Toluwanimi
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Toluwanimi
@_nimistarr
Engineer 😌 • Frontend Developer 🧑💻 • Lover of Music 🎶 • Future Traveller 🥴 • Arsenal ❤️
Nigeria Katılım Mayıs 2020
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@Sugarboyadeola1 That’s Sunshine Rosman not Adesua(Banky W’s wife)🙄
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Banky W suppose arrest you if he Dey serous about him marriage .
Enori🎀@Brattyenori13
You’ll think we’re twins with how much we look alike🥹🥹
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Liquorose ate!!!😍🔥
Even her hair is on point
Ahead!😇😌@ChiLaHotie
Grooms Ladies that went to harvard😅😘 liquorose x Beauty x Erica! 🔥
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@EN0CX 😂😂 he didn’t even wait a sec before he explained himself before they will start calling him alarinfin. I love how he handled the whole situation, see how they are all laughing
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I’m 26, single, and living alone in a mini-flat in Ipaja.
Last year I interviewed for a “Content Lead” role in Ikoyi at ₦300k. After four rounds, the HR said in the final chat: “You’re our pick. You can resume Dec 4th.”
That same week, I resigned from my ₦160k job and bought a new blazer for the role. On Dec 1st: “Hi, we’ve paused hiring till Q2. Apologies.”
Just like that—no job. Rent was due Jan 2nd, and I had ₦62k saved. Oh Lord, what do I do? How will I survive?
I kept applying nonstop—four interviews a week, all virtual and data-draining. One HR ghosted me after I spent two hours on their unpaid test project. Another said, “You’re great but we need someone with agency experience,” even though the job post said entry-level.
What broke me wasn’t the money. It was the silence. I’d wake up, send 10 applications, then sit in my room till night. My phone became my enemy. Every notification made my heart jump, then drop when it was just MTN. I stopped replying to friends because “What are you doing now?” felt like judgment.
Christmas came. I told everyone I was working from home. I ate Indomie and eggs alone on Dec 25th while watching people post family photos. I wasn’t hungry—I was invisible.
I started doubting everything: Am I dumb? Do I smell in interviews? Should I just marry someone? Rejection became my daily routine.
On Jan 3rd, an old freelance client DM’d: “You still write? I need someone. ₦250k per month.” No interview. Just “Send account. A colleague of mine would be needing your service as well. I already told her about you but I wanted to confirm from you first.”
And that’s how I got my life back.
Job hunting as a single lady in Lagos isn’t just rejection emails. It’s calculating if you can afford to stay safe while broke. Job loss isn’t just finances—it’s your self-worth evaporating in real time.
No one tells you “You’re still smart” after the 20th “We regret” email. You have to be your own cheerleader when you don’t even believe in yourself.
Lessons learned: Never resign without a signed contract and first salary date. Verbal offers are lies. Being a single young lady means some men will test you—if the job needs dinner, it’s not a job. Lastly, your emergency fund is your dignity. Even ₦50k saved stops you from saying yes to trash.
I’m okay now. But I don’t wish that quiet loneliness on anyone.
BleedingLines💔@Adeprince_oye
What’s your toughest job-hunting experience? Let’s hear it. Don't air me 🥹
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Two Boys, one Girll 🤭
KHAN'✨@khanofkhans11_
Sorry to burst your bubble she’s happily married with a beautifully family. A model too. 🫵
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Sorry to burst your bubble she’s happily married with a beautifully family. A model too. 🫵
T@TAHMMULSTAN
@khanofkhans11_ This how it looks like when you 50 and no kids or a man to stress you,just pure happiness
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@olajiire101 Somebody’s wife? Nd you’re still quoting the husband’s tweet to talk this rubbish?
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If the Algorithm shows you my creative work, kindly support by sharing
Lammie_Art@Lammie_Art01
Not to brag but I made this A repost will be appreciated
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Omo nobody apply reach me at this point. Graduate well and companies will rush you, guess who's rushing who 😔😪
OmoEmi🤍❤@Fola_kemmie
Can someone just put me in their company pleaseeeeeeeee? I’m so so tired of sending applications
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Lmao
I don’t even engage in any conversation with anyone on snap except my friends, if I don’t know you personally, my dear I will just leave your message on read.
YOUFOUNDFUNKY💘@PreciousJudge5
I’ve not closed my mouth since last night
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