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Here’s a piece of unsolicited advice for Men with money entering relationships: A lot of your relationships fail because you started with an unsustainable version of you. Sometimes when we love someone, we try to secure that love through too much effort, attention, gifts, or availability too early. “You can kill a new plant by watering it too much.” The problem with doing too much too early is that your initial effort becomes the standard. A relationship that starts at 100 has nowhere natural to grow. When you give too much too early, the relationship skips the stage where you 2 gradually learn to love each other in a realistic way. Your effort becomes your identity in the relationship. So when you reduce that effort later, it feels like less love to the other person whereas you’re just dealing with life. When you have money, it’s tempting to do too much too early. But it’s usually a bad idea even if you can afford it.

The system works when you call the managers to order asserting your rights as a citizen. My encounter with IBEDC that has saved me over ₦800,000 in power bills. About a week ago, I wrote angrily to IBEDC via dm. Prior to sending the text, I had recorded a voice message via their helpline detailing how they were running a scam with supply in my estate. I was really upset and I threatened a class action suit 😅. They responded and asked for my details. Then yesterday, to my surprise, I bought light and I was billed ₦32/kWh against the ₦225/kWh that we pay per unit. With ₦140,000, I got over 4,000 units. Before now, it would have cost me over ₦900,000 to get 4k units. Here’s the background: I live in an area placed on Band A. We have very stable light, guaranteed minimum of 20hrs daily and light will always be on overnight. However, for over two weeks, we had no overnight supply, and total daily supply dropped to about 12 hours or less. At one point, we had no power for 48 hours, the worst experience in seven years here. So out of frustration, I escalated the issue through their official channels. I explained that I had documented supply hours over the past two months and that it clearly provided grounds for legal action, especially since Band A comes with obligations. If those aren’t met, the feeder is meant to be downgraded so customers aren’t charged premium tariffs unfairly until whatever issue they had is fixed. So I got a call yesterday, and boom. I paid wayyyyy less for an improved supply (18hrs since then). Everyone in the community will also benefit from the action. Know your rights and put the system to the test, the people at the backend (especially service providers) get away with a lot because we don’t escalate issues through appropriate channels.

The system works when you call the managers to order asserting your rights as a citizen. My encounter with IBEDC that has saved me over ₦800,000 in power bills. About a week ago, I wrote angrily to IBEDC via dm. Prior to sending the text, I had recorded a voice message via their helpline detailing how they were running a scam with supply in my estate. I was really upset and I threatened a class action suit 😅. They responded and asked for my details. Then yesterday, to my surprise, I bought light and I was billed ₦32/kWh against the ₦225/kWh that we pay per unit. With ₦140,000, I got over 4,000 units. Before now, it would have cost me over ₦900,000 to get 4k units. Here’s the background: I live in an area placed on Band A. We have very stable light, guaranteed minimum of 20hrs daily and light will always be on overnight. However, for over two weeks, we had no overnight supply, and total daily supply dropped to about 12 hours or less. At one point, we had no power for 48 hours, the worst experience in seven years here. So out of frustration, I escalated the issue through their official channels. I explained that I had documented supply hours over the past two months and that it clearly provided grounds for legal action, especially since Band A comes with obligations. If those aren’t met, the feeder is meant to be downgraded so customers aren’t charged premium tariffs unfairly until whatever issue they had is fixed. So I got a call yesterday, and boom. I paid wayyyyy less for an improved supply (18hrs since then). Everyone in the community will also benefit from the action. Know your rights and put the system to the test, the people at the backend (especially service providers) get away with a lot because we don’t escalate issues through appropriate channels.

When was your first salary ever And how much was it. Me: N60,000. Year 2013