Bob’s Toaster 🍞🇬🇧

You can either live your life as a human and experience as much as you can fit in. Or be a compliant little bunny in a cage fed lettuce and water, until you die. It is that simple.

@karenmitchell__ Mine is a primary school headteacher, mother of 3, well liked by parents, teachers, kids. They don’t know her dark side that would push any of them under a bus if it meant protecting her papier mache facade of goodness. She’s evil and when you see it be afraid.

Why are malignant narcissists/psychopaths so good at remaining unexposed? They show their dark side only to selective people & their well honed façade to everybody else. It’s almost impossible for the people who don’t see the dark side to believe & accept how truly dark it is.

@skill_of_life And there’s a good chance they will cheat. Because it’s easier.

Never date or get into a relationship with someone who has avoidant attachment. Don’t. They pull away when closeness grows, they shut down when intimacy deepens, and they disappear when vulnerability appears. Their walls are stronger than their love, their silence louder than their words, and their distance heavier than their presence. It is not just difficult, it is destructive. Avoidant attachment creates loneliness, frustration, and emptiness for anyone who tries to love them. You will give, but they will withdraw. You will open, but they will close. You will try, but they will escape. Never ignore this truth, always protect your heart, because choosing an avoidant partner will only guarantee pain, confusion, and regret.

Our salt processing plant in runcorn is going bust due to sky high energy costs so we'll import salt even thou we have a never ending quantity of it. It's totally insane! Net zero is destroying all our industry. Criminally reckless.

@Ryan_Daigler Teachers. Especially headteachers (in my case). Discovered she was having an affair with the caretaker.

Narcissists are often drawn to certain professions where they can easily exploit power dynamics, control others, and make money while maintaining an illusion of expertise or superiority. These environments are ideal for narcissists because: -People are vulnerable (physically or emotionally). -There's an inherent power imbalance (expert vs. client/patient). -Credentials or titles provide instant credibility, which they can weaponize. -Financial incentives can be manipulated through overcharging or upselling. Here’s a breakdown of professions that narcissists are often drawn to because it offers the perfect camouflage and opportunity for abuse and ego gratification: 🧵

@libriscent I keep hearing this from well meaning people. Just let go. But HOW? The hurt is imprinted in my brain as a real memory. It was a good memory until I found out she was cheating. And now it’s a lie.

You need to learn to let go.‼️Alot lot of your pain is caused by you not being able to let go of things that are constantly hurting you. You keep trying to hold on to things that are slowly destroying you. You tell yourself that letting go is you giving up. But that’s not true. That’s not you giving up. That’s you finally learning to respect yourself. And if you REALLY respect yourself, you won’t have a problem letting go of anything that doesn’t respect you.

Cadburys with their non Easter, palm oil shit can FUCK RIGHT OFF ❌

@DearS_o_n Ignoring red flags and boundaries, like other sources of attention

Man to man: What’s one mistake you made with women in the past that you don’t want other men to make? We’ll be in the comments.

@anxietymsgs She loved me so much she was fucking the school caretaker. She’s the headteacher.

trust me, your ex still loves you.

@DearS_o_n "My wife didn't marry me for my money. She divorced me for it." --- Henny Youngman

@DearS_o_n Met the ‘perfect’ woman, lived together for 6 years. Discarded. Found out she’d been cheating with a work colleague. No shame. I’m wary now, about the arrogance and entitlement of many women today.

Did you know that when Denmark cut the amount of welfare that asylum seekers received, the amount of asylum applications went down by 71%? Now you do

Neil Oliver: "I firmly believe the objective is to keep the population on edge, constantly anxious about what's coming next." "Fear of disease, engineered shortage of money... existential fear of the end of the world, and wars without end." "The only war worth fighting now is the war we must all fight against the fear, and those who sell it." Credit: @thecoastguy

@libriscent Yes, I woke up to the realisation she was malevolent and manipulative and used the fantasy to control me until she was ready to jump to her affair cheat partner.

You're not heartbroken over them. You're heartbroken over the potential they never lived up to.

@anxietymsgs Sunk cost fallacy…

Why do people stay in unhealthy or abusive relationships?

@MatthewCoast “Give her space because she’s overwhelmed with work” - she was cheating with a work colleague and used ‘have to work late’ as a cover.

What do you think? #relationships #dating

@Ryan_Daigler Yes, it’s like the transformation from a caterpillar to a butterfly… just a whole new level of awareness and ability. My lying, cheating ex wasn’t worthy of me.

@libriscent I don’t understand that. She withdrew completely so she could be with her affair partner. That’s not love, is it?

If someone has withdrawn completely from your life, know that they loved you truly.

@Ryan_Daigler And that includes the law. I can’t even reply to her last email to me full of gaslighting untruths without putting myself at risk of a police record, fine or even prison for harassment. If it causes distress, the law investigates

We live in some kind of a backwards society where you don’t get fucked with for being a bad person, you get fucked with for being a good person. It’s really weird

@notcee_fan As she cheated, none of them can be relied on to be true memories of a happy time. Every single one into the trash

so after a breakup, what happens to all the beautiful pictures and videos you took together?