Harydo's tweets

Things I don't debate with men: • Abortion • Breastfeeding • Menstruation • Female body hair • Birth control • Access to menstrual products Why? Because none of these involve the male body.

Please I have a question. In a relationship where expenses are shared 50–50, what happens if one partner is temporarily unable to meet their share due to unforeseen circumstances, like job loss, illness, or childcare responsibilities? Does the unpaid portion become something they’re expected to repay later, or is it typically considered support and not treated as a debt?”

Most marital advice I’ve seen on the TL comes from unmarried people. I wonder why married people are usually silent

5M/week in Nigeria. Are you leaving? I said I would leave and see catarrh for CS. To which I ask, why is my own decision coming under so much scrutiny?

Last year, a guy took me out. Bill arrived. He said split it. I paid everything, smiled and said “have a lovely evening.” He called me 6 times. Said it was a test. Darling, I have a degree, a kitchen full of foodstuffs and a funded account. You were testing the wrong woman.

If she wants 100-0 Make her a full time housewife.

Splitting bills 50-50 with a Nigerian man??? You will cry blood no worry. He will use his spare cash to fuck all the baddies, buying them raw hair and taking them on dates while you’ll be at home exhausted with juggling your career and the kids daily. If you like don’t be wise.

Some of you aren’t actually mad that she’s doing 50/50. You’re just mad she isn’t fitting your stereotypical feminist trope. It’s easier to attack her choices than it is to admit your definition of empowerment is limited to what makes sense to you. The reality is that true feminism means a woman can choose how she navigates her marriage, even if that choice doesn't align with your rules or bias. If she’s happy and the dynamic works for her, your outrage isn't about her being exploited, it’s about your loss of control over the narrative. We’ve reached a point where people use feminism as a weapon to judge women rather than a tool to liberate them. If you’re only supportive when her lifestyle matches your bias, you aren't advocating for her freedom, you’re just advocating for a different kind of conformity.

The least you can do is provide a roof for me and my children. Like please, I miss the Stone Age fr These new men don’t want to do nothing and still expect submission? If I slap you