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@ade_tewase
Muslimah, Translator, VO Artiste(English &Yoruba)B.A English and International studies ,Entrepreneur(Perfumes and all kinds of fragrance)
Nigeria Katılım Nisan 2020
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I get irritated whenever I have to share spaces with men, coz there's always that stupid one. They never miss it!
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I hate being in situations that makes me experience men's silliness-especially in professional settings.
I refuse to shake hands with this one, then he goes ahead to ask; "are you married, are you a virgin"
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Did you read my mind!
Y🍫@roqeebah____
@MrEazi105419 And this your friend will go to the girls’ comment section and write “men friendship is the best. Could you imagine I bashed my friend’s car and he didn't get mad at me?”, not knowing the friend was deeply offended but masked it. A boundary is important in any friendship..
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We had Clarance Peter, Unlimited LA era
We had Jude Okoye, Patrick Elis era
We had DJ Tee, Tosin Igho era
We had Sesan, Meji Alabi era
We had Adasa Cookey, HG2 films era
We had Dir. K, Daps era
We had TG omori, Dir. Pink era.
Which music video director’s era are we now?
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Working side by side with my wife at an event… God, I dreamt about days like this. 🥹
I handle the cakes, she’s in charge of catering.
Two passions. One team. One dream unfolding in real time. God has been kind.🙏
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I sometimes follow my boys to the estate park to watch them and other kids play.
Tens of children.
A few times, I saw some kids, likely between ages 12 and 15, getting excited at the phone they saw in my hand.
"Is that not iphone 17 pro max? Wow, you are a big man o"
Not once. Likely not twice. Different kids.
It got me confused.
This phone cost less than N3m.
Your dad or his driver dropped you here in cars worth minimum of N80m. Your parents own a house here. Why is a common phone exciting you?
Do you guys know your family's worth?
I can understand if this was in the trenches but it was in a community of upper class people. How is a phone a big deal enough to you to come meet a stranger for?
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@SirJarus They are quite familiar with phone models/prices and games. They MOST likely, have idea how much the exotic cars or houses cost.
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Let me not talk so you people won’t say it’s cos I’m poor😌
Fatimah@Naimsthoughts
Are we fr in this country? 😂 Eid makeup 370k????
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1. He raped you and you have stockholm syndrome. You were already emotionally weak and he sensed it, he simply pushed the final straw.
This doesn't excuse the zina that has followed but seeing the brutal reality for what it is, and its psychological effect as against insisting on the spiritual alone, will help give you a starting place.
2. You need to embark on a healing journey. I don't mean the nonsense salt baths, etc trend culture is selling.
I mean the real deep going within, facing yourself and demons, making peace, FORGIVING YOURSELF, and starting afresh in your relationship with your Rabb.
Take full responsibility for why this happened to you. Make the intention to heal and change the parts of you that keeps giving him another chance, and put in the work to ensure that you heal and change that.
3. Put the sin of zina aside, and focus on the wound of the rape itself, and how it put you at the mercy of this monster.
Take up journalling. Write everything you feel RAWLY. Don't filter. Give your pain the container to be expressed.
This will take you down a path that will include your relationship with your parents. Don't shy away from it. Face it. Be brutally honest, accept it all, and develop the necessary boundaries with EVERYONE.
4. Take up tahajjud. After every journalling session, what emerges after, go with it into tahajjud and tell Allah.
Tell Allah EVERYTHING. Don't hide anything.
Express EVERYTHING. The pain. The anger. EVERYTHING.
Tell Allah how you feel.
At the end of each dua session, ask Him for His mercy and to guide you to see His love for you.
5. Be KIND, MERCIFUL, AND FORGIVING OF YOURSELF.
Admit you wronged your soul. Admit you're weak. Commit to doing better. But be kind to yourself. Forgive yourself for failing yourself and falling into the sin you have.
My sister, LIFE IS HARD. We sin. Fall into the worst of situations. If we forsake ourselves, who will save us?
Time to stop punishing yourself for the sin, and commit to ensuring you don't commit it again. And you can only do that when you intend and commit to healing the parts of you that allowed such to happen to you in the first place.
May Allah have mercy upon me and you, forgive us our transgressions against ourselves, and keep us firm and steadfast on the path of worshipping Him.
You're exhausted because you're fighting the truth about what happened to you. Accept it, make dua, and do the work on yourself.
Fi amanillah.
Yusuf Ozemoya Abubakar (Abu Mus'abil-khayr)@Abu_y4all
This is a long one. Please do not judge her. First, my dear sister. You messed up and I am sure it is because you, yourself, you allowed it to happen. A man you are not married to yet, should not be in your house or his house alone with you. "Shaytaan will be the third person", as said by The Prophet. Let me not go through all those back and forth, cut him off. He will not marry you. It is that zina he wants. Yes, he may have liked you. But once a man has seen that part of you, while not married to you, a serious man will likely not go forward as he will think others also have their way that easy. Zina is a major sin. It is arguably the worst sin after shirk (an opinion attributed to Imaam Ahmad). Dear sister Anonymous, seek ALLAAH's forgiveness for what has happened. Don't let it happen again. What You Should Do Now: 1. Cut him off from any means of reaching you. He will not marry you. He will still try to reach out to you to have more of what you both had. 2. If he still tries to reach you, send him your parents number and block him again. 3. If he is not ready to meet with your father or male relatives to seek your hand in marriage, never uncut him off. Let him remain blocked on WhatsApp, call, Facebook and everywhere in the entire duyaa. 4. Never stay in seclusion with him or any man. Your body is a human body and it is also demanding. You can't be hungry and dying of hunger, while some good food, your best food, is beside you but you are asked not to touch them. You will eat it and clean mouth. Then apologise to the owner. Right? So apologise to your Lord, ALLAAH. 5. Be closer to ALLAAH. Discuss with your female and male friends and your inner circles that you wish to get married. Tell the pious people you know, in the local masjid in your area about how you wish to get married. Help comes when people know you need help. You will die hungry when you conceal hunger and don't have food to eat. 6. When the right man comes, you will know. Anyone who wants to come closer without talking of marriage is only interesting in "licking your honey". After the meal, they will go, they are no more hungry. They've seen the beautiful honey pot and know how it tastes. They go chase the next bee. 7. Don't tell people about your sins. Don't tell anyone. Hide it. Regret it. When you repent from a sin, disconnect from: - Those you used to sin together. - Those that make you sin. - One who has a connection with the sin. - Anything connected to that sin. - Delete all their contacts and then turn to ALLAAH. - Anything or anyone that reminds you of that sin. This is one way to repent from sins. 8. If no man is coming your way, propose to a good man you know has the ability and can take care of you. There are various ways to do this. You can go directly, if he HAS SENSE. You can send a brother. You can send a letter. You can send a WhatsApp message from a number you just registered on WhatsApp. His responses determines the next step. And many other ways. 9. Please be closer to ALLAAH read the Qur'aan more. Do a lot of sadaqaat. Pray Salaat in time. Do more nawaafil and especially the Sunanu Rawaatib. Likewise the night prayers. 10. Lastly, I will personally include you in my du'aa that ALLAAH provides you a husband who will be the joy of your heart and the bliss of your life. تلك عشرة كاملة May ALLAAH set our affairs and yours aright.
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Why is he jumping like Sir Jarus?
Skores@Skores9q
Omoh! Glass decking slabs don land for Nigeria. Tested and trusted! 👀
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You get used to it after some time
Anita Vams@a__vanita
“Drink water first thing in the morning immediately you wake up” Ok! Now i feel like throwing up Nasty stuff
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Not me calling my siblings later, telling them to be thankful they got to hear my voice again🤣😭
My sister called very early this morning 😆
ayantoyeazeezat@ade_tewase
That was me last night. That moment had me saying the shahadah. I was terrified. Alhamdulilah, I feel better now BP, Blood sugar level, ECG results; all normal. Helps that the person I was gisting with, is a doctor(Cardiologist) .
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After having iftar, you sit across the table gisting, then suddenly you start feeling dizzy, head aching,stomach hurting, feet cold, difficult breathing. You struggle to take off your khimar and you get laid on the bed for few minutes, then straight to the clinic.
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