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A BIG PROBLEM IN NEW MARRIAGES TODAY Sometimes, on the first night of marriage, some men are unable to have full intimacy with their wives. This has caused many marriages to break early. People often blame the woman, but in reality, many times the issue is from the man. This can happen because of many reasons such as lack of experience, fear, young age, or health problems. In our society, people are quick to blame the bride. Some say she refuses her husband, some say she is pretending, and others blame evil forces. This misunderstanding can lead to shame, pain, and even divorce. But the truth is, it is not always the woman’s fault. Sometimes the problem comes from the man, like health issues, lack of knowledge, or impatience. Some men do not realize this. They marry 2 or 3 wives, yet still face the same problem, because the real issue was never solved. Young girls become divorced early, and young men marry many times without peace, because of misunderstanding. VAGINISMUS There is a condition called vaginismus. It happens when the muscles of the vagina tighten by themselves during intercourse. This is not the woman’s choice. Her body reacts automatically, and it can make penetration painful or difficult. Some women describe it like a door that closes when someone tries to enter. This does not mean she hates her husband. Often, it is caused by fear or anxiety. Possible causes: Fear of pain during first intercourse Lack of proper knowledge Anxiety or stress Past trauma or bad experience Infection or health issues Negative teachings about sex while growing up IMPORTANT MESSAGE TO MEN Intimacy is not a competition, and it should not be rushed. It needs patience, care, and understanding. Sometimes the problem may come from: Lack of patience No proper preparation or foreplay Stress or anxiety Undiagnosed health issues Men should understand that not every problem comes from the woman. WHAT SHOULD BE DONE The most important thing is understanding and seeking help: Be patient with each other Talk calmly and openly Seek medical or professional help Avoid blaming or shaming each other This problem can be treated with proper care and understanding. MESSAGE TO PARENTS AND SOCIETY Teach your children about marriage in the right way, both boys and girls. Do not leave them to learn wrong ideas outside. Not every problem in marriage is caused by evil or magic. Sometimes it is a health or psychological issue that needs knowledge and care. Before blaming the bride or ending a marriage, seek the truth and ask experts. Sometimes the door is not locked. It is fear that closed it. With patience and understanding, it can open again. May this message reach the right people. May Allah bring benefit, peace, and understanding to our homes.

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