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Halo @GrabID pesanan grabfood saya tidak diantar oleh driver tp status di aplikasi sudah selesai. Tolong dibantu

Kalian @GrabID aneh bgt deh. Mesen grabfood buat makan siang, dari jam 12 lalu dicancel driver dan bikin ga dapet2 driver lagi. Lalu pesanan dibatalkan sepihak tuh gimana sih!????

Baru mau mulai cari mbak tapi udah sedih bayangin jane pisah dari daycare, dari miss nanny nannynya, dari nyanya, kakali, kakkinan 😭

@MOHU_Care i am dalila from Indonesia, want to register nusuk app for Rawdhah entry. But when I try to register with my email, passport number, visa have notification already used. I try to reset the password, OTP did not enter my email even though I tried several times. Pls help

@MOHU_Care i am dalila from Indonesia, want to register nusuk app for Rawdhah entry. But when I try to register with my email, passport number, visa have notification already used. I try to reset the password, OTP did not enter my email even though I tried several times

My wife stopped fighting with me in 2018. I thought we'd finally figured it out. No more arguments about the dishes. No more sighing when I forgot something. No more asking me to help with things I should've noticed myself. Peace. That's what I called it. For two years I lived in that silence thinking we'd reached some kind of marital maturity. Then one night—11 PM, night before Thanksgiving—I found her crying in the kitchen. Making pie crust from scratch because my mother had made a comment the year before about store-bought being "fine, I guess." I asked what was wrong. She looked at me like I was a stranger. "Nothing." That's when I realized: She hadn't stopped fighting because things were better. She stopped fighting because she stopped believing I would ever change. The silence wasn't peace. It was resignation. She'd built her entire life around my absence…while I was still in the house. Eating the food she cooked. Sleeping in the bed she made. Parenting the kids she was raising. And I called it partnership because I brought home a paycheck. Most men don't have a marriage problem. They have an absence problem. Their wives stopped asking because asking hurt too much. So they carry it alone. The meals. The schedules. The mental load. The holidays. And we sit on the couch checking our phones thinking "at least we're not fighting anymore." Brother, fighting would be better. Anger means she still believes you could change. Silence means she made peace with the fact that you won't. Tomorrow is Thanksgiving. Your wife is going to wake up before you. Start cooking while you sleep. Manage the chaos while you watch the parade. Clean up while you digest. Unless you don't let her. I wrote the protocol for coming home to a marriage you've been absent from. The 5 stages of wifely resignation. Why "I'll do better" doesn't work anymore. The 30-day silent rebuilding system. The conversation she needs to hear. It's called "When She Stopped Asking." Link below if you want it. But whether you buy it or not—wake up first tomorrow.

Banyak kerjaan dan ga punya tenaga buat ngapa-ngapain sampai siang ini

Gausah gratis gapapa ya Allah kalo dia mah, tiba-tiba dis punya duit lebih buat daftar gitu juga gapapa banget gausah dikasih aku duitnya gapapa buat daftar umroh aja 🤲🏼

Ya Allah, alhamdulillah banget aku dipanggil lagi buat berangkat umroh tapi tolong ya Allah sekalian suamiku ikut juga 🤲🏼

Pokonya akan terus kuungkit meski katanya para nenek yg satu pengen eek yang satu bingung jadi ikut nunggu di kamar. Suaminya lagi ribet ngurusin administrasi anak sama nguburin ari-ari. Tapi akan tetap kubahas “pas dipanggilin keluarga ibu lila sampe 3x ga ada yg nyamperin”

Padahal pas mo operasi ada, suami, nyokap, mertua. Pas kelar ga ada. Ga adaaaa keluarganya bu lila

Sementara akuuuuuuu…

Minimal kalo ga bisa say thanks udah dibenerin, diem aja ok aja lah. Kok jadi gue yg salah dih Sekali lagi denger sih gue ngajuin keluar lah mo jadi irt aja saya mah ngapain kerja juga udah inisiatif masih salah aja

Ini kesel kesel gue tinggal sih. Udah bener gue inisiatif benerin nyari dimana letak salahnya masih aja “kenapa ga kamu benerin sih skip mulu” Yaelah lu pada udah bukan skip lagi kan tp ga tau itu salah

Sekarang tiap masuk weekend jadi antara ga nyaman atau ga happy. Antara mau seharian sm jane tp ga nyaman atau nyaman tp ga sama jane. Sedihnya jadi ibunya sendiri yg harus ngalah.

Capek banget. Beres mpasi, ngurusin asi, ngurusin barang bececeran, mandi, harus beresin kasur kamar, pumping, nenin bocil. Masih juga harus ngomong tolong dong iniin ituin. Hhhh

Ngulekin kek. Ngerapihin kek barang abis pakenya. Ngelapin meja bececeran asi kek. Ngelipetin gendongan kek. Naroin lagi barang-barang ketempatnya kek. Tuh keliatan semua sama mata. Kalo mau mah.

Sebel banget ketika ada orang tapi pas kita masih harus beresin mpasi, beresin asi, beresin gendongan, beresin barang bececeran yg udah lama bececeran tp ga diberes-beresin, diem aja sama hape. Giliran jadi ngedumel, ya kan dibantuin km minta tolong jg dibantu.