
Harish
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The husband was trying to plug a charger into his phone. "It won't go in." A few seconds later, he said to his daughter, "Your mother must have done something to it." The wife was shocked and said, "Of course, "if an earthquake happens tomorrow, you'll blame me.If Iran and America start fighting, that'll be my fault too." "Apparently everything in the world happens because of me." 😂 Funny? But have you ever felt blamed for everything? Pause..... People will say and do what they know best. The real question is: Will you give them the power to control your behaviour? Every situation can make you bitter , Or make you better. The choice is yours.




It has been 8 months, and my Father's land mutation in Ambala Cantt is still pending. Even after a formal memo from higher authorities, the concerned Anuj Patwari continues to delay the process by repeatedly asking me to “come tomorrow,” without providing any written reason or timeline. This is not a delay. This is harassment. @anilvijminister @ambala_dc1 @cmohry I request your urgent intervention.



“Self-care is often misunderstood as selfishness. But in truth, it is the foundation of inner balance. The idea of Dharma is not just about duties toward others,it also includes responsibility toward one’s own mind, body, and inner state.The body and mind are the instruments through which awareness grows. If they are constantly exhausted or neglected, neither clarity nor balance is possible. Caring for oneself is not indulgence,it is preparation. A woman is often conditioned to give endlessly,emotionally, physically, mentally,until she forgets herself. Over time, this becomes a pattern. Not natural, but learned. Not sacred, but silently imposed. But care for the self is not abandonment of others,it is restoration of the self. In a balanced household, responsibility is not gendered,it is shared. If one knows how to eat, one can learn how to cook. If one expects clean clothes, one can learn to wash and maintain them. A home is not sustained by one person’s sacrifice, but by collective participation. Yes, toddlers are dependent. But most adults are not. Even elders, within their capacity, can contribute in ways that preserve dignity and independence. Change, however, is never comfortable. When patterns shift, resistance rises. #relationshipchallenges



Most of the time, when couples come to me for counseling and I ask them to reflect on specific incidents, a very familiar pattern appears. Each one holds onto a quiet certainty: “I am right. I have never done anything wrong. It is always the other person who overreacts.” This is not unusual. It is exactly how the human mind protects itself. And the most interesting part is the ego rarely announces itself openly. Instead, it hides behind statements like: “I don’t have an ego.” “I am just being honest.” “I am simply reacting to what they did.” Why Self-Reflection Feels So Difficult Self-reflection requires you to look beyond your identity. It asks you to admit that your reaction may not be entirely justified. It invites you to see your own insecurities, attachments, and unmet expectations. For the ego, this feels like a threat. To avoid this discomfort, the mind constructs safer explanations. It convinces you that the other person is the problem. It shifts the focus outward so that you do not have to look inward. However, the reactions are never purely about the present moment, they are always rooted in past impressions. Until those impressions are acknowledged, they continue to influence behavior unconsciously.








