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You will always think N2m will solve your problems until you make N2m. You will think traveling abroad will solve your financial problems until you start living abroad. You will struggle from getting student visa to looking for a good job, permanent residency, worrying about mortgages, insurance premiums, taxes and stuff,even though you might be more comfortable than when you where in your home country. When you’re single, you will think marriage will remove loneliness until you get married. The future and goals are deceptive. They appear as final solutions to life’s struggles. But they’re mere junctions in the long, complex journey we’re into on earth. Life is in phases…. but struggle is constant. No matter the money, passport or location, everyone is battling pains per time. Nothing will take away all struggles. You can only get NEW struggles. Our wish and prayers is that the new struggle should be less brutal than the former, but we must have some discomfort. It’s an existential principle. Orderliness is a fantasy, chaos is the rule of nature.

At this stage in my life, if I choose to be in a relationship again, I want something grounded in emotional safety, respect, and consistency. I want a man who is secure in himself and intentional in how he loves, someone who doesn’t turn love into competition or make me question where I stand. I want clarity, not confusion; effort, not guessing games. I don’t want to feel like I have to convince someone of my worth or chase emotional reassurance. I want honesty, emotional maturity, and a man who can communicate and be accountable instead of being petty or withdrawn during conflict. I also value a partner who can put ego aside when it matters, someone willing to grow, reflect, and repair when things go wrong. I understand that people come into relationships with past experiences and emotional wounds. I am not expecting perfection, but I do want self-awareness, patience, and emotional responsibility. I want someone who is gentle with my healing process, who doesn’t use my past against me, and who creates a safe space for me to grow while I continue doing my own inner work. Most importantly, I want a love that feels safe and steady, where I can be open, soft, and fully myself without fear of being judged, dismissed, or emotionally unsafe.

Quiet luxury vibes ✨😍

Saturday morning hustle. London is just like Lagos, always busy, and you need strong legs and a stronger account balance to survive the bills. I might relocate out of London lass lass o. 🤦‍♂️ But for now, I’m off to work. Make I go hustle for money because I don’t know what this app has in store for me.

Today will be a good day for you 🙏🏻

Another day to go hard! 💪 Rise and shine, my people ✨️ Let’s crush it today 😁

Remember the nonstop drama? Turns out the people who skipped the COVID vaccine 💉 are doing just fine. Who would’ve thought… 😏

Happy Birthday, Boluwatife. ❤️🎉

@boluxyl Happy birthday 🎉 more good life

Who is the most beloved Chinese actors here.

@olajiire101 😭😂

Now go back to your families 😹

Would you rather give your 10% of salary to church or to the needy ??

But is it possible to date a lady and not spend on her because you’re afraid she’ll cheat??

I don’t know if this is weird but I do not feel lonely nor miss people overall. People are charming and | love some of them a lot, but I have never felt lonely. Being by myself has always been comfortable and fulfilling, and some of my happiest memories are of times I spent alone.

If we date and I ask for your phone and you no give me. That’s where the relationship ends. Right there and then. I no get time to dey do back and forth. If you know you cannot stay loyal, it’s better to avoid being in a relationship with me because I take that sh!t very seriously.

Nigerians in the uk both the men and women 😹mad people. Best in cheating 😹they are never married or single, they will waste your time ehn 😹😹God go judge sha.

First meal and the only meal of the day. If e reach your turn, be eating 1:1:1 or 0:1:1. Na once we dey eat in this part of the world o

Today is going to be a great day for us all

Family land don go 😂💀 Are you still doubting #Enigma???

Na person daughter we go make me sell family land I dey find since morning.