Heather Buell

There is no such thing as trans. There is no such thing as gender. There is no such thing as gender identity. There is no such thing as non-binary. Sex is immutable, isn't assigned, and is based on reality. Claiming otherwise is a denial of biology.

@GabsClark5 💯 I agree, Maynard's voice is perfection, and can't be replaced.

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@monetization_x Yes, until I asked Grok for a fix, which helped. I ran a space the other night and it went smoothly.

@baker271974 Has this been happening to you a lot? 👀

Since X keeps crashing my space, join me on my discord. A much nicer experience. If you want the invite link, DM me.

@Sofia262445860 @cervixen No, humans don't have gender identities either. There's zero evidence of such a thing. Before you make a claim something exists, you have to first prove it does. Otherwise the claim is baseless and can be easily dismissed.

@baker271974 @cervixen Animal society doesnt have gender identities, human society does.

If men are women and women are men, then men and women are no different. Everyone is potentially a woman or a man, and both words collapse into the same meaning: any person of any description. “Woman” means nothing. “Man” means nothing. Any legal, social or medical claim attached to the human reality of being male or female is meaningless.

@Sofia262445860 @cervixen You're NOT a woman. End of story.

@cervixen @baker271974 Right "manly" means like a man, and for ppl who equate man with male (like yourself).. what do you mean by manly/like a man/male? Someone who wears dresses and make up? I dont equate manly or man with male. I see it as entirely distinct from sex.. you don't.

@cervixen @Sofia262445860 I don't know why x made this a reply to you, it's intended for Samuel (I refuse to use female names for dudes)

Woman is defined as adult human FEMALE. It is exclusively female. Womanhood is the experience of life as a woman. The ONLY way to experience it, is by being a female adult. Males aren't female in any way, shape, or form. Males who wear dresses still experience manhood, because a dress doesn't change your sex. Pants don't turn me into a man, so dresses will never turn into a woman. You can wear makeup, paint your nails and curl your hair, you will be a man doing those things, the entire time. I go makeup free pretty much every day, that doesn't mean I am now a man. I'm wearing pants today, still female. You are propping up a lie, that you've been told, and have convinced yourself it's somehow true, when it absolutely isn't. Males are never women, whether they are "masculine or feminine presenting". Woman is female only.

A dress is not an entry into womanhood. It's being female and growing up to be an adult. A female child is called a girl, as such female children experience girlhood. Male children are called boys, and as such, experience boyhood. It's not about how we are socialized, it's about the experience of being in our sexed bodies, and as such share a similar experience that ties us together with others of the same sex and age group.

@cervixen @baker271974 Society reinforces from birth that males should occupy the social construct "manhood" rather than "womanhood." An example of this is parents almost never buying their male kids dresses (even though a male wearing a dress is no "weirder" than a female wearing pants).

@Sofia262445860 @cervixen The definition of man is an adult human male. All males of adult age experience manhood. All females of adult age experience womanhood, because we are women, which is an adult human FEMALE.

@cervixen @baker271974 Male = sex. "Manhood" = a social constuct. Most males feel authentic occupying the space society says males should generally occupy but some don't - some feel authentic occupying the social construct "womanhood" - ie a trans woman, still male, gender identity of woman.

@Sofia262445860 @cervixen You, as a man don't get to explain womanhood to me, a female. It's not a social construct. The experience of being a female adult. You can't experience womanhood because you are male. You experience manhood. You will never know what it's like to be a female.

@baker271974 @cervixen You dont have a solid grip on reality. "Womanhood" is a social construct.. as i explained to you.

@Sofia262445860 @cervixen You're a man, end of story.

@baker271974 @cervixen No it doesnt but it might. Males are always males (sex) but their gender can be she/her/woman. Sex is not the same thing as gender. I

Men wearing dresses doesn't mean he's no longer a man. Fashion choices have zero bearing on your sex. You're a man and always will be. It doesn't matter what you choose to wear. You're not a female, therefore you are not a woman, it's as simple as that. All of your nonsense about clothes, hair, "cis", "trans" is nothing but cult jargon. You clearly don't have a solid grasp of reality. It's quite sad, really.

@baker271974 @cervixen Thats what being trans is.. saying "i dont belong where youve tried to pigeonhole me, just because im male, if i prefer dresses thats what im gonna wear, no matter how many ppl call me mentally ill etc. Because i deserve to live as myself."

The ONLY way a person can access womanhood, is to be born female and make it to adulthood. Males have manhood. Your experience in your body will always be from a male perspective. You will never have access to womanhood. You're not "trans". You're just a dude. You can claim otherwise until you're blue in the face, for all I care, it will never change the reality that you're a man. Woman isn't a set of aesthetics or feelings, or even clothing. It's the physical reality of being a female adult. You're trying to make it seem like your personal fantasy is somehow reality, when it just isn't, and there's nothing you can do to change that. There's no such thing as " trans".

@cervixen @baker271974 "Womanhood" does not emerge inevitably from your sex. It is the "socially constructed roles, behaviors, expressions etc." that you mentioned that society says "females should generally conform with." If you feel authentic within that as a female you are cis gender..

@JenniferPregea1 Same for me. Why we have to keep going around in circles where we have to explain to people that using accurate language, and referring to men as men is NOT an extremist position, is frankly baffling, exhausting, and also infuriating.

I'm furious, and I'm so damned exhausted. This is ridiculous. There's no excuse for this behavior.

I can tell you right now, you will not win this argument, because you are using circular logic, and logical fallacies. You're also desperately trying to convince me that your ridiculous lie is somehow true, just because you believe it to be. I'm very grounded in reality, and no one will ever convince me anyone is "trans", when I know there is no such thing. It's the equivalent of trying to argue over the attributes of unicorn species, when the initial premise of "unicorn" is something fictional in the first place. "Trans" is complete fiction.

@baker271974 @cervixen No shet sherlock. I just told you sex and gender are diff things.

@Sofia262445860 @cervixen Yet you claim you're a woman. Woman is the name for female humans, of which you are not. So yes, you keep referring to yourself as a type of woman which is conflating the two things you keep insisting are separate.

@Sofia262445860 @cervixen The world doesn't treat you as a woman. They treat you as a dangerous man with a fetish who trespasses the boundaries of women, which is to keep distance, so as to avoid violent backlash. You will never be a woman.

@baker271974 @cervixen Im a trans woman. You are a cis woman. Im not claiming we are the same (no 2 women are the same). Genetically im a male, but i have the hormones and breasts of females. I am feminine. I dress feminine. I wear make up. The world sees me as a woman and treats me like one.

No one, including you is "trans". No one is therefore "cis". There are only males or females, and if you're a male, you're a man, and nothing else. I am not a subset of my own sex. You, are not a part of my sex. You're male. There is no such thing as "trans". You have been indoctrinated into a cult, whose tenets don't comport with reality.

Masculine and feminine is not sex. Having these expressions doesn't determine or define sex. Sex is the developmental pathway our body goes down for the purposes of the role we play in reproduction, should we choose to do so. Males fertilize, females gestate. This is the same across the board with all mammals. This pathway is determined by the genetic code in our DNA. Since it's embedded in every cell in our body, sex can never be changed. Humans are gonochoric mammals, which means each individual has on sex, for life. Sex change in mammals, including humans, is impossible. Fashion choices, hair styles, hormone habits, and plastic surgery have zero bearing on our sex. You are still male, and always will be.

@baker271974 @cervixen Males can have a masculine, feminine or non-binary gender identity and/or expression. Females can have a masculine, feminine or non-binary gender identity and/or expression. Sex and gender are not the same thing.