Alejandro Reyes

20 years married. THIS is the flex. Marry the girl who loves Jesus more than she loves you. I didn’t grow up with a model for marriage. My view of love was shaped by a broken home. So yeah… I got it wrong early on. If that’s you, you’re not broken. You’re just early. Get mentors. Get around people who will challenge you, pray for you, and call you out (and up)… not just send you podcast links and Tony Robbins clips. (love Tony, by the way.) Here’s what I’ve learned (and still learning) after 20 years of making the wisest decision ever. ✅ Wanting to “be right” in marriage is a great way to lose ✅ Self-awareness will save more arguments than “communication skills.” ✅ Don’t just say “I love you,” demonstrate it ✅ Build a business that fits around your family… not a family that gets whatever scraps are left after business ✅ Don’t fake accountability. Find people who’ll kick your butt with love ✅ Pursue her even when you don’t “feel it. Especially then Take your daughters on dates. Speak life into them like the world is trying to take it from them… because it is. Help them become confident, courageous, and grounded in truth. Not perfect. Just anchored. And guys… Don’t let your eyes wander. Don’t get distracted by cheap attention. Focus on your wife. Honor her when no one’s watching. God sees that. And He blesses it. I don’t have a perfect marriage. But I have a beautiful one. Because we’ve committed to putting Jesus at the center… especially when it’s hard. And I’d rather struggle with God’s grace than try to grind it out without Him in our lives. To my wife, Sarah, my best friend. We did it. 20 years. You are the steady, faithful rock in our family. You love deeply, lead quietly, and carry more than anyone sees. You’ve brought stability, wisdom, and strength into my life…and I’m better in every way because of you. I’m not the man I am without your love, your prayers, and your patience. I love you. And I’m so grateful God gave me you. My heart belongs to you. 20 years. Not bad for a kid with no blueprint. Here’s to the next 20… with more love, more laughs, and a lot more memories.

@problogger WEAPON! love following along brother.

I'm a 54-year-old pastor. My coding knowledge is a bit of HTML from 20 years of blogging. That's genuinely it. In the last year, I've built six tools that my ministry team uses every week.

Feels like Claude Code (Anthropic) went on an all-time run last month to hallucinating and drifting IRL. And no real updates from the team or anything. Hermes wasn't playing when they said they were coming from Claude Code lol.

Opus 4.6 was just so much better than 4.7. Feels like you have to babysit 4.7 all the time.

@thesamparr @ecom_cork i love sam! he's a great dude.

@ecom_cork You can talk about god if you want! The point of core is you can talk about anything you want slash need help with! Thanks for being a member.

I paid 10k to join Hampton and the community is super cool. But after the first in person meeting I decided it wasn’t for me. When you have rich people chatting about their problems and God is not a part of that discussion it gets weird.

@Rasmic let it rip!!

I love sf the level of optimism people have on their work is insane I plan on launching my first product publicly very soon hirepluto.ai

@altryne @Teknium @wooolfred hermes goated

👇 This broke me... finally. I installed Hermes 3 times before, but never fully committed so far (including a full migration, setting up all creds etc). I have reinstalled and ported @wooolfred to Hermes (not fully, but well enough to get started) and turned off my January era OC gateway. Hermes with GPT 5.5 "feels like" the old Claw, responds fucking fast, self improving, proactive, amazing.... GPT 5.5 is still no Opus but it smells and feels good! I don't understand why, I moved my Claw to Codex runtime, I tried Opus via CLI (BADD), I tried doctor, I tried gateway restarts, I tried all sorts of fixes throughout the last month. Then 1 Hermes install later, things just click? WTF. Shout out to @Teknium and the rest of the @NousResearch crew 👏

@Shpigford next up… “the hermes community is kind of nice” lol

sigh. my wife is very happy with hermes (with gpt 5.5, no less). i don't even know what i believe anymore. what even is reality. are we living in a simulation. the game has changed. rt + follow me + subscribe to watch my entire existence fade in to oblivion.

@Shpigford lol.

Who's got some awesome Hermes use cases? I want to interview you and put it on X and YouTube. Specifically around business, marketing, productivity, personal ai assistant, etc? Tag them or reply... I wanna connect.

@Shpigford hermes + gpt 5.5 right now. speaking from someone who's not technical at all. built my plan in claude code based on the bottlenecks in my business (surprise... it's ME) and deployed it in hermes and has been working great so far.

what's the "personal AI" that doesn't require a blood sacrifice or a PhD in quantum physics to use? who's built the "Apple" of personal AI where it Just Works™?

@Shpigford @_adembilican_ thats a bummer to hear. i think the community has been super helpful. have you been happy with it so far?

@_adembilican_ because the hermes community is insufferable. massive blight on what may very well be fantastic software.

i'm so disappointed in myself right now

@OnlyTerp my bro got bars?

Was at a event last night with orangie & the only thing people who walked up to me asked me was "yo terp, when's the next freestyle" 😭😭

@mvanhorn @cathrynlavery can't wait to see how you're using it cathryn ;) i need some ideas.

@cathrynlavery eyes emoji

the tools I use every day are getting an upgrade. contributing to @mvanhorn's new stealth project. Turning the stack I already pay for into something my agents can actually use 🥳

@BrianNorgard alternatives on mobile?

This one screen has completely destroyed my WisprFlow user experience.

@thesamparr 💯

I 100% agree with this. When leaders say "retard" publicly - in most every case, its super lame. If saying retard or any other offensive word makes the joke land 10x, then yeah, say it. But tossing it around like this...very performative and inauthentic. Not a fan.

@noahkagan @buchi_yt family is everything ♥️

@buchi_yt Had a kid.

I wonder what really happened to this creator. How does someone build a multimillion-view channel and then just leave it like that? It almost feels like something serious must have happened.

@cathrynlavery @NousResearch now that is cool. thx for sharing.

@alejandroreyes @NousResearch I've used it intermittently for the past month; however, a few days ago I moved all coding from openclaw to it. Everyday does a PR, issue sweep across repo's, picks up sentry issues and fixes them. I just see PR's come thru, feels like magic!

ngl, @NousResearch Hermes agent is a wonderful coding assistant. Been using with telegram and it just works out of the box.

@IMJustinBrooke he never left claude

I’ve been using AI every day for the last 1,255 days, here’s what I’ve learned…

@IMJustinBrooke “justin brooke returns”