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I just spread misinformation and i also preach what i don't practice.

INMYBAG Katılım Mart 2019
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Akajutiwa nembuya😂😂😂😀
Nyatsimba Mutota@Thedukeofmutapa

Mutare Lobola Dispute Sparks Debate After Groom Demands Bride or Refund A lobola ceremony in Mutare has reportedly ended in controversy after a man who paid approximately US$7,800 in bride price claimed that the marriage never materialised despite the customary proceedings being completed. According to the man’s account, the traditional marriage negotiations were successfully concluded and the agreed lobola was paid to the bride’s family in the expectation that his wife would soon join him at their matrimonial home. However, days after the ceremony, he alleges that the woman began refusing to accompany him, leaving him confused and seeking answers from her family. The situation reportedly took an unusual turn when, according to the man, explanations were offered that the woman was allegedly under the influence of a male spiritual entity, which was said to be declaring that she was already its wife and would not leave with another man. The claims have not been independently verified. Unsatisfied with the explanation, the man is said to have returned to the woman’s family and demanded that they either honour the marriage by allowing his wife to join him or refund the money he had paid during the lobola proceedings. Instead, he claims the family rejected both requests. According to his account, they allegedly handed him just US$1, describing it as a symbolic “token of divorce” and informing him that they no longer wanted him as their son-in-law. The incident has reportedly sparked debate within the community, with many questioning the responsibilities of families after lobola has been accepted and whether customary law should provide clearer remedies in situations where a marriage fails to commence despite the completion of traditional negotiations. Legal and cultural observers often note that lobola is a deeply respected cultural practice intended to unite two families rather than function as the purchase of a spouse. Where disputes arise, they are generally expected to be resolved through dialogue between the families, community elders, or, where appropriate, through the courts if financial or contractual issues are involved. If the allegations are accurate, the case raises broader questions about accountability, the handling of customary marriages, and the need for transparent dispute-resolution mechanisms when expectations arising from traditional marriage agreements are not fulfilled.

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Shanix🦋💫@ShanitaAnkunda·
Next time just mind yo business 😂😂👌
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That ortega save against son is for the books🔥🔥
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Pep really changed our lives😭😭
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Welcome to City, Elliot Anderson 🩵
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Elliot Anderson is a Blue 🩵
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The person sponsoring this agenda muhombe ndatenda hangu😂😂😂
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