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Our $10 pdf is getting some positive feedback Helps you use the same process that has now gotten me -400 approaches in 3 months (while working a full time job) -50 contacts -18 dates -6 something happened -2 almost -1 left without a single base -1 stalker (story coming later)

This is especially accurate for the “gurus” on X, instagram, youtube. Most gurus are inflating their results or have some other things they are hiding

The best sales people in the world rarely have a 50% close rate. 20% is average If you watch a looksmax Clavicular stream, he’ll go out, get a few numbers, then things can crash and burn by the time he gets them home even Dating and pickup is messy. You get rejected, shit happens 20% is average. Expect lower if your volume is low

@steveonomics Yesterday approaching at the mall. High volume

Saw my first fent fold irl yesterday. Took everything not to give a strong kick into the street.

Bro got the Nigerian malnutrition starvation victim legs

@WifiMoneyPlant @aruvinchan In competitive locations for apps, guys need to be on 4-5 apps, pay for premium on all, and swipe/message for at least a couple hours a day, and have a script for texting, follow up on all stagnant convos 3-4x. Cold approach improves dates, texting, and access to more “leads”

@dg_groupchat @aruvinchan i have never gotten an app date, i don't put effort in it I'm an influencer, IG is my "dating app" + cold approach abroad where i don't have clout. my socials help me AMOG there too

Why you feel burnt out: Most “serious” daters are using dating apps 10+ hours per week Opening the app 10+ times a day You’re doing this while you’re doing other things Better to delete them and take an hour a few times a week to walk and talk to girls. focus on your life

@WifiMoneyPlant @aruvinchan If you are getting good results on the apps, and you track your usage, mental bandwidth coming up with openers, texting, adding contacts, etc. Easily adds up to 10 a week for guys getting good results

@dg_groupchat @aruvinchan whats ur take on this? Cold approach does take less time if you do it while living and use it to collect numbers and call them over But i dont see how apps use 10+ hours a week, that said the efficacy is certainly down in 2026 vs IRL which few have balls for

@JetbatUnleashed Yes, normal waves. Happens in sales, surfing (literally), life in general

@dg_groupchat It’s also extremely random as well. One week, I’ll have 3 dates that go nowhere. The next, all 3 dates are eager DTF girls. it’s a rollercoaster!

@JetbatUnleashed always focus on under the radar hot ones, or ones who joined the app within a week or two

When to superlike/rose on Tinder/Hinge? Here’s my philosophy: Generally, don’t. Potentially signals desperation, over-investment, over-interest, etc. But there’s nuance: With the traditionally hot/young girls, we all know how inundated they are. They’re even inundated with super likes. The superlike won’t make you stand out in the sea of them, AND it potentially has those negative implications I mentioned. Here’s how I use super likes: Use them on the girls that aren’t the traditionally super hot girls that are already getting blown up. Use them on the girls that you still like and want to meet up with but have some specific quality that you’re attracted to but not everyone else might be. Maybe she has a more unique/alternative/polarizing style (goth, alt, etc.) Maybe she’s not the prettiest girl but you really like her ass. I think black girls generally receive less attention than most other ethnicities, so if you like them they’re a good candidate for the super like. For me, I love MILFs and older women — they get less attention than the young girls generally. To oversimplify, I’d say the superlike works best on a girl that you have an SMV advantage on, but obviously only ones you’d still like to meet with. But overall, if it’s a girl you’re seriously hoping to match with, it’s not worth the risk. Paradoxically, you use them on girls you don’t care that much about but would still be down to meet.

“High value sales people don’t call prospects, they sit at home and let the prospects come to them” If this was the case, the GDP of the US would be significantly lower Same with dating, your results are significantly lower if you don’t take action

Interesting to see Japanese people get worked up about getting mogged during cold approach

Meanwhile Latinas and blacks have this lighting and constantly pregnant

You don’t want to find girls who are into “interesting” guys, you want to find low key girls who like you for you. How? More volume and find them with good timing

Can girls look at random guys who cold approach as lower value? Yes Is cold approach difficult? Yes Can you find unique girls from cold approach you can’t find on dating apps with enough volume? Yes Can you replace 3 of your 60 weekly screentime hours with approaching? Yes

@healthychangez Bought this one yesterday it now says 19g on the package

There’s a guy on TikTok who fixed 15 years of IBS and gut issues by eating beans daily. I’m intrigued. I think the underconsumption of fiber is a huge problem and why gut issues have been exploding.

@FrankLopezGhost Facebook boomer slop

I’m so tired of this staged content.

Calling a women a “bitch” gives her emotional swing too much respect. it’s a reactive term. What she does shouldn’t even register If she does something really dumb you either see her less or not at all. For LTR, only have a longer sit down communication 1-2 x per year. If you’re needing more communication than that then you probably don’t have a good fit

Guys following “pro dating coaches” “expert tips” for texting on dating apps

Questions you should never ask. And questions a woman should never ask you A male should never communicate this much with a female