some one losing the ability to be patient with you and talk nice and just treat you with kindness when shit gets hard is actually way more heartbreaking than none of those qualities being there in the first place bcuz you did it before so what happened? Am I that terrible?
let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. let them reintroduce their hobbies, dreams, and soul. familiarity shouldn't be a cage. love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.