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PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: A reality check for the "Customer is Always Right" crowd. ​Let’s talk about something that shouldn’t need to be said, but judging by the daily chaos on our timelines, it desperately does: Walking into a place of business does not give you a temporary license to act a fool. ​We need to completely dismantle this toxic mentality that because you are you, because you are paying for a service, or because something didn't go exactly your way, you suddenly have the right to cause a scene, throw a tantrum, and treat workers like they are subhuman. ​The "Rules for Thee, But Not for Me" Delusion ​Some of y'all have gotten entirely too comfortable throwing adult tantrums in public. Let's break down the facts: ​Paying for a service is a transaction, not an ownership stake. Buying a $7 coffee or a $50 dinner doesn't mean you bought the soul of the person serving it to you. ​Minor inconveniences are part of life. Delays happen. Mistakes happen. Out-of-stock items happen. It is called reality. Throwing a fit won't magically spawn a missing item from the back, but it will make you look entirely unhinged. ​The Golden Rule still applies: If you wouldn't tolerate a stranger coming into your home or your workplace, screaming in your face, and disrupting your peace, why on earth do you think it's acceptable to do it to someone else? ​Employees Are Not Your Emotional Punching Bags ​Frontline workers, retail staff, and service employees are out here trying to make a living, pay their bills, and survive in an already stressful world. They are dealing with understaffing, corporate pressures, and supply chain issues they have zero control over. ​The bottom line: Employees shouldn't have to add "managing a grown adult's emotional meltdown" to their job description. They deserve a safe, peaceful environment to do their jobs. They are human beings first. ​Respect Is a Two-Way Street ​If you walk into an establishment demanding respect, you need to look in the mirror and ask yourself if you’ve actually earned it. Respect isn't something you get to demand while acting like a tyrant. ​Next time you feel a public meltdown coming on, try this simple thought experiment: Conduct yourself in the exact same manner you would expect someone to conduct themselves if they were walking into your business, your office, or dealing with your family. ​Let’s Normalize This: ​If you see someone treating staff like garbage, don't just look away. Support the workers. And if you are the one who thinks the world revolves around you—do better. Grow up. The entitlement is exhausting, and frankly, nobody has the patience for it anymore.

This mother is catching some flack because she said she sits on the opposite side of the parents on her son’s baseball team. Looks like the outfield. She said she can’t stand the constant chatter and lingo - “Good eye!” , “You got a piece of it.!” , etc. and all the talk in the bleachers. Many put her down saying she is not a team player as a parent. But some others said they agreed with her. I am with her. I usually sat down the line on first or third base. I want to watch the game and not chatter all night and listen to moms and dads coach their kids from the stands. Or all the gossip. I totally get it. Do you understand where this momma is coming from and feel like she does or do you think it’s rude of her to disassociate with the other parents during the game?