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hi phriends! i'm finally done giving my phanfic recommendation doc a makeover :) sorted them by rating and created a small list of tags for each fic i update it every time i read something good so keep your eyes peeled if you're interested enjoy! docs.google.com/document/d/1ZP…

@dnpsfreckles thank you <3

@flatmatesdan good luck with coming out whenever you do!!

trans oomfs and non oomfs who are out, how did you tell your family ? (parents, siblings, extended family) i could really use some help

@dnpspigeon bahahah this is precious

@flatmatesdan it was a hedgehog with a pride flag with the caption "*hedgehogs name* is trans, he says you should respect trans people"

@dnpsfreckles yes i have a friend who told me they could pick me up if needed the day i decide to come out..

@flatmatesdan also when i came out to my parents i made sure my (very supportive) brother was in the house cause i wasn't sure how they'd react and i had a bag packed to go to my best friend's house just in case it was bad and i needed some time away which was very helpful for my piece of mind

@theythemmiagoth peut-être cet été..😬 on verra

@flatmatesdan ouais c grave une possibilité)!

@dnpsfreckles thank you for sharing!!

@flatmatesdan siblings so that part of extended family was out of my hands also idk if my aunts/uncles told my cousins or not but i guess they kinda gathered it when i started introducing myself with my chosen nsme to their new partners lol

@dnpspigeon lmao my parents don't understand memes😭 maybe i could do that for my siblings

@flatmatesdan i posted a trans meme to the family group chat while i was on a school trip and said my names theo etc etc😭

@theythemmiagoth je pense peut-être l'écrire et la lire à voix haute devant eux..? jsp

@flatmatesdan omg lache ….?? ça serait pas forcément facile pour toi de faire ça à voix haute et y’a aucun honneur à être mal à l’aise je me doute que tu le sais déjà mais bon … au final c toi qui sait rien ne t’empêche de faire cette lettre rien que comme un brouillon et voir ensuite!

@grindphouse thank you <3

@flatmatesdan good luck!! 🖤〰️

oh so what if i cry

@tpwkisaaa this time im really gonna do it

@theythemmiagoth j'hésite à le faire par lettre aussi mais les connaissant j'ai peur qu'ils voient ça comme "lache" au lieu de leur en parler en personne. ça serait quand même le moyen + facile pour moi

@flatmatesdan ils ont trouve mes dossiers de mammec dans ma chambre donc j’ai du expliquer :( mon projet était de faire une lettre hyper détaillée sur qui j’étais comment je me sentais comment j’aimerais qu’ils le gèrent ; je compte tjrs faire ça car ils font l’autruche avec la situation

@grindphouse we will see🫡 thanks for sharing !

@flatmatesdan i think thats exactly what you should do tbh 😭 i changed my pronouns on instagram and started reposting sweatermuppets (graphic design that makes trans centric stuff) on my story and figured that was obvious enough

@grindphouse i'll have to tell grandparents and cousins and idk how to.. might just change my name on facebook and see what happens

@flatmatesdan my siblings i came out to via meme in our sibling gc. extended family only really know if they follow me on instagram cause why should i have to directly tell ppl i barely see/speak to 😭

@s1sterdaniel thank you sam <3 im sorry it didnt happen on your own terms :(

@flatmatesdan but you really will feel so much freer on the other side. sending love <3

@skiptheduck thank you💖

@flatmatesdan hi i came out to my family as enby/genderfluid in march and damn i was shaking and near on crying, but i just took a deep breath and said "this is who i am, ive known for a long time, am still the same person you know, nothing will change about me" and it went well. good luck 🖤

@phistherdaniel 😟

"europe summer heatwave" WHERE???

@thedinerry je saute je crois

dan complaining about having 1d in his spotify anniversary thing meanwhile i have dr*am in there 4 TIMES because i was obsessed with him 3 years ago 🚬

@easierthanlyin_ i would rather die /hj

Does anyone wanna edit dan to the cure by olivia rodrigo or do I have to do it... And if I were to hypothetically do it who would be interested

@hearts4dnp 🚨🚨🚨🚨

@flatmatesdan flatmates mention

OMG EU NOW PLEASE