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@edolefty
Edo woman. Candid reflections on Relationships, Health, Women & Children's Rights, Cultural identities. Contact: [email protected]
Katılım Ocak 2021
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By the way for those of you who are not aware, or maybe you are aware but you have forgotten, I just want to remind you:
When the terrorists went to Ogbomosho few days ago and kidnapped 45 people, they kidnapped 2 year old kids.
Read that again:
2 year olds were kidnapped.
2 year old little kids are currently in the den of terrorists, as I type this.
Just incase we have forgotten as a country. I want to remind you all again.
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"Meninas amadurecem mais rápido."
NÃO. Meninas são punidas mais cedo, culpadas mais cedo, assumem responsabilidades que não são delas mais cedo, são sexualizadas mais cedo e esperam que elas lidem com tudo isso mais cedo.
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This country is rotten from top to bottom:
1. I went to a resort today and the receptionist was whispering to me that he will give me a discount if I paid it into another account instead of the company account.
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The only time men turn on other men is when the men they turn on have beautiful relationships with their wives/girlfriends. Thus enrages patriarchial men as well as incels who cannot understand and are secretly envious of the man who has somehow gotten a woman to love him genuinely without forceful aubmission controlled by the provider/slavery school of thought.
It's alien to them. This is all they have ever known or found appealing and unwilling to accept any other way to be loved other than the traditionally submissive type they know.
They are angered by subversive marriage that rejects patriarchial, dominant masculinity and submissive femininity and men who just wants to partner up by loving their partner who choose submission willingly and our of love, not slavery.
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With the way things are going, if these lowlife Twitter men have their way, they’ll frame me or my wife for cheating just so they can say, “Shey we told you”
Bruhhhh! 😂😂😂 They don’t even hide it anymore. They boldly come under my comment section to tell me how they’re waiting for my marriage to crash…
But man no be God!
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1. The school could have called the mother via phone directly, informing her to remove the beads, the day before.
2. When the child came to the school the second day, the school could have called the mother insisting on removing the beads with her permission, because beads are not allowed. Alternatives, they should have told her to pick the child up to remove the beads or remove them unfailingly that day without fail, warning the child would not be allowed into the school the third day.
3. They could have told the mother to pick up the child that morning even if the house was outside of the school. If the child lived far away, would they have sent the child home? Double standards much?
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Did you read where it was written that they told the girl to tell her mother? If you have an issue with your pupil floating policies, you call/inform the parent. Did the school tell the mother personally?
What if the girl had lied that she told the mom but she did not? Would the school have been able to confirm that they communicated directly to the parent? What if the mother walked the girl to school, only for the girl to walk home alone, because of beads? Beads? Beads?!!!
Nigerian teachers are not ready. Send an 8 year old girl out of school, during school hours because beads were not removed.
Until a child is hit and dies, is kidnapped or worse before schools know that children are in their care and custody once the child gets to school. No school has been shut down yet by an enraged parent that has higher connections than a school owner. We pray no disaster befalls a child before schools learn.
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If it continues this way, many parents will end up home-schooling their kids.
"Yesterday, this woman's daughter came to school with beaded hair after their sallah celebration...My H.M told her to remove the beads when she got home yesterday because we don't allow beads in school because other children may swallow or put it in their ear or nose.
So this morning, she still came to school with the beaded hair again . Because their house is directly opposite the school...( the school head ) collected her school bag from her and told her to quickly go back home since her mother was still at home and remove only the beads. That was all.....nobody flogged her.
The next thing.. her mother entered the school compound, met me at the assembly ground where I was addressing my students, without asking me what happened and before knowing what she came for she had already torn my clothes in the presence of my students.
On behalf of all private school teachers, I am calling the Ministry of education and everybody to please come to teachers aid. We need to stop this humiliation from parents before it gets out of hand".
A school teacher cries out.....
To me this is embarrassing and the mother of that child should have done better for crying out loud...
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My children are in a school that their rules are adhered to because their rules are documented and fair to both children and school.
I also know that their school handles issues with children kindly and professionally. Not sending a child out of school, alone, during school hours because of beads in their hair.
Do you know how parents flout school rules, deliberately sometimes and unknowingly at other times? The school employees and employers have to be professional AT ALL TIMES, not behave like circus clowns. I have seen teachers brush children's teeth when they did not, teachers braid a child's hair because the parent couldn't, while calling the parents in or having a chat with them on Whatsapp, you know, real kindness in teachers.
Not these kinds of teachers who behave like MMA fighters and lack basic teacher training. Old school, arrogant teachers who think they are justified to ignore all safety rules as concerns the child because a parent broke a rule of beads in the hair.
If that child had been hit by a car, we would not be saying this nonsense.
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@edolefty Secondary school sir....Obey the school rules or take your children another environment.
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She's still in primary school...
A primary school student shouldn't have business with beads on her hair. Some primary school doesn't even allow plaiting of hair.
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"Because we don't allow beads in school because other children may swallow or put it in their ear or nose". Other children in her class or... this girl looks 8-9 years old. I would assume, her classmates will be too old to fall in the category of bead eating or swallowing. Schools should stop being so rigid. The teacher could have called the mother directly on the phone or into the school to tell her the school's decision/policy on hair accessories. Instead, they sent the girl back home alone, during school hours, because of something as stupid as beads in her hair. Even if her house was 1 minute away, what if something has happened to this child outside of the premises? Are the teachers mad? Also, Nigerian girls are made to look at their hair as some form of distraction with cutting off their hair to look like boys for "low maintenance, non distractive purposes". The mother is also a horrible parent. From the way she is even dressed, she should not have been allowed into the school premises. Looking like a tout. Also, the school shouldn't have locked her in. They should have simply suspended the child from school indefinitely, pending investigation and it's outcome. Stupid mother Stupid school with stupid policies.
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It is only in African schools that we teach girls to hate their own hair and look at it as a distraction. Once most of us relocate, we grow out children's hair, put in beads/hair accessories and even stretch it out/relax it.
Our school policies are teaching our children to hate their own hair under low maintenance/hair distracts from their studies etc. I personally think hair adds to a girl's attraction and schools do that to also reduce girls attractiveness to boys and males rather than teaching the opposite gender to respect everyone, including girls and women. It is bad enough that first world countries do not see the beauty in African hair texture and look, now schools are teaching children on not only cutting their hair but not learning how to take care of their own hair when young.
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@edolefty @Nigeriangod_ Ehh Jesu!
Ahhh this is irritating....
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There’s a reason why they don’t have much male mortuary attendant abroad anymore, it’s because men are raping corpse 🤮.
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@UgwuObenta @Kene_Nnewi Sue the parent for assault and let her counter sue for child endangerment
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@Kene_Nnewi Nigerians shouldn't judge the matter. Sue the mother for assault. School authority has clear guidelines and if you are not comfortable with the items, withdraw your child or sue the school. The teacher should take the mother to court
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