Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe
From my DM.
Good evening, Agba. May God continue to strengthen you with wisdom and bless you with a long life. I have been a silent follower. I really wish to tell you my predicament. I understand you may be too busy, but it's better I share it anyway.
I'm 39, married to my wife, who will turn 37 on the 23rd of this month. We have a 4-year-old baby girl and have been married for 5 years.
I'm a businessman, and I'm doing really great judging from where I was a decade ago. I own a real estate company with over 8 estate projects running. I have people living in some of my estates here in Abuja.
I have a car business that fetches me real money monthly, and I bought a nursery, primary, and secondary school in my state earlier this year. Last January, I traveled to take care of some matters at the school, and I met one Mr. Peter.
He's not a pastor or a native person, but he has the ability to see things. He can see someone for the first time and tell the person everything. He's just an everyday guy, and we were meeting in a beer parlor most of the time. This drew me to him.
When I returned to my base. My wife suddenly started a fight that I traveled to spend time with my sidechick. She rained abused and insulted me to a point that I lost my peace.
I remembered your teaching on a partner constantly accusing the other person of cheating. I called Mr. Peter to try to explain things to him, and he told me not to worry, that he knew my wife was cheating but didn't know how to tell me, and that he had no hard facts.
My wife is the most churchy person I have ever met. She prays most of the time, and yet Mr. Peter insisted that I must look beyond that. Knowing him and all he has shown me before, I believed everything, but I can't believe my wife could cheat on me after all we have had.
Last week, my wife brought in her friend to the house and I observed how the friend was looking at me. She is divorced but her ex husband was brutally murdered by a rival cult 2 years ago.
She has children. I couldn't get the look off my mind so I called a friend, a Pastor who is not in Nigeria to complain about my wife's relationship with this very friend. He asked me to share datails of the Friends name and that he will unravel everything the following day.
My pastor friend sent me a 3-minute voice note where he explained the relationship between my wife and her friend. Without any prior clue, he confirmed that my wife is cheating and blamed me for not having enough time for her.
He told me that my wife thought that I'm having an affair outside, even though I don't have time to do all that. He told me my wife's friend knows about her cheating and that she's a big influence on her.
I haven't been myself since this message. At this point, I know I must move on. I'm just tired. I change her car whenever she complains, give her 300k monthly, and all. It's unfortunate I have to let go.
Sorry for the long message. Thank you for all that you do for us. I would be very happy to hear from you.
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