Don't let anyone pressure you to marry. Marrying early and having kids early, is a very strong and valid argument for getting married early. However, we won't always have what we wish because man proposes but God disposes. Marrying late does not also mean you will marry right. Be intentional with marrying the right person for you. Many people are not enjoying their marriage but dem don enter. It is also okay if you don't want to marry. Finance is an important aspect of marriage. As a guy with a job, it is important you marry a woman with a job and pull resources together to foot your bills. Your lives as a couple would be much easier with family values where she sees her income as family income. Don't use pressure to kill yourself. When your father was using N100k to run the family and send you to private school has passed. Even if you're in your days of little beginning or she is, you must marry a woman with the mentality to add to your life and sees her income as family income. The chick that will become a cockerel, you'll know from today. "I no dey chop woman money" is not a flex. Her paying bills is not you eating her money. It is also her family, of which you're both founders. You take care of bills, she takes care of bills. You'll both keep footing bills with joint resources and be growing till you reach the place of financial freedom together. Where your treasure is, that is where your heart will be. People fight for their investments. She will fight for a home she is invested in, just like you. And yes, eat her money too the way she is eating your money. It is a relationship. Take care of each other and love one another that you sacrifice yourself for each other. You went to school to acquire knowledge to be able to make money to pay bills. She went to school for the same reason. You were raised in a home to be able to take care of yourself and have sense of personal responsibility. She was raised in a home for same reason. Personal sense of responsibility and family values must be at the top of your criteria in picking a partner.
