Ibrahim Onuche Umar

And one major problem with knowing too much or seeing things clearly is that you lose the ability to participate in certain illusions that make life easier for everyone else.

I want a cute, brown-skinned, fine-faced, nice-hairline, book-loving, working-class, tall, generous, sweet, and handsome man.

What is the difference between Nigeria and India? Overpopulated, under developed, stinks, and with a culture that tolerates rape to boot. Kini yato?

looks like sales is not going away soon huh

This is not a flex, i stopped buying things like this from malls when i started distributing supplies to them, especially if you're in Nigeria You are making so much loss buying things like this in bulk from malls Instead of buying from supermarkets Call the company's number and order directly or go to a warehouse/market to buy direct You wont believe the amount of loss you are incuring on that purchase Some supermarkets profits as much as 500-1000 on items as small at that per piece Thats too much loss, ive been there, ive done that now im talking aa someone at both ends of Business

this is arguably one of the most dangerous ways to live as a man even if it looks strong on the surface. i started working in mining straight out of school, remote sites, long rotations and harsh conditions and out there, weakness gets exposed fast, you carry your own weight, you fix your own gear, you eat what you cook, no one babysits you underground... that environment trains you to rely on yourself or get crushed, literally. after a few years, that mindset followed me home. i paid my bills early, handled repairs, made my own food, kept my emotions locked up tight and independence became identity. if something broke, i fixed it. if something hurt, i buried it. i didn’t need anyone and i wore that like armor. but here’s the part nobody tells you: when you build a life where no one is needed, you also build one where no one fits. relationships started feeling inefficient, emotional conversations felt unnecessary, vulnerability felt like handing someone a pickaxe and hoping they wouldn’t swing. self sufficiency and independence is powerful, yes it makes you competent, steady and hard to shake but if your not careful as a man, it turns into emotional isolation disguised as strength... and unlearning that, learning to let someone stand beside you instead of always proving you can stand alone is harder than any shift underground.