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jatuh cinta diera sekarang sangat menakutkan. setiap yang tulus, dipermainkan. punya niat baik, malah dihajar rasa sakit. fokus kesatu orang, malah pembalasannya diduakan. beruntunglah orang-orang yang menemukan pasangan yang memang tulus dari awal sampai akhir.

Before you send that long message trying to explain how much you care… pause for a second. Take a breath. Because the truth is… they already know. Your effort showed that. Your consistency showed that. Your patience showed that. You don’t have to keep proving something you’ve already made clear. If someone is acting distant or indifferent, it’s not because they’re confused. It’s because they’re choosing not to meet you where you are. And no amount of explaining is going to change that. You can’t talk someone into valuing you. You can’t type the perfect message and suddenly become a priority. And the more you try to over-explain, the more you end up draining yourself. So instead… redirect that energy. Put it back into you. Your peace. Your self-respect. Because if someone can see your heart clearly and still handle it carelessly… that tells you everything you need to know. And sometimes the strongest thing you can do isn’t sending the message at all. It’s choosing your dignity… and staying silent.

Aku jadi keinget kata-kata yang kalo nggak salah, “once you’re in love, you will slowly become someone you love.” Not an exact copy, but it’s more like you will adopt something from them… bisa jadi kebiasaan, cara bertutur kata, even sesimpel vocab yang dipake pacar pun bakal—

kangen waktu pas awal” ktmu😔

cape

lebih suka ketemu langsung, kalo dichat lu kek babi

kl lgbt penyakit gw mau izin kuliah krn sakit lesbi hmmm

kadang emang lebih baik ngebiarin orang-orang pergi, don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanation, don't chase answers, and don't expect people to understand, karena enggak ada yang ngertiin kamu selain diri kamu sendiri.

kangen enggak sih? rasanya naksir orang beneran, like having sparks all over your stomach when you look at them in real life and smile silly without you realize, terus punya semangat buat menjalani hari, karena kamu bakal ketemu dia.

jgn prnh ngasi harapan ke seseorang, kalo lo aja bingung sm perasaan diri lo sendiri.

I’ve tasted going back to an ex, and I’ve tasted trying to fix a relationship before it breaks off. I highly recommend focusing on your career, praying to God every day, and going to sleep before 9 PM.

ternyata maksain komunikasi sama orang yang udah gak ada rasa sama kita tu ternyata lelah ya

Just a friendly reminder. Train yourself not to become too emotionally attached to anyone because when they stop communicating or stop talking to you, you might not recover from it. Remember, people wake up with different feelings everyday. That’s why it’s important to stay grounded and not rely too much on anyone for your happiness. Protect your peace.

coping mechanism i-

YANG LAGI PENGEN CIUMAN RETWEET

@sabertoad ?

this is what i feel every fuckking day

di era sekarang kalo ketemu orang pasti sisaan semua, sisaan hts sisaan trauma sisaan trust issue sisaan denial sisaan balik kemantan

@sabertoad dont say that

mungkin kodrat gw cuma dirusak trus ditinggal yak

Me after arguing with the only person i talk to