Ifeoluwa@olajumokeokenla
Update guys:
So I finally met this guy on Feb 13th. He drove all the way from Liverpool and even got an Airbnb because I told him he couldn’t stay at my place since he planned to stay from Friday till Sunday so we could go out properly.
On friday, He booked a reservation at a very nice restaurant. He picked me up from my house. The dress I ordered didn’t get delivered, so I wore something simple I already had but I still looked good. ⏰ it🤏
After he saw me, he was so happy and won’t stop complimenting me.. such a sweet man 😋.. after the dinner date, he he suggested we go clubbing after, so I invited my friend and we all went… he got a drink for himself and my friend while I was just dancing with my clear eyes because I don’t even drink alcohol… After about two hours at the club, my sweet igbo man suggested we go to a strip club. At first It sounds weird but my friend told me to stop acting like old school and it’s not a big deal and I shouldn’t overthink it, so we went. It was my first time going to a strip club though.
He paid for the entry and we sat down. No video allowed, no inappropriate touching of the strippers so at least I was relaxed. We were just watching when my supposed boyfriend asked me if he could get a lap dance? My friend and I locked eyes and I burst out laughing but she gave me the signs to allow him.. 😭so be called one of the strippers and asked for a private dance 😂 The girl said £30 per person. My friend also asked for one and in that instant, I felt like both of them were more compatible with each other, but as usual, I didn’t want to overthink it, so I asked my friend, “Hope you’re not mad?” She said, “See babes, I dey go through a lot. Uk wan run me mad, Make I enjoy myself.”😭😭
Note: My friend is straight, but why she wanted a lap dance too is what I can’t explain 😂
Anyways, while he was still negotiating, another stripper with a big, fine ass walked past and I told him to go for that one instead. You need to see how happily he did… in my head, I knew that was the last time he will be hearing from me.
They sha gave him a lap dance and he was smiling from ear to ear. My friend didn’t get one.. she was actually joking earlier. After everything, he dropped me off and went back to his Airbnb.
I woke up a few hours later and spoke to my friend over the phone. She asked if I was still going out with him. I shouted, “No oh!” but she convinced me and said I overthink too much and that I should at least consider the stress he went through driving all the way to Leicester.
I put a call through. I called him like 3 times, but he didn’t pick up. I just assumed he was probably still sleeping.
I called my friend back and asked if she would be available for sip and paint or something else we could go for. She said yes. I checked online, but everywhere was fully booked. Luckily, I saw a table for four, so I told her about it and she said it was fine. I just booked it for the both of us even though it was a table for four.
At 5pm, I got a text from him. The content of the text:
“Babe,
I’m so sorry.
An emergency came up in Liverpool that I had to attend to.
I even had to forfeit the apartment.
I will call you when I get home.”
Anyway, my friend and I went for sip and paint and honestly, we had an amazing time. After that, we went for a nice dinner, while we were at the restaurant, eating and enjoying the vibe and aesthetic… guess who walked in with the same lady who gave him the lap dance?
Yes. Him.
Till now, I have no idea how they got each other’s contact,
How they linked up after.
I thought he was supposed to be in Liverpool? 🤷♀️
So many questions but honestly, I didn’t blame him. If I were him, I will link up too.. she’s very endowed 😭😭
I wish them a happy married life.