say I go wrong date. I'm already checking out in my mind and looking forward to another date with someone else. We are NOT COMPATIBLE. Please this check goes both ways, as I'm checking you to see if you're compatible with me, you also is checking if my mentality is compatible with yours.
2. Going hiking. I need to see your strength and resilience. Won't you like to know the strength of the person you call your man? This is the avenue. I want to see your dedication, your efforts to achieving a target. I don't want to end up with lazy woman who easily give up when faced with challenges, cos challenges must come. I want to see your Will Power and how you put it to work.
3. Kayaking. We can go kayaking. Let me see your survival instinct in an alien environment. Let me see your courage level. Please feel free to watch me too, we are both getting to know eachother on different levels right.
4. Church. Let go to church. Let go to a serious service, like Dunamis healing and deliverance service. I need to see if you have demons, it's not after marriage I'll find out you have serpentine spirit from your father's house or you are a water baby. Hell NO!. I need to know you on that level, cos me, I am not compatible with a w!tch or fetish woman.
5. Fvck. You're not a virgin right, so let's fvck. I need to see the stuff you're made of. Here it's not the experience that might count cos too much experience self can be a red flag, what I need to know is if we're compatible sexually, check if my preeq too small for you, make me sef check if your kpekus too wide for me. Let me see if you get wet, feel free to check whether I have weak erection or I'm a 2 mins man, I want to check your hygiene, I'm allergic to fish smell, you too check if I no dey keep my balls clean. So sex is also a shared experience in dating.
6. Cooking. Let's cook, let me see if you were busy arguing that cooking is oldskool and no longer necessary in this generation for a lady, so you refused to learn how to cook and you were busy ordering food up and down and saying your husband will hire a chef. No me sha, cos me and my children will eat what my wife cooks. How long are we going to be ordering for food or employing a maid for such. It's not sustainable as far as I'm concerned. If you're not willing to change, then it's fine. We are not compatible.
These are what I think any serious person dating should be concerned with. Not all these misplaced priorities about going to eat food in the restaurant and coming to arguing about why the guy didn't pay for the expensive food you ordered. I want an independent lady, if you insist on us meeting at the restaurant for date, that's fine, but make sure you offer to pay for your meal, let me choose to agree about you paying for your meal or not. At least this will show that you're not coming to the date because you want to eat free food. Let us establish something, none of us is doing the other a favour by coming on a date, you are coming because you want to get to know me and see if we're compatible, I'm also coming for same. We're both coming cos we need something,
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I feel some things(as regards relationship) are going extinct because it is expected of only one party to initiate and finance it - Dates - Romance - Thoughtfulness - Gifts Dear Ladies, if you feel your relationship has started lacking dates and all.. Rekindle it yourself.
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