Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo@GbengaWemimo
One of my Christian sisters cheated on her husband
The man she cheated with came to Nigeria for Detty December, met her at the mall, and they exchanged contacts
He was staying in a serviced apartment building
He chatted her up, and she told him she was cooking for her family
He asked her to please make extra for him and bring it to his apartment
She did so
She left her husband and three children at home, told her husband that she was taking the food to a sick church member, and found her way to the other man's apartment
They had sex
She returned home, and the husband suspected nothing
She did this again several times between Deecember and January
Then the other man returned to the United Kingdom and blocked her
Apparently, the man was married
She felt used and dumped by the other man
She went online to do a deep research on him and discovered who his wife was, and also saw that he had children
She reached out to the man's wife on Facebook and shared evidence of cheating with her out of anger
The wife of that man confronted him
He told her this sister was the one who seduced him by putting a love potion in the food she brought to him
He said he jokingly asked her to send him food, and she appeared with it, and from that moment, he lost his senses
The man's wife reached out to this sister's husband
Shared the same evidence this sister shared with her and everything her husband said about the love portion
Guess who has been thrown out of the marriage now?
The UK man is still married despite cheating, (Love potion) was his excuse to his wife
My Christian sister has rented a room close to the Nasarawa border where she is managing with her three children
The husband is alone in their terraced apartment now
Guess whose phone is not resting day and night?
Guess who the husband calls all the time to rant?
Guess who the wife calls all the time to intervene so that she can get food and other things for the children
Guess who the sisters' parents and siblings call constantly to beg and plead on her behalf
It is I.
I didn't do detty December
I didn't eat the food she cooked
I didn't eat the love potion
I didn't sleep with anybody
I am the one praying, and calling, and listening, and begging
I am the one keeping vigil till 2 AM with the husband because I know if he is left to himself, he would get into a car, go to a club, pick up a woman, and slip into deviant behaviour
The prayer is for him to cool down and reconsider his wife and children for the sake of Christ and accept them back into his life
To ensure that prayer can be heard, I am mounting guard so that another woman won't come into the picture and complicate things
I didn't kill my mother; she is still alive
Don't kill me for my mother, I am still young
Stop doing things that you will make other people pay for in cash, kind, and labour
Remember my stripes, as Apostle Paul would say
I cannot deny my own brothers and sisters in the faith, even when they misbehave
I would prefer, however, that they do not misbehave in any way
Dear Christian sisters, please don't cheat on your husbands for any reason
Walk away from the union if he is abusive, does not satisfy you sexually, is broke, you are bored, or looking for excitement
Take a short break, go to your parents' house, or go and visit a relative
Do everything in your power not to cheat, no matter the temptation
Defending a cheating spouse is difficult
Defending a cheating wife, regardless of circumstances, is a thing of shame
You don't have to get married
If you choose to get married, don't cheat
Don't put me in a position where your husband will ask me, "Can you take it?" and I will be stammering...
This is a plea
Thank you
-GSW-