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Marriage isn’t 50/50, and never will be. It’s hilarious watching single men flood timelines demanding “equal responsibility” while condemning traditional male leadership. These guys have never led a household, never carried the weight of a marriage, and couldn’t relate even if they tried. Yet somehow they’re the loudest experts. Funny how you rarely see married men pushing this nonsense. Even the ones quietly doing 50/50 know better than to open that can of worms with their wives. Because deep down, they understand the truth: marriage isn’t a spreadsheet. It’s leadership, not ledger. 🤷‍♂️

I will never support the 50/50 ideology in marriage. The push for 50/50 bill splitting is one of the major reasons why divorce rates in the UK remain so high. This 50/50 mentality was largely pioneered by Nigerian men who traveled abroad and adopted it in the diaspora. In the UK, 50/50 arrangements account for less than 27 percent of marriages, and nearly all of them end in divorce, hostility, or deep resentment. Do you know that the dominant model in marriages across the US and UK still has the man as the primary provider? What if your wife is not working? You would still need to run the home. Your wife's money should serve as support, something you can always rely on in times of need. For example, if rent is due and you fall short, you can ask her for help. But insisting that she shares all bills equally is a complete no. If you must split bills equally with your wife, then you must also split chores equally. Otherwise, you are not building a marriage; you are creating a roommate arrangement with benefits. Marriage thrives on love, and complementary roles, not strict financial scorekeeping. Above all, love God.

Imagine being married to or dating unsupportive partner in this time we are in.

🚨This is what childhood looks like in Gaza‼️

the sacrifices of child birth, should never be used as a point when discussing 50/50

I don't think people understand the gravity of the situation as the UN is preparing for possible nuclear weapon use in Iran. This is a picture of Tehran. For you uneducated, untraveled, never-served, warhawks licking your chops at the thought of bombing it. It's not some low population desert. There are families, children, family pets. Regular working class people with dreams. You're sick to want war. Tehran is a city of nearly 10,000,000 people. Imagine nuking Washington, Berlin, Paris, London, or beyond, bombed with nuclear weapons. I gave up my diplomatic career to leak this information. I suspended my duties so as not to be part of or a witness to this crime against humanity, in an attempt to prevent a nuclear winter before it is too late. Yesterday, nearly ten million people protested “No Kings” in the United States. The possibility of the use of nuclear weapons must be taken very seriously. It's dangerous. Act now. Spread this message worldwide. Take the streets. Protest for our humanity and future. Only the people can stop it. History will remember us.

What are the natural ways to prevent pregnancy as a woman who doesn’t want to do family planning and the Hubby doesn't like condom?