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@hamidukingu @MissLELOMK1 @MsCharlotteN @Belinda_siri That's someone post ko Facebook, then she comes here acting as if that's what she's going through...
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After paying R5k for my mama's Tombstone, they excluded me from the preparations. they didn't even tell me about the date, i just heard there's an unveiling next month from our neighbours 💔. when i asked them they tell me to leave them alone, now how should I do that while l contributed??Yhoo im fed up with my family shame 😫💔💔💔

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@JamesPearceLFC Means fuck all if that bald bastard is still in the dugout. How the fuck is he still in a job? And people like you STILL dont call him out. Spineless cunts.
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@hamidukingu @MissLELOMK1 @Belinda_siri Eish some people need to be removed from your life to keep your peace
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@MissLELOMK1 @MsCharlotteN @Belinda_siri Never block the family, better you that observe a silence 🔕
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@MissLELOMK1 @RefilweSeboko You have done your part, as harder as it seems, but your heart is clean,life goes on
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@hamidukingu @ELESMANOL @Shaibu_AO I don’t have a forgiving spirit I rather just forget about everything about you and move on and pray I never see the person again
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After my younger sister got married before me, she stopped calling me "Sister." She started calling me by my first name. At our first family meeting after her wedding, I drove my car. She drove her husband's.
After my elder brothers spoke, I was about to say something when my mother cut me off:
"Let the married woman speak first." She meant my younger sister.
I quietly stood up and walked to my car. My mother looked at me and added,
"You're not the only one with a car anymore. Swallow your pride and ask your sister how she got a man."
That was the last time I went to the family house.
Months later, I met my amazing husband. We got married. We both agreed not to have children immediately, I'm 27. He's 29. We just wanted to enjoy each other for a while. We were both okay with our decision and didn't owe anyone an explanation.
A year later we attended my younger sister's third child's birthday. She handed her baby to my husband. He smiled awkw@rdly—he loves kids, but he's scared of carrying them. They're too fragile and he fears he might drop them. He passed the child to me gently and quickly.
Next thing my sister made a comment along the lines of, "This one your husband is running away from my baby, why won't babies run away from your home."
She said it jokingly in our language, my husband didn't understand but he saw the look on my face and instead of my mother to reprimand or correct her, she laughed. I calmly returned her baby, turned to my husband, and said, "Let's go." He nodded. No questions asked.
Later, my mother called to say I was petty. That it was just a joke. My brothers called too-asking if I was jealous of my younger sister. But the one person who made the comment? She never called. Not even once.
Fast forward to today. She's pregnant again—baby number four. She and her husband want to travel for a vacation and rest before the baby comes. They need someone they trust to help watch the kids for a few days. Guess who she called?
I told her, "Oh, l'd love to help, but my husband and I are avoiding kids for now, we love our peace and quiet and you understand how important rest is for couples, right?" Now my mother and brothers are calling me w!ck£d and petty. Telling me I should apologize.
But NO!
Some lessons must be loud. And some boundaries are not revenge-they're recovery.
Source: Ajebowriter

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@ELESMANOL @Shaibu_AO Lies, human beings natural we tends to forgive as time goes on
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@Shaibu_AO I swear if my mother try this rubbish with me I fit no enter her house till she die
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@Hrhoba @Shaibu_AO She isn't living for anyone but herself,why would she do things to satisfy others?
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@Shaibu_AO What are you also doing? Get pregnant and have like 2kids . You will be 32 then, you and your husband will still enjoy your life very well. Stop creating situations that will make people insult you and later blame them. Pls is my opinion. Don't come to my comment to insult Ur dad
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@GamsahabnidaL @lelo_mkhondo If he was your son or blood brother, would you support him on that?
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@lelo_mkhondo They can't live his life for him. He should listen to his dad and follow his heart
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Keep me anonymous.
I’m 25 and working as a teacher. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 8 months and I genuinely see myself marrying her. She treats me well, respects me and brings me peace.
The problem? She’s 24 with 3 kids and suddenly my whole family is against it.
What shocks me is the hypocrisy.
My mother has 3 kids from different fathers. We were raised by a stepfather. My sisters have children with men they never married. My aunt also has 3 kids from different fathers.
Now I’m being told I “can’t marry a woman with 3 kids because I don’t have any.”
The only person telling me to follow my heart is my father.
Why do people suddenly change the rules when it’s your turn to choose love?
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@lelo_mkhondo Nice life problems, is your life bro,but I am against it too,unless you also coming with kids of your own
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