@NityaStriker2 @VishnuFNO No
There is no propaganda !
Hence, DINK >>>
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@__shravvv____ @VishnuFNO “Should be” is different from how the courts currently work. “hitched” is again propaganda to trap men with alimony. Hence, no kids = No marriage.
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Don't get married. That is the best Option
Vishal Bhargava@VishalBhargava5
A silent pandemic is underway in Indian cities. Far too many couples are opting to not have kids at all. It is the wrong decision. Most will regret it.
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@NityaStriker2 @VishnuFNO Well it should be no alimony or dowry irrespective of the kids factor ! Bec marriage is all about companionsjp. Parenthood isn't the sole reason to get hitched !
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@__shravvv____ @VishnuFNO Maybe 5% women at most. Fair enough. The remaining 95% will earn less than men, and will use him as a source of alimony. No point of marriage for men till kids are confirmed.
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@NityaStriker2 @VishnuFNO Your insecurities speaking louder than facts ! Financially independent women not marrying bec of money . It's either out of love or companionship .
Nobody wants your silver and platinum when women alr purchasing diamonds , duh !
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@__shravvv____ @VishnuFNO Sounds like propaganda by a woman to extract alimony. Without kids, marriage becomes a net negative for Indian men. Hence, strict rule : No kids means No marriage.
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@yeageryuji97 @Zoomerjeet DINK is the best ever thing to happen ! Doesn't matter if you support it or not.
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Why is such BS making it to news articles? Don't journalists have better things to do?
NDTV@ndtv
Gurugram Couple Earning Rs 36 Lakh Go DINK Way. Here's Why ndtv.com/offbeat/gurugr…
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@yeageryuji97 @Zoomerjeet If this delusional statement satisfies your ego, so be it 😆
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@__shravvv____ @Zoomerjeet If everyone will become like you then only bad apples will thrive in the world
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The kind of place where nothing exciting happens, and that’s the best part.
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One should wonder why. It indicates how many women were in bad marriages and birthing only due to financial dependence perhaps. Now that they have a choice, they need men to be better to decide to birth their kids.
Vedang Gupte वेदांग गुप्ते वेदाङ्ग गुप्ते@GupteVedang
When women get money, the first thing that collapses is the birth rates. This has happened across the world. When women are obsessed with material success, the feelings of motherhood subside, because of which they opt out of motherhood, which has consequences in future.
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@vijaythirumalai Not everyone wants "mahalaxmi" not everyone get satisfaction from having kids....not everyone want their child to be born this morally and financially currpt 3rd world called india...indians are more emotional than rational
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Deciding kids are not for you is a personal and super acceptable point
Issue is DINK instead of calling it a personal decision, conjure up all sorts of asinine reasons like
1/they can wake up at 8 am instead of 7:45 am
2/ They are able to buy Hoka instead of Nike and so on to justify their decision
Essentially what i hear is, i can spend the money what i would possibly spent on the kid on myself which is
a/ pretty self centered- humans are meant to procreate etc
b/ skill issue that one has to compromise their life style coz of kids
Personally for me, we have Mahalakshmis at home and there is not a single day in my life when i thought my life would have been better off if were DINK- every aspect of our lives (fun, finance and any other vector has only been upgraded) after they were born
Deepak Shenoy@deepakshenoy
@vijaythirumalai Isn't the sure you can travel cos you don't have constraints, an upgrade? Or you decide its not for you, but for others it certainly can be and I can see why. I preferred to have kids but can't say this is what others should do
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@investor_sr33 There's no "must" here !
Motherhood is a choice and not a duty ! Not every woman out there wants to embrace parenthood !
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Parenting is a privilege and something every couple must enjoy .
Vishal Bhargava@VishalBhargava5
A silent pandemic is underway in Indian cities. Far too many couples are opting to not have kids at all. It is the wrong decision. Most will regret it.
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People are baffled by the idea that having kids can be optional. But not having kids when you don't want them is the most responsible choice.
Well, I personally know someone who was forced into it and the emotional neglect their child went through, SHOULD NEVER BE REPEATED.
Sneha@HonestlySneha
Why is it so hard for people to understand that procreation is a choice now? People can feel lonely even when surrounded by family, and having children doesn't guarantee support in old age.
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@HonestlySneha Repeat after me :
MOTHERHOOD IS A CHOICE AND NOT A DUTY !
DINK IS ABSOLUTELY VALID !
SCREW SOCIETAL NORMS !
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Why is it so hard for people to understand that procreation is a choice now? People can feel lonely even when surrounded by family, and having children doesn't guarantee support in old age.
NDTV@ndtv
Gurugram Couple Earning Rs 36 Lakh Go DINK Way. Here's Why ndtv.com/offbeat/gurugr…
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@vnodkumar19 In fact, I'd say great decision. Kudos to such couples. This isn't the country to bring a newborn to and leave him or her in an endless loop of suffering.
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There are as many parents who regret having kids as well. It's just not acceptable to state as such in our society, so they stay silent and go through the motions of life.
So fuck off with your skewed anecdotes.
Vishal Bhargava@VishalBhargava5
A silent pandemic is underway in Indian cities. Far too many couples are opting to not have kids at all. It is the wrong decision. Most will regret it.
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Many who are disagreeing with me raise valid points. Most Indians have kids due to religio-cultural pressures, have an heir, serve them in old age, as a marker of social status etc - many free-thinking people naturally become anti-natalists as a reaction.
alkalien@alkalien
If you're a couple and love each other, why should you not have at least 2 kids? 🤔 Idiotic middle classes and upper classes thinking that they won't be able to afford the "best lifestyle" for their kids. Why should kids get everything on a silver platter?
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@ifOnlyKantala Most of the women in tier 1 cities and villages getting married without consent. They are not even financially independent to voice out their opinions !
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If Indian couples were choosing a DINK lifestyle, IVF centers wouldn’t be popping up on every corner
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@Brijwasi_Up80 Motherhood is a choice and not a duty !
DINK lifestyle is the best thing to happen. To all the readers whoever viewing my tweet, do not ever think 'log kya kahenge, arey society mein kaise rahenge' FUCK SOCIETAL NORMS ! It's your life , your will, your choice !!
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More than asking DINK couples to consider having children, shouldn’t we be discussing whether bringing children into this world is even sane?
Are we promising the children we bring into this earth a better world?
Better air?
Better water?
These are basic rights. But how cruel is it to bring children into the world without addressing the very disastrous, unlivable conditions?
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@yeageryuji97 @Zoomerjeet There are enough people who are absolutely not doing anything to save it . So how can I be so selfish to drag another life while it's alr burning ? There are good no. of resources and people to fix shit if they want to !
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@__shravvv____ @Zoomerjeet So there are issues in society so you will just watch it burn instead of willingly trying to do something
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@rakesh_mishra @Sai_swaroopa If wanting children was so natural, anti-natalism and DINK things would have never existed ! Go educate yourself a bit more !
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@__shravvv____ @Sai_swaroopa If wanting children was never a natural thing, how were you born 🤣
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Unpopular opinion about DINK choosing couples.
I think wanting children is the most natural thing. Not wanting is a result of an unresolved childhood trauma or a heavy self (and ecosystem) doubt. These couples were deeply pained either at their parents' sacrifices or incompatibility or toxicity. At times it could be a messy combo of all. They don't want to bring a child into that mess that exists in their subconsciousness. Financial readiness is also a factor but we seem to be talking about affluent section today.
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