Gbem E. Debe (Esq)

I created this account to be anonymous and fool around. It’s a new year and I need to be intentional about my life. Bye guys ✌🏾

4am and Sporty’s comment section is busy 😂

When I’m told I need to deliver a death notification, the weight of it hits me immediately. My chest tightens, my stomach sinks, and my heart skips a beat. I know I’m about to share news that will change someone’s life forever. When I arrive at the home, I knock on the door and take a step back. I often see the family through a window, walking through their living room. They wave or smile at me, trying to greet me warmly. That moment is incredibly hard because I can’t smile back—I know I’m about to bring them the darkest moment of their life. When they open the door, they usually ask, “What’s wrong? What happened?” That’s when I begin by confirming their name and if I’m at the correct address. Once I know I’ve got the right person, in the right place, I notice something I’ve seen many times before—they start taking small steps back, almost fading away from me. I don’t think they even realize they’re doing it. I think it’s their body trying to create distance from an unwelcome moment, knowing deep down that something devastating is about to be said. Then, I deliver the most difficult words anyone could ever hear: “It’s my sad responsibility to tell you that your son has died in a crash.” “It’s my sad responsibility to tell you that your daughter has died in a crash.” “It’s my sad responsibility to tell you that your mother has died in a crash.” “It’s my sad responsibility to tell you that your father has died in a crash.” In those moments, I often see one of three reactions: 1. They collapse. Some fall to the floor, crying in a way that’s impossible to describe. I kneel beside them, and often, I cry with them. 2. They go silent. Others stand frozen, their faces blank as they try to process what I’ve said. They’re lost, unsure of how to move forward. 3. They push me away. Sometimes, I’m told to leave or forcefully pushed back as they yell, “No! Don’t say that!” But I stay because no one should face that moment alone. These moments stay with me and the family involved. Tonight is a night meant for celebration—a time to welcome the new year, look forward to fresh opportunities, and start anew. It shouldn’t begin with tragedy and heartbreak. Please make safe choices tonight. Don’t drink and drive. Use a designated driver. Protect yourself and your loved ones from the pain of ever having to face this kind of moment. Be safe, Trooper Ben

Ice Hockey? BS Sport 😂

@iamlordbernie @ria_adesotu025 You both realize that the inflow could’ve been from another bank to her OPay? Do you people think before you post or clout is the only goal?

@ria_adesotu025 lol 😂

The security on Opay cannot allow you mistakenly send 1.5m to a new person. The verification and cross-checking you’d do before it goes will bring you back to your senses.

@Ajokeaadee @RossyAdey Hope you refunded to the same account o 🙏🏾

@RossyAdey Amen 🙏🏻

Duolingo Dey vex for me 😂

@TheFigen_ Proof that machines > people

Same bike, same place, same girls and years later. Now that’s a wonderful memory.

@che_deeraah @OmemmaBC @Miss_Lorlai @_DebbieOA @FavorGrace90 You actually look hungry bruh. This isn’t your battle o

@OmemmaBC @Miss_Lorlai @_DebbieOA @FavorGrace90 Married and hungry 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 God please oooo!! Omemma please don’t go this route

“You are in bondage” “Men must pay for everything” “I can’t endure with a man” “I can’t cook for any man” “Partnership in a marriage is a crime” Na dem 👇🏾

@Miss_Lorlai @_DebbieOA @FavorGrace90 Na you promote them abi? 😂😂😂

@_DebbieOA @FavorGrace90 Let’s not forget you couldn’t earn half that until help came your way . By the way that 150k is most likely 450k now because they have been promoted !

I just Dey see “avoid poor people” everywhere. Na wa

@lustclouds @ZoeGawd 😂😂😂

@ZoeGawd Nigga must have been mad strict! Smh

BD didn’t let you wear shoes or go to the gym?

@olamilekan00007 @vintageoflagos He no go do am give man. Just watch 😂

@vintageoflagos Location bro.

If you can defeat me i owe you 100k

First bet of 2025 na cut 1 😂😂😭

@Quin_meenat @belikebaddy No be Muslim you be?

@belikebaddy Omoh! 😂😂 some us no get tfare

Lesser people in church compared to last year, what actually happened this year ???

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I’ll always subscribe to Xclusive Plus. The benefits are awesome

Lmfaoooo