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Being a GROWN woman really requires silence. Let people run with whatever narrative of you and let them feed it to whoever listens.

Marriage only benefits a woman when the man is truly capable of leading, providing, and protecting. Otherwise she’s just adding responsibilities to a life she already manages alone.

One en suite (bills inclusive) room available to rent in the dartford/greenhithe area, 5mins drive from bluewater.

lol every just read the Bible yourself please

When I told my boyfriend I finally got promoted to senior architect, he didn’t even smile. He said, “So now you’ll have less time for us?” I laughed it off at first, thinking he was joking. But later that night he said, “I don’t want to date someone who’s always working late and surrounded by men.” I reminded him how he once said he loved how ambitious I was. Now that ambition suddenly feels like a threat to him. He stopped calling, stopped showing up. He said he wanted a “feminine” woman, not one “competing with men.” It’s crazy how some people only support your dreams until those dreams start shining brighter than their ego.

Chat GPT is amazing when it comes to breaking things down and explaining things in lay man terms. Way better than google

A woman I know put her career on pause for years so her husband could “build something.” She moved cities for him. Took smaller jobs so he could take bigger risks. Covered bills when things were tight. Everyone called her supportive. When his business finally took off, he started traveling more. Dressing better. Acting different. He’d joke at parties about how she “held it down in the early days.” Then one night she overheard him tell someone, “We grew in different directions.” That’s how she found out he was leaving. After everything stabilized. After the struggle was over. She didn’t beg. She didn’t list sacrifices. She just said, “You didn’t grow in a different direction. You climbed and decided you didn’t want to look back.” They divorced. The heavy part? She’s rebuilding at the age she thought she’d be resting. But she says something that sticks with me: “I don’t regret helping him win. I regret not helping myself at the same time.” People feel that one. Because it’s not loud. It’s the kind of loss that comes with receipts.

One of the benefits of walking with God is that He gives you the courage to do life fearlessly. He becomes the source of your peace and the source of your audacity.

easy for sure, as long as you’re humble

Chapter 29 was really something

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It’s very important to pray that you & your partner are aligned!

I love what they did with this season of #anikulaposeason2

Some men will carry you when your feet hurt... and some will just stand there like, “I warned you about those heels.” “Choose the one who lifts you... not the one who lectures you."

Parents really ate with "one day you'll understand" cause one day arrived fr.

I found a prayer in Ruth 3:18: Lord, in matters concerning my life and destiny, let the men and women You have chosen and touched to help me not rest until it is settled for my good and in my favor. And may I learn to wait patiently for how You work it out. 🧡

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as a mum, my new favourite place in the world has become the toilet.

Nobody tells you about the era of your 30's when you realize that a lot of people are actually not good people and don't deserve to be around you.

waiting to exhale for real