@Sa15161Sp @HowlerOfMars @emilykmay "who cares what you feel as a woman, your arousal doesn't matter, only the man's does"
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alice
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alice
@amalth3a__
-I don't post here 💔- 20- - artist- mentally ill about Ghost 🫡-
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@amalth3a__ @HowlerOfMars @emilykmay "Who cares what you feel as a man, your pleasure doesn't matter, only the woman's does.
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there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.
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@einzelne11 @natshipman @HowlerOfMars @emilykmay all im saying is, if you cant get denied sex without going into blind guilt tripping rage you might want to look into that 🤷🤷🤷
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@natshipman @amalth3a__ @HowlerOfMars @emilykmay She literally says that if a man gets aroused by sexual touch, he needs f...ing therapy. I was being pretty nice, considering how unhinged that comment was.
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@DylanDa75583294 @HowlerOfMars @emilykmay sorry but if you feel uncontrollable anger every time you can't get off you need help
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@amalth3a__ @HowlerOfMars @emilykmay You are literally pathologizing the biological drive to reproduce
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@einzelne11 @HowlerOfMars @emilykmay i dont need to have sex 3 times a day to stay alive idk about you. no amount of whining or guilt tripping will make you sound less like a pathetic porn addicted loser
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@amalth3a__ @HowlerOfMars @emilykmay Fast for the whole weekend, then go to a restaurant and sit there for two without ordering anything. Then get back to me.
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@HowlerOfMars @emilykmay so if you can control yourself perfectly fine then why would this be a problem?
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@amalth3a__ @emilykmay This is a completely unconscious physical response that I have no control over. I can and do control how I behave in response to it. I recognize what’s going on in my brain and that logically it makes no sense to be angry, so I don’t act on it or pressure my partner in any way.
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@HowlerOfMars @emilykmay you are exactly who sex therapists are for actually
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@emilykmay Can’t speak for women, but as a man It’s an unpleasant experience to get turned on with no release, especially before bed. I can feel myself getting angry and my cortisol rising, completely out of my control. If it didn’t lead to sex, I’d need to rub one out in order to sleep.
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@CorbyinYT @senvoler2003 well why don't you report and block from the get go? if the end goal is for all racists and pedophiles that interact with you to be blocked, why not just block them in the first place? what difference does it make genuinely
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@senvoler2003 For me moreso for a "dni" I put something along the lines of "if you are racist or otherwise a disgusting person i will not revenge your attack and i will report your account and block". It works a lot better to set it up that way instead of just "DNI racists"
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Artfight server just absloutely jumped me. Telling me to "just block all the proshippers if you dont like it" and then i got timed out for an hour. Just because I dare criticize the fact that i cant tell racists and pedos to not interact with me
Are these people fucking stupid
່͏@niggaayaoi
“You are not allowed to tell hitlercunny200 they can’t interact with your profile” I guess bro
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alice retweetledi
it really is a sneeze away from "lesbians using realistic dildos = wanting to fuck men" idk i feel like what people do in their own bedrooms with an *inanimate object* is kind of not ur business??? if you dont like their realm of fantasy maybe dont have sex with them like
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the whole knotted dildo=zoophile discourse is crazy cuz i dont see anyone talking about tentacle dildos. what about ovipos toys. what about fantasy dildos. pretty much all of those are gonna be atleast loosely based on SOME real life creature, right? where is the line here??
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@big_ole_dumb @darweeniewaves @beenwaitinforu there's metal detectors, security guards at all exits, and venue workers who are all able to call the police in case of an emergency. there's dozens and dozens of safety protocols in place at these shows, you 100% would NOT be able to sneak a gun into one
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@darweeniewaves @beenwaitinforu i’m totally fine with the no phones thing, the only thing that brings me a bit of anxiety is if there was a possible shooting. as an american, we always have to worry about these type of things 😞🥲
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She announced that it is phone phone-free in advance. If you cannot be without your phone for 2h, if you see no value in going to a concert if you cannot film it, if you think it’s a safety hazard (explain how), then DO NOT GO! Just don’t buy a ticket. It’s not that hard
🏁@concertleaks
Phoebe Bridgers has announced The Lost Tour with support from Alex G and Isaac Wood! Each show will be phone-free, using Yondr pouches that will be unlocked when leaving the venue.
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@messyroadl @darweeniewaves your phone gets put in an over-the-shoulder pouch, so it's still on your person at all times. there are multiple areas inside the venue where you can open the pouch(its magnetic), you just can't see the show from the phone areas. its not nearly as bad as ppl make it out to be lol
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@darweeniewaves how does it work? like they have lockboxs or what? /genuine question
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@staceyfrizzell @briestanstaylor @darweeniewaves I've been to a show with the yondr pouches, they didn't make me turn it off and there are multiple easily accessible areas where you can access your phone. it would take all of 2 minutes to be able to get to your phone if you needed it.
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@briestanstaylor @darweeniewaves It’s not an option when they force you to turn your phone completely off and the place it in a Yondr pouch. There is no way to access your phone.
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@realmetmuster @mmseagirl @lixnwoo @clockytgirl technically you don't HAVE to write anything better, but you can't be surprised when nobody wants to hire you because you are essentially telling them you can't read without telling them you can't read. I wouldn't want to hire someone who can't answer a relatively basic question
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As a hiring manager, this is unfortunately way more common than you would hope
𖦹@feminazzzzi
Wondering why my younger brother keeps getting rejection letters and then seeing this
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ok but does anyone actually own any of these?? ive never actually seen them in any other context but the ad. have people spent money on these
Nugget🎗🍃 MULTIFANDOM ERA@TheFrenchNugget
Here we go again, as per tradition who here remembers the ikea pride couches?
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alice retweetledi
@Noze2222 @turningmystile if you actually read the post you see its talking abt ppl inadvertently perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes. the problem isn't you shaving, the problem arises when you try and force every depiction of trans women to be shaved because thats what being a "woman" is
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@turningmystile Being a trans woman on the internet is about being called a misogynist by men for doing the bare minimum to make yourself feel comfortable and safe. Genuinely I think you're stupid if you don't see how shaving body hair is one of the biggest ways to pass easier
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@dev0tionals "they dont experience their dysphoria exactly like me! they must be faking it!" stop projecting YOUR dysphoria onto other people
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@dev0tionals have you perhaps considered that you're not the only trans man to ever transition. and that other people have different experiences than you
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When I was pre op my big giant tits made me ravenously suicidal and I would never ever want myself to be depicted with them. Curious
🏳️⚧️qwerty/friday@99decibles
we need more artists drawing pre top surgery trans men!!! trans men with boobs!!! big boobs!!!
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