Philomena

I lost my old account,pls guys I'm trying to build my account again 🙏.

@OdohUmeh I thought u men says Nigerian women were worst🤣🤣🤣🤣

Many people in the comments are asking what i did to her to get served. Here is a summary of the majors: She facilitated the first work i got through her friend. Then i am yet to set up my own bank account, so they (the company) send my pay to her account. Whenever the money drops, she doesn't hand it over. She takes out some for foods, rents and utilities ( we do 50-50). The remaining she might use some to buy me expensive wears or the cat food. Who told this woman i need an expensive wear? I didn't come here for all that. I got responsibilities back home and i can't continue like this. I worked like 6 months and in that period, i have no single savings. I have not sent 1 Kobo back home. When i complain she said my mind is still in Africa, therefore i don't love her enough and my plan is to make money here and send back to Africa. So i did what an African man should do - I rebelled. I talked to a colleague at work (fellow African) and he walked me through the ropes on how to get a bank account and have it updated in my work file. Trouble started when she didn't receive the money as usual. After the fight that ensued, we decided on how much i will be dropping every week (it's a weekly pay). I now have control of my finances. I started saving and sending small tokens back home. Within months i started doing small small investment back home. She learnt that i have restarted my building project (was abandoned at foundation level before i left Nigeria), all hell broke loose. I explained to her that i am the first born child and deeply rooted to my African ties. Just because i am married to a Dutch and living in a dutch land doesn't mean i should forget home, cos that was her argument. To her, i should forget about Africa. "Africa is poor", she would say. Africa has nothing to give to you. You are here now. You should focus on us . Whatever you are investing or planning to invest should be here and not Africa. For a fact that you are still thinking Africa means you plan to return to Africa some day. It's not like i came on asylum. My parents are still much alive. My younger siblings are there. I spent all my life with these people, now you want me to turn my back on my people just so to prove i am not going any where? You want me to choose between you and my people? Again, the calls. If there's one thing she can't stand, it is any call that came from home. She doesn't want none of that. She doesn't want nobody to call you. They just want money. They don't care about you. They want you to be working and sending the money to Africa. Who is that lady that called you? Why is she calling you? Is she your Nigerian wife? I don't trust you anymore. You said she is your sister but her surname is different. I saw you sent money to so so and so person. Who is that and why are you sending him money? Aaaah! It was one week one trouble. For peace to reign, i stopped taking calls anytime I'm home. The only time i can call home is during break time at work, or on my train ride back home. During one of our many arguments, she hinted she will ask for a divorce and have my papers revoked, so Little by little, the power dynamics in the house began to shift. I don't wanna go back to Nigeria empty. Where will i start from? What will people say? That after 3 years in Europe the only thing he achieved was raising his house to lintel level. No way! So i gave in. I allowed her turn me to her little obedient puppy 🥹. On weekends that I rather want to sleep and rest, i will go with her to her parties just so i be in the good books. Not like a give a fuck about cats but i must bath and feed her cat cos it makes her happy. During the Winter, the weather in Spain is much better. This particular winter, she planned for us to go her house in Spain for vacation. That will mean me stopping work (she has always wanted me to stop working and depend on her entirely), so I said no. From there, it was downhill.

@BliszSb @Dutchess699031 But u hv had multiple experiences with different shapes and size of pussy, and slept with women for free ,done different styles, Mary Magdalene was a prostitute The adulterous woman nko. Wen you die and stand before God u will be judged as a sinner not as a man

I'm not even concerned about the hell part. I can't be with someone that has had multiple experiences with different sizes of dick inside her and pay bride price for a woman they've slept with for free. Never!. So it's not the same thing with men. Being responsible for a non virgin that different men slept with for free is mental. You people should close your legs...no one is forcing it on you. And we've seen men even in the Bible had multiple women and God still chose them...never saw that with women.

Imagine stating all non virgins where fucked as a wh0re which we all know is not true!... At the end of the day the truth is always the truth ...I don't really care about if it's a big account tweeting or not but generalising and stereotyping is like saying there's no exception to a scenario which isn't true...

@BliszSb @Dutchess699031 Sex before marriage is a sin and the consequences is hell in respective of the gender,u men should stop making it look like it only women that will be punished by God.

@_Meenajesty @Dutchess699031 Now ask yourself this...if it is considered the same thing... what's the actual point of people getting married?.

@BliszSb @Dutchess699031 It is ,so you agree it fornication in both gender right? So the same hell a whore is going is the same hell a man u has had sex before marriage is going too.

Arguing with a woman is so funny...if you read your Bible well or whatever religion you do... isn't getting married the legal and right means of being intimate with your partner?. But you can't understand, you're probably part of the non virgins...so of course you would be defensive with a shit logic like this.

@Blankt20 @Dutchess699031 Then virgins are whores?

@_Meenajesty @Dutchess699031 U have to remember the girls with low BC or even virgins watch porn nowadays and want to replicate it. Especially if u fuck someone without comittment, there is no depth or real love making. That’s why men don’t respect it, u have to see it from our side

@BliszSb @Dutchess699031 Then if a virgin get married and start having sex with her husband,she is also a whore

@_Meenajesty @Dutchess699031 LMAO 🤣. So you're telling me she didn't do all the styles while having sex and got spanked by multiple men...how does not giving blowjob makes her any difference?. Or they all fucked her gently?

@x_smurk_ @Dutchess699031 Then your mom and sisters are also whores ,what a shame?

@_Meenajesty @Dutchess699031 Yes, including your father and brothers at home

@Blankt20 @Dutchess699031 Threesome,anal,bdsm, fetish,sex in weird location,

@_Meenajesty @Dutchess699031 Explain the “ other way”?

@Blankt20 @Dutchess699031 Not every one was fucked that way,u know it but continue

@Dutchess699031 What he is saying is no matter how YOU view it, the guy saw u as a “hoe”. He got u to submit, go down on ur knees, let him use ur body as he wants -without any commitment. After he was done he spoke about it to his friends etc( he would never do that to a girl he love)

@x_smurk_ @Dutchess699031 All non virgin men are rapist?

@Dutchess699031 All non-virgin women are whores. Every single one of them. As long as you've lost your virginity, you are a whore by default.. argue with your keyboard

@BliszSb @Dutchess699031 It not the same bro,not all non virgin has had threesome,anal sex,sex is weird location, gotten head, given blow jobs etc but u all want to claim you don't know

@Dutchess699031 I just have one question...how do they fuck whores and how do they fuck the other ones you claim to be?

@iamcmurris @Dutchess699031 You are a very big fool

@Dutchess699031 The pain really touch you chaiii e nor go better for your ex I get why your angry your getting PTSD and flashbacks that your ex too wicked aje na thunder go fire am for us my dear kpele baby 💐💐

@loppeezx @dimmakilishi Can someone make a review on always sanitary pad, maybe we should switch to it biko

@dimmakilishi Girl this happened to me with softcare pad. It also threw my PH off like mad and I didn’t even notice on time 😭 Now I avoid any pad with scents, mints or whatever

Omoh eh, I just realized something and it’s been bothering me 😳 I started noticing my period suddenly reduced from 5 days to 3 days anytime I use a particular pad brand. At first, I thought maybe it was my hormones or my body just changing. I didn’t even think much about it because I felt it was normal. But anytime I switch to another brand, my period goes back to my normal full 5 days. It didn’t click until I saw someone made a post about the exact same thing yesterday and so many women were confirming it too 😭 Now I’m like… wait, what exactly is inside some of these pads we’re using?? What even annoys me is that I buy in bulk, but at this point, I’d rather discard them than risk anything with my body. Have you experienced something like this with any pad brand?

@nofilter_zone_ @dimmakilishi She doesn't want to mention names bcuz of brand report reasons,but I think the pad is soft care, bcuz I'm facing the same issue and other girls are saying the same.

@dimmakilishi I no no why una no dey mention names ooo.. una no go like help the ladies?

@loppeezx @dimmakilishi Exactly the pad I'm using now that is making my period last for just two days,I was even thinking I'm hitting menopause,me that I'm just 24 years old.😭😭😭

@dimmakilishi Do u know that immediately I saw this I remember mine instantly,my last period was three days, and I noticed that I bought a particular brand recently In bulk and since I started using my period is misbehaving,omo

@kayzywizzzy Going through the comment section I have come to realize that men hurt women deliberately bcuz the women are not their loved ones,they don't mind perpetrating evil on any woman as long as she not his sister. It is well

The bro code is always supreme One of our guys slept with a bro’s sister, and we cut him off. It’s been over 8 years, saw him at the mall today and still kept the same energy. My sister is your sister, and your sister is my sister. Don’t ever find them attractive if we’re bros.

@innotazzel @directorpink_ Ok nah

@_Meenajesty @directorpink_ Tems have never come out to say any horrible thing about men or champion any hate trend about men infact if she ain't catching cruise about men, she's saying something nice about us so yeah, she's innocent at least for now

I’m sorry sir, I’ve worn a turtleneck so you, as a man, can have self-control .

@opuehboy @maxvayshia Keep fooling

@_Meenajesty @maxvayshia Keep playing

During talking stage, ladies would look so glam and smell nice and all. 6 months into marriage, they tie wrapper all over the house, apply Nixoderm on their faces and go to bed smelling of raw fish and pap.

@innotazzel @directorpink_ So u believe Tems is an exception 🤣🤣🤣🤣. You people are funny.

@_Meenajesty @directorpink_ very sure