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@amandanvc @sunlitfrowns very bigoted generalizations

I didn’t state that as my sole reasoning and outliers always exist ofc. I’m speaking in generalizations. I don’t think it’s super unsafe to assume bisexual men generally partake in anal stimulation to some capacity when with their male partners. If I’m statistically wrong then I’ll gladly eat my words

I can acknowledge that me not wanting to date a bisexual man is rooted in homophobia. I just don’t care to deconstruct it because widening my dating pool isn’t a priority and I feel like I’d be limiting their sexual pleasure anyway because I’m not playing in a nigga ass. Ya just refuse to be honest with yourselves and act like words don’t mean things lol

@pawapawzz @secretssixx :( sorry, but it is originally (and still is used as) a slur.

@bellboutiqu @secretssixx great AWESOME how come every label im comfortable with belongs to a bunch of fucking porn obsessed 4chan nazis

can we stop calling trans men twinks and femboys unless they identify with it themselves pls and ty

@ErisYoutuber @molliboyy @secretssixx yea dude nvm ur weird bro

@ErisYoutuber @molliboyy @secretssixx Again, the issue is the origin of the language, where it's *mostly* used, and where it can lead you down pipelines. It's still used as a slur. As GNC men we deserve own terminology that's made for us as a collective that honours our autonomy.

@molliboyy @bellboutiqu @secretssixx of really confirming that it's my perspective that's skewed and not yours lmao Granted I'm more than willing to take the L here, where I live is a kinda weird place anyway about stuff like this so it wouldn't be SUPER shocking to find out this is one of them

@princesspatttyy @puffpuffpowa "Lesbian women use straight women as trophies" ????????????????????????????????

delete this!

@secretssixx You're welcome!

@bellboutiqu thanks ! I wasnt aware of it's origins 🦐❤️

@molliboyy @ErisYoutuber @secretssixx she's not listening dude let it go

@ErisYoutuber @bellboutiqu @secretssixx I think you overestimate how many people genuinely use this word irl who aren't weirdos. It originated as a slur and retains its rhetoric. If any normal person hears that, they'd stop using a slur.

@ErisYoutuber @secretssixx Plus, most people using it to describe us aren't really...I mean dude have you heard someone use the word "femboy" in real life? It never rubs off well in any context.

@ErisYoutuber @secretssixx I don't think it's a good aurgument to have in good faith of doing what's right for GNC men. We deserve our own terminology and spaces and the right to not be called historically (and currently) derogatory terms. It's relatively new and can leave as soon as it came.

White people dni

@molliboyy @secretssixx Even giving them the benefit of the doubt, it's terrible how bad a hand GNC people have gotten since most queers have no real understanding of gnc people besides those words. Then we still have to fight against cuphobia.

@bellboutiqu @secretssixx I'm this woke bc it's really not a good word and #noticing how it's only bigoted GC white men identifying and using it derogatorily. As a black person, I don't feel safe sharing spaces with amazon warriors.

@chknbunnyxd 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀

@bellboutiqu well ur getting more bc im drawing Syph’s nonbinary coworker

eek i can’t wait to show these maids these outfits are so cute

@secretssixx 4/4 Mollis is the best alternative imo because of it's inclusivity to trans gnc people and it's foundation in developing gnc politics.

@secretssixx Lastly, the communities are largely centered only in online spaces and has always had a closely knit relationship with the alt right due to it's imageboard origins. The clothing style is a certain way but it never came to represent GNC men IRL or their politics.