
Devotion, being truly seen, transcendent love are all over Dante, Shakespeare, Tolstoy etc, and nobody’s calling Dante pornbrained. Framing desires that have deeply moved people across genders and centuries diminutively as “female fantasy” didn’t seem fair
Aella@Aella_Girl
Women have been the equivalent of pornbrained by romance novels and Disney and are expecting male partners that cater to the female fantasy of idealized emotional connection. These men mostly do not exist, men are different and imperfect and imo women should drop standards
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