Akin Kan Bai
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Akin Kan Bai
@akinblack_
Procurement and Supply Chain Mgt| YouTuber| Mental Health Advocate| Digital Creator|

This extreme feminism Ideology is running some of you mad. Cus what is all this projection???

One day we will have an introspective conversation about this endless cases of Nigerian men and pedophilia. 🤷♂️



My friend is getting married tomorrow 🤭😂🤣 I never thought this girl would get married in the next 5 years 🤣😂 Person weh no geh sense 🤣 I wonder how she will start behaving now.

A mother posted on TikTok that she’s playing “gay” music next to her baby bump hoping that it will make her son gay. The entire comment section is FLOODED with to-be mothers and mothers sharing techniques they used or are using to make their own kids gay. This is DISGUSTING.



Seventeen years ago, I emailed a senior lawyer I admired and asked him to mentor me. He never replied. For a long time, I thought he was discourteous. Today, I would send a different message or, more likely, no message at all. On Saturday, 18 April 2026, I was a discussant at the Youth Economic Empowerment Summit organised by The Companion, an association of Muslim professionals and businessmen. The question of mentorship came up, as it usually does, and I shared something I wish someone had told me at twenty-three: Mentors don't mentor strangers. They mentor people who bring them something: an interesting mind, a piece of work, a thoughtful observation, an introduction, or a willingness to actually do the unglamorous tasks. The cold "please be my mentor" email or DM asks the mentor to shoulder all the effort of the relationship before the relationship exists. This approach rarely works, and the silence does not mean you are not worthy of being mentored. The better strategy is to become someone worth investing in, and then let the mentor find you, often in forms you didn't plan for. One of my mentors, Mr Mutiu Ganiyu, took an interest in me about fourteen years ago after he had observed that I was the one who signed the Reply Brief of Argument in an important case involving the termination of the employment of the Managing Director of a publicly quoted multinational at the Court of Appeal. When we met, he brought up the Brief of Argument, and we discussed the case for a few minutes. I was impressed with the fact that a lawyer would go out of his way to read the Brief of Argument in a lawsuit he was not involved in, and this taught me that the work you put out when you think no one is watching is precisely what people may use in deciding whether to hire you, do business with you or invest in you as a mentee. Since then, he has been one of my mentors, and I have gained tremendously from our relationship. I also spoke about other lessons from twelve years of leading Abdu-Salaam Abbas & Co. (@Abdu_SAandCo). It was also a good afternoon for conversations beyond the panel. It was a pleasure to share the stage with Suraj Oyewale, FCA, the CEO of @JarusHomes, Akeem Shina Oyewale, the CEO of Marble Capital, and Engr Olajide Faheed, the CEO of Omnicom Solutions Limited. I also thank my dear “Egbon” and friend, @OmipidanIsmail, for accompanying me to the event. Have you ever been found by a mentor?


Williams Fubara was a kind soul who had dreams like other young people in Nigeria. To ensure he got the best training, his family sent him to a private university somewhere in Okija Anambra state. There, some of his fellow students ganged up to beat him. He bled internally and without timely medical attention, he passed on. What happened? A handful of hall or hostel reps accused him of being gay. Williams was effeminate but stayed in his lane and never looked for anybody's trouble. He was kind and knew how to cook, so he sometimes cooked for his fellow students. He was a gentleman all round. I do not understand why a missionary private university should be the breeding ground for such hooligans and now, a young boy with bright dreams for the future has passed on. How will his family feel? What type of people are we training in this country for our future? This is not supposed to happen. Williams should still be alive today. It is not life that we are living in Nigeria. - Martin Beck Nworah

@iamDo2dtun Dotun my dear, you sef need to heal oh. You're projecting your own biases into what I haven't said and it's showing that your issue is not with me my dear. I wish you well with whatever demons you're fighting hun ♥️

So Madonna university hall reps and portal beats and now bold enough to end the life of a 100 level psychology student ??? Just ecause he is effeminate and suspicion of been gay ??? Why do we have to keep tolerating Ignorance and madness and the cost of Innocent lives ?

3 generations of greatness! Can’t believe I got my dad in this shoot for my shoe 🥹

How many of you pray and read the Word outside of Sunday? How many of you have a personal relationship with the Almighty? How many of you are consecrated? 🤣🤣😆 Equality is a dangerous god. No, we do not all have equal levels of access. The access is the same — the veil was torn, the way is open for all. But experiential nearness is earned through pursuit, consecration, and surrender. God is not the variable. You are. Read James 4:8, Jeremiah 29:13.












