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lauryn hill - everything is everything album • the miseducation of lauryn hill (1998)

Like this is just worse than being honest and saying you don’t like how she looks plsss why are so many of you like this actually lmao

“It just looks bad because she’s maga” the absolute cope

people justify body shaming when they find an acceptable target and then turn around and lie to someone with the same body type to spare their feelings. Like you’ve already shown you feel disgust at their body stop bs’ing

@hihighttyl Oc3@npdf

mooties pls recommend websites that provide free access to books and poetry without requiring a subscription

i would forgive cheating before i forgive porn watching

@traviful your entire argument hinges on some loose idea of perspective when the entire point of my tweet was looking at an already justified perspective of someone in a specified scenario! Not hard to comprehend

@anamorphisis @camille_piriou I'm so shocked you went straight to ad hominem and then posted a screenshot of an entirely salient point.

It’s interesting how people will claim to be pro-sex work and sex worker and in the same breath say watching porn in a relationship isn’t a form of cheating. You don’t actually view any of the people in those videos you consume as human

@BernkeNoBread Because they justify consuming porn as not cheating using the argument that these people are just porn actors and there is a subconscious dehumanisation in the idea that they are meant to simply be consumed as a media

@anamorphisis Yes, I know they're not the same thing. That doesn't answer my question. What exactly is it that means porn consumption *not* being cheating entails that the viewer is dehumanizing the actors?

@traviful @camille_piriou — white man who has the sense of humor matching a 14 yr old boy. please get out of my mentions with your general lack of awareness and inability to form a coherent argument

@anamorphisis @camille_piriou ...You're literally putting your perspective as the default while telling me that I'm not the center of the universe...? lmfao You're speaking as if you received the global mandate of how people feel and think. You really need to reflect inward, buddy.

People who will go through a million mental breakdowns if their partner finds their friend sexually attractive are going to get mad about this lmao. Because that’s not okay, but constantly consuming porn in a relationship totally doesn’t make your bf a misogynist!

And in the same breath bring up sex toys and compare inanimate objects to…real humans

@brigadeatdark this is so true (I’m going to mention it another tweet now) these ppl just don’t see them as humans therefore they’re not threats etc so it’s okay to dehumanise them

@traviful @camille_piriou You’re not the center of the universe, societal perception enforces the same heteronormative traditions you’ve mentioned. People are majority of the time, not viewing the women and men they see in porn as human beings and that’s very apparent in the general attitude abt porn

@anamorphisis @camille_piriou "overall general way" Oh, right, sorry, my bad. I forgot that I must accept that the way you view relationships is the default standard and not some arbitrary social standard based off of religious, heteronormative tradition.

@BernkeNoBread Being an artist is not nearly the same as being a pornstar…? Please explain to me how the mode of production is similar for you to make this comparison

@anamorphisis Why wouldn't this be equally true of an artist, animator, author, voice-actor...?

@BernkeNoBread we are following the argument of pro-sex work which argues there is labour (of being a pornstar) at the expense of a worker (the pornstar). you are quite literally consuming their labour for your sexual gratification, so the ‘it’s just porn’ justification is dehumanisation

@anamorphisis ...whether they're human wouldn't determine whether viewing pornography is cheating. What? If viewing porn with real people is cheating, then viewing animated or drawn or reading written porn is *also* cheating.

@camille_piriou sure but that doesn’t change the fact that there is an overall general way relationships are perceived and upheld. watching porn in relationships most definitely isn’t viewed as cheating in the same way in other circumstances, the dehumanisation is a part of the justification

@anamorphisis There is no universal rule on what constitutes cheating and what doesn’t, that’s for every individual relationships to decide

@saforgatmigej aww TY ♥️

@anamorphisis Oomf too beautiful

not deleting this after two seconds this time

@himejoshiphd1 ty always jade ♥️

@anamorphisis your eyes are mesmerising