My name is Darshen

I find it extremely funny when an African raised in Africa is complaining about UK heat. Who are you forming for?

My guy in the UK 🇬🇧 is frustrated. He just gave me a long call now. His wife gave birth 5 months ago and hasn’t returned to work, saying she’s still healing. Oya nau, while at home, go for remote jobs to support the family she ignores that option. Rather she focuses on "content creation" on TikTok that isn’t paying, while he carries all the bills alone, plus a ₦350k monthly allowance for his mother-in-law. Now this same mother-in-law is threatening him for “pressuring” her daughter to work, while she's still nursing a baby. She even declines the suggestion of GP appointments to really confirm her health status. Saying she just needs some time. He's so confused at the moment because he sees other women that gave birth in the same UK, and they resume work after 3-6weeks while arranging a nanny to take over. All the house bills are currently on him, and his wife isn't making life any easy because he doesn't even know when she tends to get back to normal work. All she keeps telling him is "give me more time to heal"...

I envy ladies that walk away right after the first red flag, I give a man 100 chances before I finally let him go. 😭

Man shares the dangerous “before and after” moments after eating the okra soup he cooked himself 😂😭 Would you still eat it? 💀

“If your husband cheats, the first thing is to find how to help him come out of the problem. Don’t be self-seeking about it — Actor Daniel Etim Effiong” What he’s trying to say is 👇👇👇👇👇 If your husband cheats on you, do not cheat on him or leave him, find out what you did that made him cheat 🫢

As you got older what did you realise?