The Minister Observer

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@favour16685 Men are created tk overlook factory defaults...

Do men really care if it’s hairy? 😭🤔

@amna49854 Yeah, always forever...

Be honest… knowing everything you know now, would you still say “I do”? 💍🤔

@OgeDichiVic Let it go...

You people never learn She didn't rate you even with your money Why use money to woo a lady and of all amount ₦350k in one month??? Really? You're asking if you will count your loss or continue. That one is left for your fellow guys to tell you. I have no words for you. Please advice him 🙏🙏😏

@Chisomxoxo_ Marketing strategy...

Men really need to understand that they’re women you can’t have access to, no matter how much money you have. Not all women can be lured with money.

@Ruky_Baby27 Let her go if she's decided to go, stop these emotional game you can't beat Women in that theirs...

My wife gave birth to our baby girl three days ago and instead of enjoying fatherhood peacefully, I secretly did a DNA test behind her back. Before some of you judge me too quickly, hear me out. During the pregnancy, a lot changed between us. She became more protective of her phone, more distant emotionally, and there were moments that honestly made me uncomfortable. On top of that, my friends kept putting fear in my head with stories of men raising children that were not theirs. I tried ignoring it, but the doubt kept eating me alive. I stayed with her throughout labor. I watched her scream in pain for hours. I held her hand, prayed for her, and almost cried when our daughter was born. But even after seeing everything she went through, the doubt still didn’t leave my mind. The next morning while she was sleeping in the hospital, I quietly arranged for a DNA test. The result came back yesterday. The baby is mine. I felt relieved and decided to make a joke about it online. I posted, “Just did DNA test right after birth Baby girl is mine.” I thought people would laugh and move on, but my wife saw the post and completely broke down. She started crying and asked me how I could watch her suffer for nine months, push a child out, and still think she cheated on me. Now she says the issue is not even the DNA test anymore, but the fact that I never trusted her in the first place. She said she feels humiliated and betrayed, especially because I posted it publicly. She’s now talking about leaving the marriage after she leaves the hospital. Honestly, I don’t even know what to think anymore. Some people are telling me every man has the right to protect himself, while others are saying I destroyed my marriage with suspicion. So I want honest opinions. Was I wrong for secretly doing the DNA test, or is my wife overreacting?

@iamzioraa Walk away, you're cra€¥

What should she do ???

@TheOnlyKemi Since you took it first, she'll do it again all uou need to do is what I dud: talk way...

Man cries out over alleged domestic abuse from wife. The first time my wife slapped me, I overlooked it because she was pregnant. I told myself it was hormones and mood swings. Then it happened again. And again. And again. Today, my own wife beats me almost every day. As I’m typing this, she just finished beating me because I came home late. I made a promise to myself never to hit a woman and never to involve outsiders in my marriage, but at this point, I genuinely fear this woman might kill me one day. I’ve told her several times to leave my house, but she becomes violent before I can even finish talking. People always say “a man should endure” or “what did you do to provoke her?” but nobody takes abuse against men seriously until something terrible happens. I don’t even want to leave because of my son. That boy means everything to me. Sometimes I think about running away with him, but I’m scared for her health too because she has a high BP. I’m exhausted. I’m confused. And I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.

@OjiUgo_nwa Sympathy Love, hurts like kilode. If you see how women pretend when they need help, you'll fear. Shame on her kind sha...

I met her when she was three months pregnant. she told me the man responsible for the pregnancy den!ed it and abndoned her. she even wanted to terminte the pregnancy, but I begged her to keep the baby and promised to stand by her. Even though I work as a block mould worker, I made sure I checked on her every day after work. I provided food, care, and supported her throughout the pregnancy. later, she told me her sister was struggling and asked if she could stay with us, and I agreed without hesitation. When she was eight months pregnant, I travelled to her village in Ebonyi State with my family to inform her parents of my intention to marry her. her parents accepted me and gave me the bride price list. at nine months, she gave birth and I paid all the hospital bills. I even opened a POS business for her so she could have something doing and be financially stable. The problems started when she told me someone had scammed her of ₦140,000. then the phone I bought for her was suddenly said to have been stolen, only for me to later discover that she gave it to the man who got her pregnant. I still forgave her and bought another phone. A few days later, I returned home only to discover she had disappeared with money from the POS business and other belongings. when I finally reached her, she told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along”. My question is, why did he choose her of all the women out there?🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

@onlyone_success You actually donned all these nonsense to gain attention...

Some of you who have decided to settle for less, I wonder how you sleep peacefully knowing that... Your future wife is busy collecting d¡cks in threesome currently as we speak. Your future wife is jumping from one bed to another as an OS. Your future wife is busy cohabitating with a man, and they have been banging her for years without condoms, and she has even ab...0rt£d and is on a pill. I wonder how you will be able to enjoy a leftover food that was feasted by countless men. I wonder how you are going to satisfy a woman that her v@gina is wider than a Bermuda triangle. I just sit here and wonder how you are going to deal with the trauma she has inherited from her past. Earth is hard. What do I know? This world is not my own; we are here temporarily. It's so unfortunate that so many of you will be ending up with a retired bed-to-bed midfield veteran. LET'S SHARE THE GRACE.

@farryword I hate this nonsense if you dumb don't have anything to write about, quit...

My husband wants to have segzz with me and I was really tired after all the stress of the cooking and serving guests that came to celebrate Ileya with us . I try to communicate with him telling him I am tired and having headaches but he keeps begging me that I should allow him to just enter that I don't need to do anything that he will soon release. I refused and he took his clothes and car key and left home around past 12 in the midnight and hasn't come home till now . Mind you I have never deny him segzz before but I was really very tired and my head is aching. Did I do anything wrong,,?or he's cheating on me and he probably went to meet his side chick?

@Iyoaiye_ Prepare his food as usual, serve him after the shower 🚿 in his room with all you need well explained and tell him you gk down first, thank me later. You've rejected him more than he could bear. I'm with my wife for more than 2 years now, no s£x between us both...

No S£xxx for 9months now, yet am married and living with my husband. He has refused to touch me for 9months now, he goes our and comes back late every day.He brings M0ney for food yet no communication I have 2boys for him I have béggéd to know if I offended him yet he didn't say anything. I have never disobeyed my husband before.I have tried all the tricks I know yet he keeps ignoring me Once he is back, will shower and eat his food that I cook and straight to his room and lock the door. What do I do, am really starving plzzz Ma'am what else can I do to get his attention -Chidimma Eunice @spynigeriang

@ma1ybe That will be good for you: single mother though pain...

If i find out my husband had a DNA test done after i just pushed a baby out, immediately i leave the hospital i'm leaving with my child and serving divorce papers.

@Ferguson41692 The guynis immature, really Man would have sat her down and broke the reason for it to her, after all, it will sure be for her good. I have a very close associate like that Lady but when she saw how important marriage is, she started demanding even from a married Man...

I heard a crazy story that genuinely left me confused, and I need to share it because I still don’t know who is wrong here. There is this guy who has been dating his girlfriend for about three years. Everything was going perfectly fine until he decided it was time to propose. He saved up, bought a really nice ring, and planned a surprise dinner with their close friends. When the moment came, he dropped on one knee and asked her to marry him. The girl looked shocked, started crying, but instead of saying yes, she whispered "I can't do this" and literally ran out of the restaurant. Everyone was completely stunned. The guy was so embarrassed and heartbroken. He went to her apartment the next day to get answers, demanding to know if she was cheating or if she just didn’t love him. The reason she gave him blew his mind. She said she loves him completely and wants to spend her life with him, but she refuses to get married because of how her own parents' marriage ended in a bitter, toxic divorce. She said marriage ruins relationships, so she prefers they just stay together as boyfriend and girlfriend forever without any legal papers or rings. The guy told her that’s impossible. He wants a real family, a proper wedding, and a wife, not a lifetime girlfriend. Because of that, he packed his things and ended the relationship completely. Now, the girl is crying everywhere, telling their mutual friends that he abandoned her just because of a piece of paper, even though she was loyal and ready to stay with him forever. Honestly, I’m torn. The guy wants a marriage, the girl wants commitment without the legal title because of her past trauma. Who do you think is wrong here? Is the guy justified for walking away, or is the girl being unreasonable? Let’s talk. 👇 Real vibes only ❤️

@farryword You people can lie, ehn...

Divorce rate is so high because we have so many immature men out there now who are not man enough to shoulder their responsibilities. They wants their wife to be the provider and also wants are submission. Forgetting you can't eat your cake and have it

@Omoilorin001 Congratulations 🎊, she shall be your Biological Daughter, AMEN...

This is the reason why I haven’t been active lately my girlfriend has been in the hospital for the past 3 days. Finally, I’m now a daddy ❤️❤️😭😭 My girlfriend is alive, and my baby daughter is alive too. Please congratulate me 😭❤️

@HeartMattaz Na the girl be that or this..? Thank God for the guy, saved in time...

“I Dumped My Boyfriend for Refusing to Give Me ₦500k on My Birthday” – Lady Opens Up A lady recently shared the reason behind her breakup with her boyfriend, and her story has sparked mixed reactions online. According to her, it was her birthday, and she had gone on a massive shopping spree, buying herself many expensive items. However, she soon hit her bank's daily transaction limit. Still eager to purchase more things, she reached out to her boyfriend and asked him to assist her with ₦500,000. To her surprise, the boyfriend questioned why she was spending such a huge amount on her birthday in the first place. He also told her bluntly that he didn’t have the money to give her. His response left her dis4ppointed and 4ngry. Feeling unsupported and undervalued, she immediately ended the relationship. She claimed she could no longer date a man who couldn’t give her ₦500,000 when she needed it. According to her, a man who truly loves and values her should be able and willing to meet such needs without hesitation. Many people have since cr¡t¡cized her expectations, arguing that her demands were materialistic, while others believe everyone is entitled to set their own standards in a relationship. HeartMattaz

Are you stupid or something: A single mother I picked up as sidechic with good intention to wife wanna be comparing herself to my Legally married Wife of more than a decade. She is actually insane, I've conditioned and condoned that of her but she wouldn't change: flip her off

@Chisomxoxo_ What highclass is in this, tell me seamp

Why are men afraid to approach high class women? As a man why do you get scared once you see a woman like this?

@VikyInsights Survive for the sake of marriage: I've been...

If your wife denies you sex for 6 months with no medical or underlying issues, what would you do? 🤔 -Cheat? -Walk out of the marriage? -Stay and endure? Your honest opinion only 👇🏽

@Prince_dc21_ I can't imagine, you are the one with Problem...

"This is my wife she's still very young but you'll think she's an old woman cuz of the way that she dress. I'm embarrassed by the way my wife dresses. I've bought all sorts of modern, fashionable clothes for this woman but she doesn't wear them. I married my wife a virgin; & i only deflowered her at our wedding nite. she never allowed me to touch her during the 2 years of dating until we got married. She's a church woman who doesn't joke with her religious beliefs. But I thought after marriage, she would loosen up a bit. However, I was wrong. My wife prefers dressing like the women in the Old Testament. Every time she's at home, she wear "rappa" ties a headscarf & dresses in long clothes as if she's going to a funeral. I understand that I married a decent woman, but can't I ask my wife to dress attractively just the way I want? Is the Bible against that too? I go out & see beautiful women dressed in mini skirts, exposing some parts of their bodies that really gets my attention & I admire them. But I always make sure to come back to my wife cuz i don't want to get into temptation or do anything that will come between my marriage. However, with my wife, you'll never see her knee, even when she's at home. She's always dressed in long clothes or gowns that cover everything. I've bought her mini skirts & mini gowns, but she won't wear them. Instead, she prays & rebukes me, saying she's rebuking the evu-spirit in me that's trying to tempt her then, she continues to dress in old-looking clothes & tie headscarves like she's going to a funeral. I'm tired of this situation. It's been 6 months of marriage, & I'm already getting tired of the whole situation. My friends most often mock & laugh at me & have even given my wife a nickname name referring to her as "Mary Magdalene" cuz her gowns are always almost touching the floor. I'm really bothered & confused about this. I'm beginning to feel that i married wrong because I'm a social and lively person. I wanted to marry a good woman but its gradually turning out to be a boring marriage. Pls I'm getting tired!😥🤦🏼‍♂️"