GONE GIRL 🌊

My Plans 2020

Happy Birthday Suzanne Douglas.

It's my birthday! Can you share my art as a gift? Thank you so much! ✨🙈

Please tell me in full detail how u feel about me

people acting like me disappearing for a year and a half and counting is just unimaginable and it’s like. what i’ve been through is physical mental spiritual burnout x2000. a girls night and some martinis is not fixing me lol

Modern mid century interior design ☕

@imavenusgirl Says hi in asexual

I’m 26 and I’ve only had five crushes my entire life… two as a kid, two as a teenager and one at 23 😭 (not inc. celeb crushes) I genuinely don’t understand how people jump from one relationship to the next… how are you finding that many people you actually like?? 😭😭

Just found out that Take Me Out to the ballgame is actually a song about a woman who loves baseball wanting to go to a game for a date instead of a show??

As a matter of fact, burn more shit down

does anyone else rehearse what they’re gonna say in therapy or should i bring this up in therapy

Is the Bay Area having a hurricane? Tf 🤨

People have exactly a two-week limit on their sympathy. When you first break down, everyone is supportive. But if your depression lasts longer than a fortnight, they get incredibly annoyed. ​You are not allowed to have long-term struggles. Society expects you to have a quick, cinematic breakdown, cry it out over the weekend, and bounce back to being productive by Monday. ​The exact second they realize your depression isn't just a temporary mood swing but a constant struggle, the "take all the time you need" energy completely vanishes. ​They stop checking in and start treating your mental state like a deliberate character flaw. You aren't struggling anymore; you are just "not trying hard enough" or "choosing to be miserable."

Beyoncé gave birth to twins after a high-risk pregnancy. She developed toxemia and preeclampsia, had an emergency C-section, and described the delivery as extremely difficult. At one point (in her docu) saying one of her twins’ hearts stopped in the womb. Less than a year later, she had about 8 months to prepare for Coachella. Rehearsals didn’t even fully ramp up until ~115 days before the show, and she was putting in 8–12 hour days while still recovering from major surgery. She lost 100 pounds and then stepped on that stage and delivered THE GREATEST coachella performance of all time. In Homecoming, she made it very clear how physically and mentally intense that process was and that she would never push herself like that again. And yet… look at the contrast. Men can get on stage unprepared, forget lyrics, sit down mid-performance, and it’s framed as “relatable,” “funny,” “he’s healing,” whatever narrative people want to spin that day. But if a woman… especially someone like Beyoncé…showed up anything less than perfect? It wouldn’t be a joke. It would be “she’s washed,” “she doesn’t have it anymore,” “her career is over.” Women in entertainment are expected to be superhuman AT ALL TIMES, even after literally risking their lives to give birth. Meanwhile, men are allowed to be mediocre in public and still be protected by the narrative. Men should be stoned. The double standard is exhausting and it’s time we start being honest.

April 11, 1996

Two story sun porch. For when a single sun porch is just not quite enough. 10/10 would drink a Paloma on the second level with my friends. Perfect for card/game night.

You can survive being single. Not having a community however, is detrimental. Also not everyone with this desire gets to be partnered up & we forget that it’s a game of luck

Skateboard Installation…

US Forest Service being dismantled makes me want to throw up. There will be more devastating wildfires in California and less help. Rich people are going to buy up forests and ruin them. I fucking hate this country

Trauma isn't just about what happened. It's also about what didn't happen, like not being heard, supported, comforted, protected, or believed.