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Because in healthy BDSM, the pleasure isn’t coming from “someone is suffering against their will.”
It’s coming from trust, mutuality, response, sensation, psychology, and the fact the other person actively wants to go there with you.
A sadist in kink isn’t ideally trying to destroy someone.
They’re usually deeply focused on the other person.
Reading breathing, body language, emotional state, thresholds, consent, reactions, recovery.
Ironically, good sadists are often some of the most attentive people in the room because if they stop paying attention, the dynamic stops being ethical very quickly.
The difference is consent and care.
Someone who simply enjoys harming people without empathy, accountability or consent will hurt someone whether that person wants it or not.
That’s abuse.
A consensual sadist wants the shared experience.
The fear, intensity, surrender, adrenaline, catharsis, even the theatre of it sometimes.
And ideally they want the other person leaving the scene feeling safe, fulfilled and understood… not broken.
You also don’t have to personally understand or enjoy sadism for it to make psychological sense to others.
Humans are strange little raccoons in trench coats emotionally.

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