DML
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DML
@dmlkeys
Producer, Musician, Multi-Instrumentalist 👑 (Piano Major). Passionate Arsenal Fan, Football Analyst, Crypto Savvy #ScriptNetwork🇦🇺🇺🇸
Australia/USA Katılım Eylül 2010
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See life now;
- Man Utd fans were supporting Chelsea to lose to City so as to stop Arsenal from winning the league. They celebrated the defeat together.
- Chelsea fans left their players & they were pushing Bruno's agenda ahead of Arsenal. They formed a collabo.
- Now, Chelsea fans are begging Man Utd to win at Brighton for hopes to play in Europe & Man Utd fans are saying NAAAAA, they want to win & break the assist records.
- In the end, don't form alliance with your rivals. 🤣
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@Xaffy11 @HandofArsenal @Eleganzy12 It won’t only be absolute cinema, it will open so many eyes into how truly special Arteta is.
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@HandofArsenal @Eleganzy12 Inject this directly into my veins! After the historic run we’ve had, a behind the scenes documentary is exactly what the culture needs. Seeing the inner workings of Mikel's masterclass will be absolute cinema. Drop the teaser! 😭🔴⚪️
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I got a £4,500/month UK job offer yesterday and my husband wants me to reject it because they won’t sponsor him immediately 😭💔😭
We just got back from church yesterday, and I was in the kitchen dishing the Sunday rice. My phone buzzed. It was an email I had been praying for since January.
A top UK tech company wanted me to relocate to London and lead their digital strategy team.
For someone who has struggled for years in Aba, cried through failed businesses, and survived months of zero income. This was the breakthrough I had prayed for since January.
I screamed and ran to the living room to show my husband.
At first, he hugged me tightly. He was soo happy and proud. Then he kept reading.
To take the job, I have to relocate to their London office immediately for a 9-month intense incubation phase.
The company will only sponsor my visa for now. Dependents can only join after one year if my contract becomes permanent.
My husband’s smile dropped. He handed the phone back to me and said, "So, you’ll reject it, right?"
I froze. Reject it?
I tried to explain to him that this is a once in a lifetime opportunity and that nine months will fly by. That this could completely change our future financially.
He looked at me, and said, "I carried this home financially for 2 years while your business made nothing.
I paid the rent. I fed us. I stood by you. Now your life is finally changing, your first instinct is to leave your marriage behind for almost a year?"
His words hit me like a physical blow. The guilt was instant. And the painful part? He wasn’t lying. He really stayed when I had absolutely nothing.
But I also remember crying at night because I felt my life was going nowhere. So, I promised myself that I would never accept the bare minimum in my career once I finally got an opportunity.
It’s just 9 months, I pleaded. "I'm doing this for us."
No. It’s you choosing yourself over your marriage. He replied, walking into the bedroom and shutting the door.
The food on the table got cold. Now I’m sitting here staring at the offer letter.
If I take this job, I’ll look like an ungrateful wife abandoning the man who supported her when she had nothing.
If I reject it, I am throwing away a life changing career opportunity just to prove my loyalty. And now, I have 24 hours to decide.
Please be honest with me, because my head is spinning right now: Who is actually being selfish here? And if you were the husband, would you truly support her decision?
Reply or quote this with your unbiased opinion. I really want to see different perspectives.
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@Idontgive2u Si vous avez la possibilité d’aider sans mettre en difficulté le financement des études de votre fils - faites-le. Si par contre, vous ne pouvez pas vous permettre d’aider , alors vous n’avez pas d’autre choix que de protéger les intérêts de votre fils.
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Je suis mariée depuis six ans.
J’ai un fils de 17 ans issu d’un premier mariage.
Mon mari, lui, a une fille de 16 ans.
Quand nous avons décidé de vivre ensemble, nous avions posé une règle très claire :
chacun resterait responsable financièrement de son propre enfant pour les dépenses importantes, notamment les études.
Nous avions des situations différentes, des accords différents avec nos ex-conjoints, et cela nous semblait plus simple ainsi.
Depuis que mon fils a 10 ans, j’ai ouvert un livret d’épargne à son nom.
Je suis infirmière.
J’ai fait des gardes, des nuits, des heures supplémentaires pendant des années.
À chaque prime, à chaque majoration, je mettais un peu de côté.
Ce n’était pas facile.
Mais je voulais qu’un jour, mon fils puisse choisir ses études sans avoir à renoncer à cause de l’argent.
Aujourd’hui, cette épargne couvre presque entièrement ses frais d’études supérieures.
Il y a deux mois, il a été accepté dans l’établissement qu’il rêvait d’intégrer.
On a pleuré ensemble en lisant la réponse.
J’ai eu l’impression que toutes ces années de fatigue et de sacrifices avaient enfin un sens.
Une semaine plus tard, mon mari m’a demandé qu’on parle sérieusement.
Sa fille souhaite entrer dans un établissement privé.
Elle n’a pas été acceptée dans la filière publique qu’elle espérait.
Les frais sont élevés.
Et lui n’a pas les économies nécessaires.
Son ex-femme non plus.
Il m’a alors proposé ce qu’il a appelé une “solution familiale” :
prendre une partie de l’épargne de mon fils pour financer les études de sa fille.
Je suis restée silencieuse.
Honnêtement, au début, j’ai cru qu’il plaisantait.
Je lui ai rappelé que cet argent n’appartenait pas au couple.
Que je l’avais économisé pendant dix ans pour mon fils.
Et que dès le départ, il savait parfaitement que cet argent n’était pas destiné à être partagé.
Mais il m’a répondu que maintenant, nous étions une famille.
Qu’il ne devait plus y avoir “mon fils” et “sa fille”.
Puis il m’a dit quelque chose qui m’a profondément blessée :
“Si tu aimais vraiment ma fille, tu ferais un effort.”
La discussion est devenue tendue.
Je lui ai rappelé que je ne lui avais jamais demandé un centime pour constituer l’épargne de mon fils.
Que je n’avais empêché personne d’anticiper ou d’économiser.
Et que protéger ce que j’avais construit pendant des années ne faisait pas de moi une mauvaise personne.
Sa fille a entendu une partie de la dispute.
Depuis, elle est froide avec moi.
Elle m’a dit qu’elle avait toujours eu l’impression que je privilégiais mon fils.
Qu’elle ne comprenait pas pourquoi je ne pouvais pas “donner un peu” pour que ce soit équitable.
Mais dans cette histoire, je n’enlève rien à personne.
Je protège simplement l’avenir de mon enfant.
Mon mari me répète que le mariage implique des sacrifices.
Je lui ai répondu qu’un sacrifice ne devrait jamais se faire sur le dos d’un enfant qui n’est responsable ni des choix des adultes, ni du manque d’anticipation des autres.
Depuis une semaine, nous dormons dans des chambres séparées.
Pas parce que nous nous détestons.
Mais parce que je sais qu’en cédant aujourd’hui, j’enverrais à mon fils le message que ses efforts — et les miens — peuvent disparaître dès qu’une pression affective apparaît.
Et honnêtement…
je ne sais plus si je suis une femme égoïste…
ou simplement une mère qui protège ce qu’elle a construit pour son enfant.
Vous en pensez quoi ?
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@Idontgive2u Ton conjoint est un parasite ... Il devrait avoir honte de te demander l'argent de ton fils ...
Sa filles devrait s'en prendre à ses parents qui l'ont laissé tomber.
Chez moi, je paye pour mon fils et ma femme paye pour les siens.
Ça fait 8 ans qu'on est ensemble.
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@Idontgive2u 2/2 keep your eyes on the goal you set yourself for his future. Remain steadfast on your goal and don’t allow emotional manipulation or pressure to blind your eye. The rules were there from the start. They’re not new. You’ve done nothing wrong. God bless 👍🏽
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@Idontgive2u The saying is true that love is blind. When you love someone, you also love everything that embodies them including their baggage. But blind love doesn’t mean blind eyes. Two things can be right at the same time. (1) You love him and his daughter. (2) You love your son and 1/2
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@PoojaMedia Pooja, I hear you. My opinion is, the POTS winner should be someone who 90% (or at least majority) of PL players would applaud and agree deserves it.
Would that be the case?
I would prefer a vote by players themselves.
They’re the ones playing the game and know who was d best
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Yesterday, it was an honour to tour Dangote Petroleum Refinery with the Directors of First Holdco and subsidiaries 🐘🏭
We were warmly hosted by Africa’s greatest industrialist, @AlikoDangote, whose ambition to the continent continue to inspire so many of us.
Even though I’ve visited the site several times, each visit reminds me of what is possible when big dreams are backed by real action.
Africa’s future will be built by leaders who believe deeply in our own people… F.Ote💲



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@FabrizioRomano Well guess what? Our set piece goals will be at another level next season. We’ve not even started. Y’all built this version of us and we will make you PAY.
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🚨 Arne Slot: “I congratulate Arsenal on winning the league, Mikel and his staff did a tremendous job”.
“But they have been a different champion than last time, it's first time in 30 years 40% of goals had from set pieces!”. ⛳️
“Luis Enrique said they are the best off the ball in our league — and I agree”.

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@PoojaMedia They called us NETFLIX FC. We have all their names and handles. Diyè bayi loku. Diyè bintin. Gbogbo oju ni yoo ri.
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I can’t describe my feelings right now… Football always gives back to those who keep believing.. To the fans who kept believing, you deserve this… Arsenal; the club that will stay in my heart forever, you deserve this… The players and everyone at the club who made it happen, you deserve this… Congratulations to the best club in the world ❤️ @Arsenal

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@PoojaMedia IYKYK. That was all Kyle Walker’s handiwork but it didn’t WERK 🤣
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Arsenal General Update
🚨 David Raya has a 1 year OPTIONAL extension on his current contract which has 2 years left. All parties are very relaxed about his long term future as a payrise was agreed last summer as reported by @SamiMokbel_BBC .
Contender for POTY? Serious shout for it.
🚨 As reported, Merino has begun training on grass, last I heard was he was doing sprint / condition work. The club are being very cautious and he must hit his rehab milestones before ball work. Positive signs.
🚨As of yesterday, Jurrien Timber has not been ruled out of a return. He had some setbacks during March / April and felt groin discomfort.
Jurrien was seen accompanying Heinze in the pre game training drills on the pitch yesterday. A massive sign of his role in the leadership group (1/7).
The Dutchman will make one final push to see if he can make a highly anticipated return for The Arsenal.
🚨 Arteta is leading a push to improve the general health and fitness of the squad.
🚨The Hale End Academy overhaul is being overseen by Andrea Berta and Maurizio Micheli. The grand aim is that it lends into supporting the first team & increase player trading be it loan or sales.
3 finals to go. Arsenal nation LOCK IN.
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