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My boyfriend humiliated me in front of our friends this weekend, and I can’t stop replaying it in my head. We’ve been together 3 years, friends since high school, so this isn’t someone new, which makes it worse. We went camping with friends, he had been drinking, and while we were setting up a bug net he suddenly started taking it down. I thought he was adjusting it so I helped, then he snapped: “You took it down, so we’re not using it.” I was confused, said I thought it was him, and he just brushed me off with “whatever” and walked away. That was the first moment something felt off.
Later I was starting a fire to cook and asked a friend to grab a stick. Out of nowhere my boyfriend jumped in saying, “I’m no idiot, but here,” then started aggressively messing with the fire. Then he looked at me and said, “This is the hot part of the fire. This is the cooler part. You fucking got that?” in front of everyone. I froze. I didn’t even know what to say. When my friend came back, he started telling everyone I talk to him like he’s an idiot, so I repeated exactly what he said to me, right in front of him. He tried to defend himself, I told him to stop, and he stormed off to sleep in the car.
The next day he barely spoke to me, talked to everyone else but me. When we got home he said, “Sorry I lost my temper,” then immediately wanted to “talk” about how I’m mean to him. That’s when it hit me this isn’t new. He lashes out, minimizes it, then turns it back on me every time. Now he’s saying he’ll stop drinking and wants to fix things, but he’s said that before and I don’t know if I believe him anymore. I feel humiliated, confused, exhausted. Part of me wants to leave, but part of me keeps thinking what if I’m overreacting? Has anyone been through this? Did it get better, or did you leave?
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