Brad Shepherd
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Brad Shepherd
@bradshep
I connect investors with solid CRE deals and operators. Licensed private securities B/D rep. Recovered landlord and flipper. Trail runner and adventure racer.






Y'all are hating on her but she's right... with two important caveats: 1. There is a gender permission structure problem in Church culture right now. Evening Relief Society socials seem empowering and deserved. Of course Mom deserves a break from the kids to bond with her sisters and friends tonight, surely Dad can handle the kids by himself! But ask the women to put the kids down for bedtime by themselves so their husbands can go hang with their brothers and friends? Now suddenly it seems problematic. Men realize that the EQ activity is optional and "the most important work you do will be within the walls of your own home" and "I'm not really close to these guys anyway" and "my wife will feel abandoned or upset if I'm gone." The EQ in my wards have been very supportive of the RS having their space and their time, even announcing RS activities in EQ so the EQP can remind the men how important it is to facilitate their wives' attendance. I have not seen that same deference from the RS about the EQ. Instead there's the sense that an activity that takes men away from home would be morally wrong. 2. Priesthood session was never just about "getting the boys together." It's also the message m The Brethren talk differently when it's to just men. They speak to you like a good football coach-- they are more blunt and get in your face a bit. For me and many men, that no-nonsense clarity is what gets to us-- a fulfillment of the promise that everyone would "hear the Gospel in his own tongue and in his own language." I sustain the Brethren-- even in their continued decisions to remove programs and practices that I love and relied on for spiritual strength. The training wheels are coming off, and that's a good thing. Now it's up to us to fill the hole these changes are leaving, and start developing a healthier local EQ "extracurricular" program. It's true most of us men have simply have chosen not to fill the hole left by removing priesthood session. In my area at least, we've tried create Elders Quorum activities. But they keep failing. There is simply no interest. That's gotta change.


They need to bring back the Priesthood session! Testosterone levels are plummeting and men need to sing songs about brotherhood and obedience to God in all bass in a big room together. Just replace one of the general sessions with the Priesthood session and I’ll be happy. We NEEEEEED it!


To call them non-Christian is like saying Catholics are not Christian because they honor saints, or Protestants are not Christian because they reject the pope. Labels cannot erase shared faith in Christ.







@joshnaa2gez It was delivered by a demon. Hard pass.







The kids found a newspaper today and I realized they had never seen one before. All three were fascinated and sharing sections and asking great questions. I think I want to get a newspaper delivery. Is there such thing as a balanced one?












