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When people ask me why taking stop losses or being wrong doesn’t bother me, there’s a simple answer: My nervous system isn’t hypersensitive to things that aren’t dangerous but here to protect me.
A stop loss is a safety feature, like a seatbelt in a car. You wouldn’t be scared of that, would you? In a car crash, it might restrain you forcefully for a moment, but that doesn’t make you fear the seatbelt itself. The real fear is the crash and the potential injury or death. That’s a valid, reasonable fear and the seatbelt is one of the features that helps you survive it.
With your stop losses, it’s the same. They protect you from crashing your account when you’re wrong. It’s your seatbelt, one you should put on for every single trade. No invalidation, no trade.
For years, I’ve exposed myself to real danger: Navigating remote terrain, climbing, motorcycling, skiing, cold exposure, trading and leaving the security of the system behind. Not because I have a death wish, but because I’m not afraid of life. I embrace it fully, trust my abilities, and trust life itself.
People would rather spend hundreds of hours watching heroes in movies live life to the fullest than doing it themselves. Imagine, it’s possible to go out there and do it all yourself.
It’s in these moments that flow hits the hardest, when the mind is in its natural environment, solving real, consequential problems instead of artificial, often self-created ones. Think about it, life has never been easier, yet we see record levels of depression and addiction. The brain seeks neurochemicals that are best released when the body is involved in something difficult.
Movement and survival in uncertain environments were the predominant skills our ancestors mastered. The ability to adapt to everything was one of humanity’s greatest physical strengths. Nowadays, people need standardised stairs to avoid falling and climate-controlled rooms at all times to avoid getting sick. What once made us strong is now largely absent for the majority.
From this detachment from our strengths, a crippling fear emerges, one that holds people back from fully living their lives and pursuing the things they dream about.
It’s highly efficient, hypersensitive survival mechanisms that have run out of real problems to solve, and are now running wild against everything.
I’m probably one of the best risk managers you’ll encounter. I haven’t blown a single account in trading. I recognise danger when I see it. I picture everything that could go wrong, which puts me in a position to prepare for it. The key difference is that I can consciously decide whether something is a real threat or just irrational oversensitivity and still act in the face of fear.
Out there, where a mistake can mean injury or death, you quickly learn to distinguish real from false signals. Real, reasonable fear is there to protect you, not to harm you. I’m often scared shitless, imagining everything that could go wrong. The physical sensation of fear is powerful, and the mind needs to be even stronger to overcome it. But this sensation is also the gateway to being alert, awake, and fully focused. Use it instead of running from it or pushing it aside.
For everything consequential I do, I’ve studied for years, increased exposure gradually, learned from mentors ahead of me, and prepared for what could go wrong.
The real danger usually comes from what you can’t see or prepare for. If you can’t see it or even imagine it, it will catch you. That’s why people get wrecked in trading so quickly, they can’t see or feel the danger.
When the body isn’t involved, you don’t experience risk in a way that naturally makes you cautious. Everyone understands that falling off a cliff is dangerous, it’s simple and instinctive. But risking your life savings through poor trading decisions is far more complex. It’s an abstract risk that can only be understood mentally and has to be learned.
The gap between what people fear and what is actually dangerous is at all-time highs. Life has never been this easy and safe, yet people have never been this scared.
Life begins when you start taking risks and stepping out of your comfort zone. For everyone, that looks different. I’m not saying you should go climb big mountains. If you’re scared of rejection, start by talking to people. If you’re afraid of heights, go somewhere high. If you’re afraid of the ocean, take a swim. If you’re afraid of being wrong or losing money, take hundreds or even thousands of stop-losses with micro size.
Only those who are scared can be brave.
Training the mind to respond to danger in a rational and precise way is what changes trading and life forever. Knowing the difference between real and imagined fear is one of the keys to a fulfilled, self-determined life.
We all have to die, you can’t change that fact. But it’s within your control to experience life fully before it happens.
In trading, once you start implementing risk management properly, you can’t really lose in a way that truly harms you.
When you experience real fear and danger from time to time, trading becomes nothing more than a video game, one you can restart as often as needed and use to build the life of your dreams.
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