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Once you stop leaking your energy and mend the holes in your aura, stabilizing your energetic field, spiritual attacks bounce off of you like bullets off of superman.

a lover, a loner and a free spirit.

Nobody talks about the woman who had to start over from zero because a man destroyed her peace. She lost time, money, confidence, and years of her life. If that's your story, hear this, starting again isn't failure, it's survival and strength. You're not alone, and you're not broken. You're a warrior who fought to preserve yourself, who picked up the pieces, and who refused to give up. Starting over is a testament to your resilience, your courage, and your determination. It's a sign that you chose to rise above the ashes, to rebuild, and to rediscover yourself. You lost time, but you've gained so much more – wisdom, self-awareness, and a deeper understanding of what you deserve. You've learned to rely on yourself, to trust your instincts, and to prioritize your well-being. That's not failure; that's growth. Own your story, girl. Celebrate your strength, your scars, and your journey. You're not starting from zero; you're starting from experience. You're armed with knowledge, and you're unstoppable. Keep shining, and remember – your best days are ahead.

When you finally step into your power fully they're gonna wish they chose you. Cause man is it magical here.

@TheWhackyPaki Hugs Samia 🫂💓

@frequency__444 Spot on. Missing is the third paragraph about how the son is trained to treat his sister - who must comply or be punished with isolation.

The covert narcissistic mother (the black widow) This archetype is perhaps the most dangerous narcissist on a psychological level. Because her behavior is hidden. The abuse is subtle. So subtle it will keep you questioning yourself and your perception of reality. Keeping you confused and foggy headed at a mental level. Hidden behind micromanaging, controlling, discouraging behaviors built around the guise of your best interest. Mother knows best. While under the surface jealousy, insecurity, and envy of you rage. Adding that the mother archetype is our first sense of safety and security in the world following birth. If you grew up with this type of mother as a daughter you learned that your best defense and means of survival depended on you being fake and false from a very young age. To agree with mom to limit the amount of damage mom is going to inflict. Going along to get along and regulate moms emotions. You protect your inner world and learn to attune to mom and mom's needs. To protect yourself from that amount of volatility and abuse at such a young age begin the patterns you will carry into future relationships. You won't be your true self in these relationships. You may find it hard to say how you feel about things in the relationships. You may allow abuse to go on in future relationships feeling it's normal. Just staying quiet about it and managing it. The daughter or the more feminine energy (male or female) often becomes the narcissists scapegoat. The covert narcissistic mother often sees her daughter as competition in the relationship. The daughter often becomes totally compliant with the mother and becomes a small version of the mother, doing everything the mother wants the daughter to do, taking second place, becoming an extention of mom. After all nobody should get any attention except for her. When the daughter does that she later often times becomes the rebel because she cannot self actuate with that mother who's always criticizing her. Continual criticism. Continually standing in her daughter's way. Symptoms from this consistent psychological level corruption are constant stomach pain and digestive issues. Insecurity. Cronic anxiety. Extreme depression. Extreme highs and lows with your moods. Self-doubt. Low self-worth. Mom wants to keep the daughter confused, and dependant on her. And the best way to do that is to keep her small and her energy contained. Her self esteem and boundaries nonexistent. The daughter is the enemy. The problem child. The son of the covert narcissistic mother a lot of times will become the golden child. Constantly doted on. Constantly having their ego stroked by mom. He can do no wrong. The son often becomes a narcissist themselves. The mother uses the son as a secondary partner for services in relation to her femininity. She will make the son older than the son should necessarily be. If she has multiple son's she will often golden child the nicest, the best looking or the most talented son. And bring the son around with her when the father is not present. She will groom the son in relation to how that son may see females going forward. He will often choose partners that benefit him in some way practically or look good on paper. Looking at love through the lens of practicality. He may be attracted to females going forward in the push pull type of dynamic. Meaning he will offer approval when his partners comply and total disapproval when they don't. Sometimes that looks like the narcissistic rage and other times silent treatment. He may isolate his partner's or try to block them from being autonomous and making decisions for themselves. As the son grows older, the mother becomes more dependant on the son where when the son is younger, they've made them into an adult very quickly. That boy will be tied to the mother's apron strings, as the saying goes. Even if the son is in a relationship, she will always be calling upon him to help her in an inappropriate way.

mercury finally ends its retrograde on 3/20 at 3:33p.m. CT. the mental fog begins to lift, allowing you to actually act on the rebirth you've been feeling internally.

When you hit that abundance shift things just seem to magically fall into place. Bills disappear or pay themselves. Money seems to come from many sources unexpectedly. It flows from all directions when you have an energy of abundance around you. Manifestations that were held back start popping off all at once. Welcome to the prosperity timeline.

The new moon in Pisces ♓️ energy is bringing old wounds to the surface to be released. Offering deep reflection and spiritual renewal. Spiritual growth and releasing the past for good. The moon aligns with a Pisces stellium (Sun, Moon, Mars, and Mercury retrograde). Emphasizing high emotionality and emotional closure. We're putting something from the past to rest finally. You may have unexpected breakthroughs at this time. Remember tears are the sacred cleansing of the soul. It's time to release what's kept our energy in limbo.

She is power. She is grace. She is abundance. She is divinity. Her energy alone amplifies and multiplies for everyone in her energetic field. She is the slow burn of divine love embodied. An angelic energy surrounds her field. Her energy alone feels like a good luck charm.

Power doesn't always roar. It's the quiet confidence. The vibe you carry is felt the moment you enter.

Major old cycles ending. Major new cycles beginning.

Choose a partner who cares more about growing with you than being right.

The Divine Feminine collective is here to save the world. She shatters illusions through presence alone. Reveals false light. Illuminates what was once hidden. Through truth and love. Ushering in the radiant love new paradigm. We are the mystics, the seers, the oracles, the healers, the way showers, the truth tellers, the heart, the bridge, the light.

They Hate That You Survived Them. No one resents you more than the person who tried to diminish you and failed. Not because you fought loudly. Not because you exposed them. Not because you “won.” Because you didn’t collapse. They expected erosion. They expected the criticism to sink in. The silence to destabilise you. The confusion to take root. They expected you to shrink so their behaviour would make sense. And when you didn’t, something in them tightened. Here’s the part that stings when you finally admit it: Some people never wanted reconciliation. They wanted confirmation. Confirmation that their words worked. That their narrative stuck. That their version of you became your identity. They needed to see damage. Not repair. Because if you broke, they were powerful. If you doubted yourself, they were right. If you stayed orbiting their opinion, they mattered. But when you rebuild quietly… when you stabilise without them… when you stop reacting… when you stop explaining… you do something far more threatening than fighting back. You invalidate their story. If you’re still standing, then they weren’t right about you. If you’re clear, then their distortion didn’t define you. If you’re growing, then their attempt to shrink you failed. And failure is intolerable for someone who built their identity on dominance. That’s why the hostility doesn’t fade. It sharpens. That’s why they still watch you. Still take subtle shots. Still frame your stability as coldness. Your boundaries as cruelty. Your distance as immaturity. They need you to look damaged so they don’t have to look destructive. Your strength isn’t what unsettles them. Your independence is. Because independence removes leverage. You are no longer reacting. No longer seeking clarity. No longer orbiting their version of events. And when control disappears, resentment replaces it. Here’s the reframe that lands deep: Their resentment is not proof you did something wrong. It’s proof you exited the role they needed you to play. You stopped participating in your own diminishment. And when someone’s power depended on your compliance, your refusal feels like betrayal. Not because you harmed them. Because you stopped allowing harm. This is the part most survivors struggle to internalise: You don’t get punished for being weak. You get punished for becoming untouchable. Because once you cannot be destabilised, confused, shrunk, or emotionally hooked - you are no longer usable. And that’s what they hate. Not you; The loss of access. Let them resent it. Your stability is not aggression. Your clarity is not cruelty. Your distance is not immaturity. It’s evidence. They tried to rewrite you. And you remained yourself anyway. That’s not revenge. That’s sovereignty. And nothing unsettles a controlling person more than someone who cannot be broken quietly anymore. Credit:【The Self】Facebook Page #SurvivorStrength #DomesticViolence #PsychologicalAbuse #CovertControl #TraumaRecovery #NarcissisticAbuse #SelfTrust #EmotionalFreedom #EmotionalAbuse #DomesticAbuse #GaslightingAwareness #HealingJourney #CycleBreaker #Boundaries

As an adult, you might still find yourself longing for the idealized parent: the one who listened, nurtured, and truly saw you. The one who wasn't jealous or envious. The one who wanted you to succeed instead of not wanting you to out-do them for fear it will hurt their ego because they had failure to launch. The one who will finally show up and take accountability for the pain they've caused you. The one who isn't emotionally immature, emotionally unavailable, or narcissistic. There is a hidden grief associated with the idealized parent. The loss of never having the parent you needed due to emotional neglect or abuse.

We're at the center of a spiritual war with the toxic family system.

There is nothing selfish about wanting a life that doesn't require constant recovery from psychological and emotional abuse.

THE MOTHER WOUND... The mother wound is the trauma carried from the mother (from her own mother) that is inherited by her children. The most impactful relationship we have is with our mother. How she feels about herself becomes how we feel about ourselves. It becomes how we relate to others. Ideally, we would have mothers who are emotionally attuned to us. This means our mothers could understand our needs and meet them. Ideally, we would have mothers who didn’t carry unresolved trauma (which creates low self worth). This would enable her to see us for who we are and be a wise, safe guide as we navigate life. For many of our mothers, this wasn’t possible. They did not know how to regulate their emotions or cope. They didn’t know how to meet their own needs. They didn’t practice self care or teach us how to have boundaries. Their relationships reflected patterns of codependency. So, they unconsciously projected their pain onto us. They unconsciously taught us the same modeling they were taught. This is how cycles are created. Healing the mother wound is a journey. A journey of finding ourselves and unlearning patterns that we once needed to survive. Healing the mother wound allows us to connect to our true nature and trust the women around us. Reflection: Can you see your mother as she is: a human with her own wounding? Or, are you still wishing she could be something different for you? #selfhealers