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When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.

Some people only apologize to restore access, not to repair harm

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i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" and i felt this to the core.

You can’t gaslight someone who had to study human behavior to survive.

ada yang pernah bilang; “yang menakutkan dari terlalu lama sendiri, mandiri, dan terlalu independent itu bukan lupa caranya pdkt, tapi ketika tumbuh rasa terganggu saat personal space kamu dimasuki orang lain.” i'm feeling it bruhh!!!

i hate being mischaracterized by someone close to me like damn you really don’t know me at all 😭😭

If you hear a bad story about me, understand there was a time I was good to these people too but they won't tell you that.

시간이 흐르는 게 너무 무서움 남들은 한 발자국이라도 앞서가고 있고 시간도 날 기다려주지 않는데 난 여전히 제자리임 나아지는 것도 없는데 나이는 먹으니까 성인이 돼서도 이 꼬라지일 것 같아서 너무 무섭고 여기서 더 책임질 게 많아지고 억눌러야하는 감정이 많아진다는게 싫어

They keep testing you because they want you to act in a manner that justifies them not liking you.

One thing about me.... I will help you when I can. I don't care if you think you are using me. That's is basically your problem.

It’s manipulative how people label your anger as the real you, like your joy and kindness were an act. Emotions are all part of you. Being upset doesn’t expose a “true color,” it shows you’re human.

Men love a smart and intelligent woman until she uses her brain to decode his behavior patterns and bullshit.

They don’t dislike you because you did something wrong. They dislike you because you see them for who they truly are: the manipulation, the lies, the twisted truths, and the schemes they play.

It is! 😂😂

having a high self-esteem is important because when people start getting weird randomly you already to know it's not your fault

As an actual private person, I can tell you for a fact that people act very odd when they cannot even figure out who you are or what is really going on in your life beyond the surface.

If everything you offered wasn't enough, offer your absence