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I shrank so you could be comfortable in your excess.
You grew into the idea that you were the prize,
and I became the villain in your story.
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Kalemori Boy
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Kalemori Boy
@_Thurba
I am not a good person . Quantity Surveyor| Fitness enthusiasts| survivor . @bmw addict . Christ Healed me from Bechet Disease .
Planet Earth Katılım Ağustos 2011
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@lutiyanaA @creamlyn_ That’s a good idea - if taking care of the house ( chores, kids , bills) makes u a slave, then how much ?
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@_Thurba @creamlyn_ Because if you want to buy me as a slave then say so , so that I can tell you the real price
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See how Nigerian men are happy at the prospect of sharing bills and rent.
Alpha mail na onu….
Share bills and still submit to your personal lord and husband… so cute 🌚
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If "Head of House" is your problem, come and take it. Just bring your share of the monthly bills. I don't know who told these clowns that Headship of House has anything to do with money and bills.
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"Paying bills" is not you supporting your husband. It is you being a responsible adult and supporting the family. "Supporting your husband" is why you people don't want to be responsible because you hate the men you're married to. You want him dead sef.
Evil spirit!
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@lutiyanaA @creamlyn_ If u tie submission to me paying 100, why doesn’t it give me license?
If we go by your narrative.
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@_Thurba @creamlyn_ No you can't, that doesn't give you the license to
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@creamlyn_ Yall do not understand what submission means . You think money makes you submit - that u can only submit to man cos he has money ! You know nothing about life - nothing .
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@_Thurba Provided all task is shared equally and no one gotta submit… why not?
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This is cool, but I hope the men on this post can see her follow up posts where she said, they both share household chores & child care too. You can’t be doing 50/50 with your wife, and when it’s time to help at home, you will remember you are a traditional Man, that’s parasitic.
Tomori Simisola@SimisolaTomori
This was Decembers bill.
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@lutiyanaA @creamlyn_ What ya all are saying is if I pay 100% of the bills I can treat u like thrash .
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You'll bump into the kind of conversation from Nigerians in the UK Twitter, you'll think it is conversation between roommates in Awo Hall.
You'll not know these are real topics between legally married couples.
Almost as though hatred is a requirement for them to get married.
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Bills £3,000
Husband pays £2780
Wife pays £220
Divorce comes, wife doesn't want to spilt properties 50:50 cos na she get more savings to invest as baba paid only bills.
Man: dies of heart attack
Wife: becomes fine babe for igboro and tell the world how useless of a man you are.
GIF
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Its a lie. I have kids, I take care of my kids, I wake up every morning to get my kids ready for school and drop them off at school, I cook, I clean, my wife doesn't let me do laundry, I spend time with my kids as much as my wife. Men should be responsible at home too.
Joseph Brendan@Joe_brendan_
I still maintain that this is only valid if you don't have kids If you have kids in a marriage and you are doing 50/50 with a man, you're shorting yourself. And a man that will allow that is not kind. he wicked!
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@moon_sira @EfeTheeGreat It has to be . No sensible man will cross is leg and not play an active part ( not just money ) in his home .
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@_Thurba @EfeTheeGreat Well if everything is 50/50 I don’t have an issue
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@moon_sira @EfeTheeGreat He takes his kids to achool and back , he takes them for swimming lessons , attends school events . No man abroad will
Leave his wife alone to do that .
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@_Thurba @EfeTheeGreat So what of the child rearing
House chores etc?
Is that not 50/50
If not that’s an extremely big loss to the woman
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@Naledi_Stars That is a wicked man . You do not do 50/50 for ante natal , buying baby things , cs … the man takes that 100
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I had a friend who got pregnant, they didn't have medical aid so she had to save R60k for birth at a private hospital. She sent her husband R10k a month for 6 months. When it was time to give birth, her husband drove her to a public hospital. He said he spent all the money.
Brown@YoursBrown
There was a lady on TikTok who did a storytime on how her husband made her pay the hospital bill because she got an epidural, and they did not budget for it. They planned for a natural birth, but they were going 50/50 on the hospital bills, so she had to pay the extra cost!!!
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@Funminz Exactly.
If a man earns £60k and expects his wife to do 50/50 from her £30k , he is wicked . The least he should is 80/20 .
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To be rude on top how much.
When you need quick £30,000 loan to add to your business, will those your friend be able to quickly transfer it to you.
Oyinda@Oyinda_x_
Go girl. Love this for you Me wey rude die, I will first start by telling everybody we are two men living in the house
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No let them use "real man" kill you. There is no award for who suffer pass. You'll just die a mumu.
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@NaijjaQueen U earn £5k, I earn £5k monthly bill is £4800 , and u expect me to pay 100 % while u keep ur £5k cos u gave birth 😂. Movies have deceived you people .
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I’m actually very curious to know, do they also do 50:50 with the pregnancy and are the chores also split evenly like the finances?
If not, what’s actually the benefit of being married, for a woman in this arrangement where you’re doing 70:30?
Tomori Simisola@SimisolaTomori
This was Decembers bill.
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