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🍉 つまらないもの | books cats junk journal | might rant in javanese japanese & in a sambat you will never understand it.

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A.Y.O@YusufAsunmogejo·
Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith. First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul. If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her. Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them. A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward. He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now. Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar. Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity. Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do. Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight. Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break. Allah knows best.
Lola💎@ComfortLolaa

How do I stop a child from stealing? She’s just 6 years old, but she steals like an expert, covers her tracks perfectly, and denies it with teary eyes so much that you start to feel bad for her and even second-guess yourself as an adult.

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Si Juki@JukiHoki·
Berapa usia orang yang nyebut remedial dengan her?
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会話@bad_texter·
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a t o y@dwikyota·
Salah satu alasan kenapa aku pilih perempuanku sekarang meski kami 180 derajat berbeda di banyak hal. Mulai dari hobi, bacaan, humor, & pola asuh keluarga. Aku dan dia punya lubang lubang yang saling menganga tapi di sisi lain kami punya penutup untuk itu. Aku yang terlalu perasa dipertemukan dengan dia yang rasional. Aku yang hidup di dunia ide sedang dia di dunia nyata. Idelismeku dilengkapi realisme pengalamannya. Kecerdasannya? Anugerah Tuhan paling indah di kehidupanku saat ini. Keyakinannya pada hidup, keimanannya, semoga menjadi benderang kami🌻
Werner Zagrebbi🇦🇿@zagrebbi

Picking a smart wife is much more important than that

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Unseen Japan@UnseenJapanSite·
Irasutoya, Japan's popular free clip art library, has released its latest creation in honor of the United States President, Donald Trump. It's a clever play on TACO (Trump Always Chickens Out) and the Japanese word タコ for octopus, which also means "idiot."
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a t o y@dwikyota·
@senogp alhamdulilah terus nakama
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a t o y@dwikyota·
晴れだった🌸
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dr. Adam Prabata
dr. Adam Prabata@AdamPrabata·
Bagi kalian yang sangat sibuk tidak punya banyak waktu, namun ingin tetap sehat, salah satu caranya adalah dengan menyelipkan 10 squat per hari di sela-sela kegiatan rutin kalian. Penelitian tahun 2024 menunjukkan bahwa 10 squat per 45 menit atau jalan kaki 30 menit, ternyata dapat memperbaiki kondisi metabolik tubuh, terutama gula darah. Penelitian ini membandingkan antara squat yang dilakukan di sela-sela kegiatan sehari-hari kita, dengan duduk terus selama 8-9 jam. Jadi memang squat ini perlu dilakukan rutin di sela-sela kegiatan sehari-hari kita kalau mau mendapatkan manfaat metabolismenya. Semoga bermanfaat! Sumber: Gao (2024). Enhanced muscle activity during interrupted sitting improves glycemic control in overweight and obese men.
Zib Atkins@AyusWellness

Ten squats every 45 minutes = 10,000 steps. A study from the University of Texas found that doing just 10 squats every hour can actually control blood sugar better than going for a full 30-minute walk. When you sit all day, your blood sugar spikes, your circulation slows, and your biggest muscles - your legs and glutes - basically switch off. But 10 squats wakes everything up instantly. Your leg muscles pull glucose out of your bloodstream, your circulation improves, and your metabolism switches back on. That’s why these micro-bursts of movement deliver such powerful benefits. In fact, research shows that ten squats every 45 minutes can give you similar cardiometabolic benefits to hitting 10,000 steps per day. This strengthens your heart, keeps your joints moving, and prevents the dangerous blood sugar spikes that lead to insulin resistance. So even if you don’t have time for long walks or full workouts, stand up… Do 10 squats every 45 minutes and watch what happens to your energy, strength, and metabolic health.

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Aakash Gupta
Aakash Gupta@aakashgupta·
There's a physicist at Stanford named Safi Bahcall who modeled this exact principle and the math is wild. He calls it "phase transitions in human networks." When you're stationary, your probability of a lucky event is limited to your existing surface area: the people you already know, the places you already go, the ideas you've already been exposed to. Your opportunity window is fixed. When you move, your collision rate with new nodes in a network increases nonlinearly. Double your movement (new conversations, new cities, new projects) and your probability of a serendipitous encounter doesn't double. It roughly quadruples. Because each new node connects you to their entire network, not just to them. Richard Wiseman ran a 10-year study at the University of Hertfordshire tracking self-described "lucky" and "unlucky" people. The single biggest differentiator wasn't IQ, education, or family money. Lucky people scored significantly higher on one trait: openness to experience. They talked to strangers more, varied their routines more, and said yes to invitations at nearly twice the rate. The "unlucky" group followed the same routes, ate at the same restaurants, and talked to the same 5 people. Their networks were closed loops. No new inputs, no new collisions. Luck isn't random. Luck is surface area. And surface area is a function of movement. The lobster emoji is doing more work than most people realize. Lobsters grow by shedding their shell when it gets too tight. The growth requires a period of total vulnerability. No protection, no armor, soft body exposed to the ocean. That's the cost of movement nobody posts about. You have to be uncomfortable first. The new shell only hardens after you've already moved.
@D9vidson

a moving man will meet his luck 🥀

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hunter@3gpmh·
the intimacy of protecting someone’s name when they’re not in the room
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cee@1ovesickkk·
“i love your personality” thanks! its pieces of everyone ive ever loved and lost
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a t o y@dwikyota·
素敵な御縁が繋がりますようにお祈りしてます
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しん@shinseyes·
桜を食べる鹿を撮りました🌸🦌
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gal౨ৎ@prtygal777·
weeping willows might just be the most beautiful trees in existence
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