Hanyi 🌸

My first attempt at creating prompts with Gemini and she delivered!🤭

How many of you are quick to return energy? Is aura for aura only for when bad things are involved? have returned the kindness others have shown you, or is there no aura for aura for good things?🤔

@One_minute_man1 @tessysmitha Love is not proven by how blindly you give. “If you love me, don’t question my motive”, sounds romantic, but it removes accountability. People are complex; not every request is pure. You wouldn’t bother to notice, well, that’s your nature, & it’s generous, but everyone isn't you

@_StyleBoss @tessysmitha If you truly love me, why would you be care about my motive? Something I won’t bother to notice, if am the one that want to help you. Just be intentional as you want me to be.

The moment a man is comfortable asking you for money, it either means he doesn’t see a future with you… or he simply doesn’t rate you. Pay attention. He’s already telling you how he sees you.

@One_minute_man1 @tessysmitha What you’re describing isn’t really love; it’s an imbalance. Love isn’t one-sided power. In healthy modern relationships, people should be able to express needs, but if I sense your motive is fishy, my answer is a capital No, and it isn't lack of love, it's discernment in action.

@_StyleBoss @tessysmitha You can make him uneasy for your need or even cut him off because he couldn’t meet up with your need. But same thing don’t goes to women. How is that love we are proving?

At the end of it all, please fall in love with someone who will worship God with you ❤️

Period cramps can be so bad but please stop taking pills on your period, seek other alternatives that are not pill related 🥹🙏 Ever since I stopped the pills, my reproductive health and general wellbeing has improved greatly.

My longest female friendships we don't talk everyday but when we eventually catch up, we chic chat like we didn't any miss days

The last time I did Ajo was in 2021, when it was my turn to collect, I started hearing stories, but I still collected my money. Since then, rI decided anything that will stress me and doesn't give me return for my money count me out.

I do have a problem with people who understand urgency but does not seem to respond promptly and proactively consistently. I expect commitment to purpose and when I'm not receiving it I block you straight up.

If you're not very close and comfortable with someone, or an information is not urgent, there's no reason why you should just wake up and be calling someone on WhatsApp call to Chi chat.

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Buying new clothes and shoes is such a therapeutic experience man, highest form of self love.

You won't even need your parents to tell you to serve God. You will find him on your own when reality hits.

I enjoyed sophomore year, oh the eagerness and enthusiasm to learn. Penultimate and Senior year are just unnecessarily stressful.

Why do people take quietness as being proud? i barely even know you.

As long as the energy is reciprocated, I'll do anything for you

You can't be broke and sad at the same time. Say know to bad energy

i love when God sends me little confirmations letting me know he heard me.

Work has been so tight I barely have time to tweet or engage my lovely moots.. Life is tuff fr .

@Chioma__Amadi Oh I can definitely relate, most of the times I only get to slide in here at night, and no matter how much I block my task during the day the timing is never just enough.

Life taught me a lesson this week. I didn’t fully understand it, but truly, the fastest way to forget your own dreams is to start building someone else’s. I’ve been deep in office work from tasks to deadlines, and somehow my own goals have been pushed to the backseat. For context, I’ve shown up here every single day since January 1st.
This is my first post since today and I genuinely don’t like that. I know that consistency has never been easy, but I can now see how quickly you can lose yourself in being busy. Anyway, thank God it’s Friday, and I finally get to breathe tomorrow. If you’ve ever felt like work is slowly swallowing your personal goals, I need you to do one thing for me: 
Please hold me accountable, and drop a “me too” in the comments, so I know I’m not alone in this.